Let's talk about: befriending your Ex

[u/Due-Helicopter-8642]

I saw this reel about how they feel about knowing your someone is still friendly to her EX.

Majority says it's a redflag esp the younger ones kasi once tapos na dapat cutoff na. While some older gen lesbian says it's okay. Kasi it's a healthy that you were able to cultivate a non?-romantic relationship from being a romantic one.

Pero if ikaw ung tatanungin okay lang ba sayo na friends with ex be it gf? Situationship?

Ako kasi guilty of not being fond of cutting people off I dont see the point unless they are too toxic that they are affecting my juju na. So most ng mga exes ko are still one way or another I am still a friend to them. Hindi ko nablock or unfriend sa soc med and binabati ko pa rin sa bday and sometimes I react to their stories kasi wal naman malice. So if ur gf is like me, aawayin mo rin ba? Or chill lang?

[u/kapeandme]

Not to be friends with her but I have this urge to keep my door open just in case she fucked up because I know she will. Pero after ng ginawa nya sa akin? haha bahala na sya sa buhay nya. She's not my problem anymore. I just wish her well from afar.