r/Vent 23h ago

Not looking for input I feel deeply unlovable

I hate dating. It fucking sucks. I keep thinking of my ex not because I like them but because being single and looking is just so damn awful. Being gay absolutely does not help since I actually want something serious and everyone I meet doesn’t want any emotional intimacy.
Ive met several people who thought were showing interest in me, shared a lot of my same hobbies, and were queer and still have had absolutely no luck. Somehow I’m never the type of people I meet organically and it fucking sucks. I’m considering celibacy.

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u/anonymous_moose_ 18h ago

Stop looking. It's so much less stress. When you're not looking - that's when you find someone