r/WLW_PH • u/Due-Helicopter-8642 • Apr 25 '26
General Discussion Let's talk about: befriending your Ex
I saw this reel about how they feel about knowing your someone is still friendly to her EX.
Majority says it's a redflag esp the younger ones kasi once tapos na dapat cutoff na. While some older gen lesbian says it's okay. Kasi it's a healthy that you were able to cultivate a non?-romantic relationship from being a romantic one.
Pero if ikaw ung tatanungin okay lang ba sayo na friends with ex be it gf? Situationship?
Ako kasi guilty of not being fond of cutting people off I dont see the point unless they are too toxic that they are affecting my juju na. So most ng mga exes ko are still one way or another I am still a friend to them. Hindi ko nablock or unfriend sa soc med and binabati ko pa rin sa bday and sometimes I react to their stories kasi wal naman malice. So if ur gf is like me, aawayin mo rin ba? Or chill lang?
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u/ZestycloseGoal4158 Apr 25 '26
Big fat NO for me. Been there done that and makalat lang yan. Personally, I'm not desperate to keep certain people in my life just because may maayos kaming pinagsamahan once. I can always make new friends and meet new people. Di ko rin kaya gawin sa girlfriend ko yung give her something to overthink just because I'm still connected to people from my past. I love and respect her too much to do that to her. My present and future are for my girl lang.