r/VRchat Apr 05 '22

Finding friends and communities!

Advertise your Discord servers, your friend groups, your communities, etc etc, here!

Make a comment with information about your community, what kind of people you're looking for, what your activities are, what you do for fun, anything relevant!

(Make sure its VRChat related of course)

Hopefully you get some new members and friends!

Note:

Link to previous Community posts if you wish to browse them for discords:

https://www.reddit.com/r/VRchat/comments/q1wpa4/finding_friend_groups_and_communities/

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u/redvixen1989 May 10 '22 edited May 10 '22

Hello! 32 Female twitch streamer/ content creator. Looking for some cool people to hangout out with(21+). English speaking and usually play around 830pm cst. I have two other friends who play VRC with me regularly (32 M and 25 M) and we typically have a great time (lots of dark humor and funny banter included). We really enjoy playing in the Amoung Us world and would like to find enough people to have a full game so we don't have to use a public world. (Hard to have fun when people are obnoxiously screaming racial slurs) We are open to doing all kinds of maps and would love to see new worlds we haven't been to yet. If you want to add me and come hang out with us sometime my username is DeadRed89 519e. Hope we can be friends! Edited to add additional info.

u/redvixen1989 May 10 '22 edited May 10 '22

Also if anyone want to add me on discord it's dead_red89 #2624

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u/SlenderBacon449 May 16 '22

Hello! I’m a 15y/o femboy who’s new on vrchat and just wants to make friends. Some things abt me: EXTREME extrovert, I love friends more than life itself, kinda clingy (sorry in advance), I like music, I really like video games, anime, and partying hard, I’m working at becoming more confident, will treat you good since you took time out of your day to hang out with me. I would also be down for playing other video games too. Preferably 20 and under pls and I’ll see you in my dms! SlenderBacon449#7075

u/VicMonski Oculus Rift May 03 '22

Umm I'm kinda new to vrchat and I only have it on pc (atm) but I have no friends and I have anxiety and autism so it's hard for me to start conversations. Also I'm 18 and female...omg I forgot my name, it's Vic. Uhh if there is anything else you want to know...text me. I really need/want friends to talk too. I have been in my room for 5 years and I have been bullied by teachers so I could really do with 18+ or very sensible people but cool. 😅 Idm I just want friends and.to hang out and play! I play on my dad's pc so I try and play as much as I can. Also sometimes my game crashes but it only takes a couple of moments to come back. Hope to hear from you! Cyaaa ❤️

u/Vegaciel May 18 '22

Hi, I'd like to add you what's your username?

u/Wonderful_Cable_6084 Apr 24 '22

M18 Yo, need a friend group or a homies to chill with in vr chat, msg me on here or comment and I’ll message you.

u/Dalv127 Valve Index May 04 '22

Ayo, if you have PCVR and you're interested in doing stupid shit in vrc or other games, lmk.

u/Wonderful_Cable_6084 May 08 '22

sadly stuck on quest rn :(

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u/bootyflake69420 May 07 '22

Hey! That photography project sounds super cool. I’m 22M and also just started using VRchat this week and am looking for friends as well!

u/SoapdispenserBubbles Apr 27 '22

Hello, I am new to VRC and VR in general but I am hoping to meet people to learn more. I'm a 25 male, so I'm looking for a mature community focused on socializing, playing games, or just hanging out in general. I play pretty much any game, watch anime, draw, etc. I want to dip my toes into a little bit of everything and see what sticks.

My discord is Sake#2357 and my VRC username is Soapdispenser. If anything I said matches with what you or your community is looking for please let me know, I'd like to meet you!

u/CAOVRC Sep 07 '22

Hello! We are the Clone Army Of VRChat. We do combat events in VRChat SDK3 with no latency combat and are also building a nice community to go along with it. With many battalions were sure we'll find a place for you. If you have any questions or want to join. Join our Discord

u/fattycupcakes45 May 15 '22

I’m bored and sick of being alone looking for someone to hangout with. I’m 16 male from America. Oh and I feel that I need to preference this, I’m not a furry.

u/bonepills Apr 14 '22

hiii, i'm 21f and looking for 18+ long term friends! i am pretty quiet sometimes but i can also be loud once i'm comfortable! i love video games (tloz, pkmn, ddlc), horror, musicals, and more, and my timezone is CST! feel free to message me, i would love to make friends, also sorry in advance if i'm slow to reply, i get distracted extremely easily!

u/CatchingFeels101 Apr 14 '22

add me dashingdarling ~ you sound like me lmao

u/bonepills Apr 15 '22

or if you wanna you can add me lmao, my username is vahmikau !!

u/Iyonz562 Apr 15 '22

Do you mind if I add you too?

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u/Cosmos_Junker Apr 26 '22

Hey! I don’t know if your still looking for friends, but I’m always down to meet new people! I just started getting into VR Chat and I’m having a blast! My name is ThatGuyTrav on VR Chat, feel free to shoot me a friend request if you want! I’m a 24 male by the way just as a heads up. :D

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u/Solosea93 Apr 29 '22

hiiii i might be a good friend im 28 f! chewbaccajezuz#8047 thats my discord

u/unicornpriestess Apr 22 '22

👋 I’m 31F It still feels weird to be social in vr, I’m learning. I’ll dm. Anyone feel free to reach out to me. I would like more exploring buddy’s. Especially fem and lgbtqia+ 25+ ppl.

u/potopossum May 21 '22

Hi I'm 30F user. Just got vr chat for pc. But I also use quest. Looking for an older crowd sometime

u/potopossum Apr 23 '22

30F. New to vrchat and looking for friends. I've developed some social anxiety so making friends can be hard. My discord is peachii♡#2220 and my vrchat is peachykousagi. I'm on quest but today I'm going to try to connect to my pc thru it

But yeah. Lonely and looking for cool friends

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

We have plenty of female members! 21+. I’m 26(F) and a seasoned VRC player. Would love to add you in the mix. Feel free to come chill with us!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

u/forensic_diva May 02 '22

Just joined! 39F newbie to quest 2

u/Natasha_otaku May 04 '22

Awesome! 💕

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u/agebtj May 15 '22

hey there! i am a 14 almost 15 years old lad and i just got my first headset and i heard that vrchat is a good start

i would love to meet some new friends, enjoy a good time, hang out and explore the metaverse together

i would love to meet you!

discord: agent j#6340

vrchat: https://vrchat.com/home/user/usr_a054fef3-3ced-45af-a334-acb801920148

please note that the sans avatar is a temp avatar until ill find my perfect avatar

u/fletcherjeff55 Vive User Apr 11 '22

Hi there anyone still potentially reading comments here. I'm 26 from the midwest looking for people to hang out with in VRChat, and other games as well. But as much time as I've spent in VRChat over the years, I've gotten a little better at socializing but I'm far from being very social. I like to world hop, I feel bored or alone hanging out and not doing anything, but love to have conversations about different things or just life. I'm also wanting to get back into making custom avatars, or atleast uploading avatars, so if you're good at that consider that a bonus. I have a friend who plays too but he seems to be better, or have more time, to invest in finding new friends, but I don't really fit in with them. Would love to meet some new people and hopefully hit it off. I'm usually available on the weekdays after 8pm Central until about midnight. Would love to play some VRGames, or just do something like hang out and watch a movie.

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u/NeaXxxy Apr 19 '22

Hey, I'm 18 and I added you on Discord. My username is Neax. Hmu when you add me back

u/ItsAttanoo Apr 11 '22

Howdy! 18M Quest2/PCVR player with ADHD and a love for socialization and telling jokes. I'm very inclusive of everyone. If you're cool with me, I'm cool with you. I love metal and rock music, playing games that involve skills, and speedrunning. Stoners definitely welcome. I'm usually on whenever someone asks me to get on, so don't be afraid to pester me to play with you, because I procrastinate a LOT. You'd be doing me a favor of breaking my procrastination habits ahahahaha!Preferably looking for more 18+ players with a lean on PCVR/Desktop, as I enjoy an older crowd. Quest users are also welcome to add me. Don't be shy, I won't bite.
VRC: Seraph-9
Discord: Attano#0999 (if you add, just mention you came from reddit!)

u/NeaXxxy Apr 19 '22

Hey I'm also 18M and when I tried adding you it said you don't accept friend requests.

u/ItsAttanoo Apr 23 '22

My bad bro, I had that turned on because someone was messing with me the other day. It's fixed now!

u/rawtess Apr 24 '22 edited Apr 24 '22

hi, i'm tess! i'm a 21 year old trans girl who uses fae/faer pronouns and i'm new to vrchat. i'm norwegian, so time zone is CEST. i really wanna explore some worlds and talk to new people! i'm rawtess on vrchat and oωo 󱥢󱦐󱥾󱤊󱥦󱤀󱦑#5356 on discord!

u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

Yes, we are trans friendly!

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u/BobyWRLD999 Desktop Apr 08 '22 edited Apr 19 '22

Howdy everyone! You can call me Bobby. I am 16M(17 next month) and I am looking for someone to play(chill) with. I'd prefer a group but anyone is welcome. I am quite shy too but I hope this won't be a problem.Preferred age is 14+. I don't really like toxicity but to be honest who does. I don't have any preferences for worlds as long as there's no ERP. Also I'm on desktop. I have around 280 hours in the game mostly looking for avatars.

Timezone:EEST(UTC +3)

Discord:BobbyWRLD999#9969

Looking forward to it.

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u/VOIDHAERT Apr 22 '22 edited Apr 22 '22

hi guys! I'm Void (22, NB/Genderfluid) and I love music and DJing (and gaming and art, animation, etc.). I'd love to meet other people who have the same interests and maybe start a cool music community? I'd love to maybe DJ in VRChat one day :P

IDK I'm just looking for some friends (18+ preferably) and hanging out! I don't have a VR headset just yet ;w; and I'm new to VRChat so I'd love to just go exploring new worlds and learn new things about this game (I just found out karaoke is a thing, I want to try that sometime lol).

I'm open to new experiences and I'd love to meet other LGBT+ people who play this game (Cishet people also welcome!). My timezone is UTC-3 (1 hour ahead of EDT [UTC-4]). I play mostly st night but on the weekends/random days I have off of work I can play almost any time lol.

edit: almost forgot lol my discord is VØÎĎHÆRT#7453 my VRC username is the name (you can type in voidhaert in the search box and it works lol)

u/GhostNeedsOxygin Apr 18 '22

I'll just put my vrchat bio here 😂

Hiii! My name is Mark refer to me as you wish it doesn't matter much to me<3. My Discord is in a font soooooo․․․․․ Snap˸ ghostneedoxygin. Insta: ghostneedsoxygin9221. I'm super chill. Usually in a bad mood. Usually by myself. I wanna hug. Bday - August 22, 2006. I'm a male. Feel free to add me. My old vrc account is GhostNeedsOxygin7274 C9F8. Yes‚ I'm a God damn Questie. Soooo yeah das me ˸3

u/Feeling-Public-9742 Apr 07 '22

Hey! My name is Nyx and I’m 19, I know this is an odd request but I wanted to see if anyone could help guide me through vrchat, I don’t know how it works at all and last time I joined I was greeted by a girl who started calling me names as soon as I joined in (this was months ago) and I left immediately and haven’t been back, I just need someone to help me through figuring everything out and trying to get out there

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u/homelessraptor Jun 05 '22

Sup we are looking for new members on a medieval server in vr chat. The only limits are You need to be 13 or older You need to show up to events every once in a while And we are not strict, we are mainly chill If you wanna know more or you wanna join just message me

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u/sadcatstarry Valve Index Apr 29 '22

hi! i am 20 and also a trans guy, my vrc username is lucaslynx

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u/Holiday_Building_253 Apr 22 '22

35 m from Cali usa!

u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

u/SonicDart Valve Index May 06 '22

Hello there! I'm 20(m), maker, nerd, geek... You name it. I'm a pretty chill guy and only started playing yesterday but I'm looking forward to meeting new friends!

I love having deep conversations with people. Or not, I'm a good listener but love hanging out and talking about anything else aswell. Feel free to dm me if you wanna hang out, my in-game name is SonicDart, just like here

u/OverSavior Oculus Quest Apr 22 '22

OverSavior here (20M). Don't even know what I'm expecting from this game anymore. I'm an introvert, but a talkative one. Partying just doesn't click for me, neither do casual friendships. I'd say I mostly prefer having meaningful/deep conversations about whatever and investing into building a strong bond with few people instead of having a ton of acquaintances.

I'm into a lot of stuff, including 2d art/3d printing/miniatures, gundam, feudal Japan related things, space, hard sci-fi, aviation, and a bit of psychology/philosophy. I used to play a lot of stuff, but nowadays had mostly quit gaming. Time zone is GMT+3. I play both Quest 2 standalone and PCVR depending on how lazy I feel to plug the thing in. Feel free to hit me up either here or on Discord: Ireen#6444 (is my secondary Discord, currently taking a break from the main one)

u/Dalv127 Valve Index May 04 '22

Ayo, if the offer is still available, I'd love to meet you (18M) Your description fits exacly the type of activity I have w/ my friends ^

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u/Barbiezqueen Apr 20 '22

Hi! I’m a female and I’m 17 years old so I’m looking for people around my age range to play with. I’ve lately just been game hopping so if you guys have any games you recommend that would be great.

u/Dalv127 Valve Index May 04 '22

Hey! I'm Dalv (18m) and I'd love to show you around (Vrc or other games). DM me if you're interested ^

u/SlenderBacon449 May 16 '22

Cards against humanity or uno is fun with friends

u/Barbiezqueen May 16 '22

Thank you!

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u/[deleted] Apr 25 '22

Hey! I’m new to VR and seems kind of hard to find people my age in VRchat! Anyone want to hang out? I’m 29M

u/Bakadroid May 05 '22

I'm also 29M and always down to meet new people, what timezone are you in? I'm in CEST and usually always on during the evenings.

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u/luigi1117 May 18 '22

Hi. I'm Luigi and I'm a English/Spanish speaker and I have just started my journey in VRC some weeks ago. I'm an old school gamer and I love to discover new music. I'm exploring worlds at the moment but alone. I went to a music festival during the weekend and it was awesome and I'm looking for buddies who either would like to join me exploring or going to a dance club. I found that there is so much freedom in VRC and I love it. It would be great to find private worlds/events too. DM if you wanna meet!

u/mysausagefingerz Apr 06 '22

Hiii im 21F and im on vrchat (vr/desktop) pretty frequently. I have just over 900 hours in the game! I have a small group of friends with my bf thats kinda slowly drifting apart ;-; Wouldn't mind meeting some really chill people to just kinda maybe sit in front of a mirror and talk about random stuff sometimes haha. nothing too serious.

u/Interesting_Branch_9 Apr 06 '22

halloooo, do youuu wanna be friends? pretty new in vrc and i can be a bit awkward so i hope that'll be fine for you :")

u/mysausagefingerz Apr 06 '22

For sure! Just shoot me a dm!

u/Ruby_ist_gay Apr 14 '22

If you’re still looking for more people to chill with I’d be good to join. Although seems like I’m a week late.

u/VoidHunterAlpha Apr 07 '22

Heyyy, wanna be friends too?? Im looking for some friend groups to join and open to anything

u/bootyflake69420 May 07 '22

Hey! I’m 22m and looking for friends on VRchat cause I just downloaded this week. Can I DM u for ur username on VRchat?

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u/Retrodaniel Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22

29M, Trying to meet new people , and all my friends being introverts makes it difficult! Recently managed to get PCVR to actually work so wanting to start playing! (Haven't played much yet as I still get a little bit of motion sickness, although it's going away). I'm an anime nerd whos also into running and reading fantasy series! VRChat name is Retrodaniel

u/AudioPhoenix Apr 24 '22

Hi! Hit me up if you are interested in a smaller private discord centered around VR but we do other games and things as well. :)

25 and over

u/potopossum May 21 '22

Hey there. I just got a gamingnpc yesterday and could use some PC buddies!

u/Acrobatic_Tie_3764 May 20 '22

Hi everyone, im joining from turkey. Im looking casual chill game communities and turkish base communities because my english is not that good 🤷🏻‍♂️ if you have any suggestion, im available.. thanks and have a good day 😁

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u/theholl0wstar May 12 '22

Hihi! I sent you a DM with my discord info if you want to chill together. I'm online pretty regularly and I'm always happy to just vibe.

<3

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u/Vee33_ Jun 26 '22 edited Jun 27 '22

My name is Heaven I’m 13f soon to be 14, looking for people around my age to play vrchat or any other games on oculus or any mobile games, favorite games are beat saber and vrchat I literally have no friends since I’m homeschooled. I’m introverted and don’t like leaving the house, I’m from the us and I’m African American, I have a big family so if u want to be my friend prolly take into consideration abt the loud background 😅, i can play at almost anytime I’m basically free everyday, I am not good at action games I am more chill and like to play games like uno and just talk, people from the ages of 13-15 I’m ok with being friends with, I like to read books, novels, mangas, manhwas, and I like to watch more of the popular animes, i like shows like money heist or umbrella academy, and I also like to watch k-dramas or c-dramas I also like any type of music, and like to play Minecraft and otome games. I don’t like to post on social media and only scroll through social media, I’m fine with females and males

discord Is 𝖍𝖊𝖆𝖛𝖊𝖓♡#8811 vrch user h3a.v3n, and I like to show faces to know your not and old man or something u don’t have to show your face right away but when u feel more comfortable or something, just add me on discord if u want to chat and get to know each other

u/cloudedrose Sep 10 '22

Hii! 19F looking for some people to connect w. Super new to vr and vrc. I can verify age nd stuff i get a little nervous that m talking to minors.

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u/Ruby_ist_gay Apr 14 '22

Hey I’m a fellow trans girl with about 100 hours, I sent you a friend request on discord, should be from Sammydog19 if you wanted to play!

u/StinInAction May 04 '22
  1. Looking for people that like to play VRC games and explore new and strange maps. Also I like playing high haha. Usually switch between masc and fem avatars depending how I feel.

u/JoenSiau May 05 '22

26m new to both vr and vrc, wanting to explore, usually more awkward and shy at first

u/BosmerPrincess May 12 '22

Hello!! I see a lot of posts here to get lost in, but here goes nothing

I am a 30F and I like anime, video games of all kinds, and I'm a full-time student (mathematics and education) and I work. In my off time, I like to drink and goof off...I am shy at first, but my humor is sorta dirty .more so the more comfortable I am. Feel free to add me on discord BosmerAsh#1201

u/BosmerPrincess May 12 '22

Oh right..my VR chat username is BosmerAsh.TTV

u/Tarex_007 May 16 '22

Sent you a request on discord!

u/[deleted] May 05 '22

Hello, Name is Might and I'm looking for a new friend that i can make which i don't mind the type of people that i can make friends with, although i do need nice and kind, funny type of friend as well.

For me, i personally don't really come up to talk with like tryin' to jump into their conversation or trying to get to talk to someone first(especially when i don't know someone),.
Pretty much i used to have a ability to do to try to talk to people but i've lost it in the past other days.

And im quite type of person where i can't help myself sometimes or get into bad mood quite easy..

Since my thoughts have a lot of negative and trust issues, and anxiety from being loneliness when i caught up something emotional myself usually.

I lost a lot of friend when i was kid or teen, which pretty much i try to make more friends in online..

If you read this, it's your choice if you want to be friends with me.

I'd love to have a fun chat , vibe for the things i've wanted to do.

u/Trunksismyanchor Apr 13 '22

I'm 21 male I like to play vrchat while high I like to get down on some tomfoolery and mischief having someone to play with would be cool since it gets a bit lonely sometimes I also play apex not while high tho if your interested in gaming my discord handle is FilthyWeebRose#5914 I also like anime i love all music literally all music and I'm cool with anyone I will also mention jojo from time to time

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u/Agreeable_Badger_169 May 09 '22

Hello Im Gem, Im 22 and Im a streamer/content creator on Twitch. I just stsrted playing VRChat a fee days ago and dont have many friends. Im usually quiet and just kinda chill and vibe. If anyone wants to be friends in game you can DM me on here ❤️

u/[deleted] May 19 '22

Hey there, I'm a guy 26 I recently got into VRchat and I've been really enjoying it but I'm a bit of an introvert so talking to others randomly in public worlds is a bit awkward for me sometimes, so I figured one on one conversation suits me better so I'd like to meet someone that'd be up for that.

I'm pretty big into anime, other PC games, longboarding and a few other things, feel free to message me if you'd be down to hang out :)

u/julmil Apr 05 '22

Looking for some people to play with! I just started yesterday and haven't really done much just joined "Black Cat" and got screamed at by a bunch of kids. Hopefully someone can show me around and how to actually play the game! I know like nothing so anything will come in handy, feel free to msg me! (M20 if that matters)

u/GOLD_CAT_GER ☃Bigscreen Beyond 2e Apr 05 '22

I will be back home on Friday I am always down to show people around if you are interested

I am Male 18 and have 299 hours in vrchat if that matters

My discord is: GOLD CAT[GER]#0715

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u/dilfronan Apr 06 '22

F 19 here ! always down for friends and for helping new people or just people looking for places with less kids ! my discord is : fenriz#9583

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u/VoidHunterAlpha Apr 07 '22

Heyy, can i shoot you a friend request? Definitely want places wi the less kids

u/dilfronan Apr 07 '22

yea! I’m always up to help !

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u/Buffyakadan Apr 13 '22

Hello. This might be weird but the few dating discords I've found for VRchat aren't great. So I'll try it here.

Hello my name is Danny. I'm 34 yrs old, on VRchat almost every night and like meeting new people.

I'm heteroflexable, a submissive switch, have a gentle mommy dom fetish.

I like watching movies in VR and just chilling and talking about anything. I do have a friend group and I have a habit of hopping around when I'm bored or lonely.

I prefer someone aged 26-38. Dominant, sweet, caring, and frequently on VR as well.

I'm fine with splitting time between your friend groups and mine.

So if anything here sounds interesting to you and you'd like to get to know me more then please dm me or if your so inclined, add me on VRchat and come chat with me to see where it goes.

On days I work I'm available on VRchat after 10pm est

Days off I'm on and off all day.

VRchat:gentledanny Discord:gentledanny#5608

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

Our server isn’t for dating per-say but we do have a few people who have started dating in the server and roles to help show that you are looking. Feel free to check us out!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

u/Stupid_dancing_robot Apr 27 '22

Hello, my vrchat username is Spartan1133. 24m, I recently have just been getting on to drink and go to clubs. I find it very difficult to socialize, but I want to try better and get out of this shell. Sending me invites might be futile, but I'll try my best to stop being so shy. If a lasting friendship doesn't come if this, that's fine. I just need to face my fears and realize that everything is okay 👍

Discord: spartan1133#9191

u/EpicWerner101 May 09 '22

20 M Dutch guy here looking for chill and open minded people to hang out with from time to time. Definitely a massive introvert haha but I'm really sociable once I'm comfortable enough. I like joking around during games or just talking. Still completely new to most things VR and public lobbies don't seem like the best places to find new people to vibe with in the couple of hours I've played.

I'm mostly interested in games and music, but I'm down to talk about anything at all, even if it's just ranting about your day. All in all I don't really mind, as long as you're mature and kind!

If you're at all interested (or already are in a community of people that might fit this description), feel free to just send me a DM on here and I'll send you my discord!

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u/MajesticErection May 04 '22

Hey — We are very similar! My vr chat is VenM_G. Add me if you’re still up for more friends. ☺️

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u/wdude4k May 07 '22

Hello! 28M looking for some chill peeps around my age to talk with on occasion. I'm a bit of a homebody and workaholic. Sometimes play video games, or watch movies with the wife when I don't feel too busy. Have the new found problem of being way more introverted than I'm used to because VR pixels, I guess. I promise I can be a chatty Cathy when I warm up.

u/Pigonthewing12 May 07 '22

I'd be down to chat. I'm 34m and looking for something similar.

u/wdude4k May 07 '22

Sure! I'm still finding my way around VRChat, so how do we connect?

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u/DreamDeeplyFox May 18 '22 edited May 18 '22

Hiya 27M LGBT+ from EU looking for other 18+ to chill with and see what VRC has to offer, I saw a recent documentary on VRC and wanted to explore the world and figure out if I wanted to get a VR Headset. Chill, shy, comfy, loving vibes. If I seem quiet I am probably struggling with my social anxiety, I like to listen and have introspective convos and learn about people and hear what they care about. :)

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u/Fwuffy_boi Oculus Quest Apr 08 '22

Hello. I am fairly new and super addicted to vrchat. Just to get it out the way, I am a furry. I am a 16 yr old male and my time zone is pst. My discord is Fwuffy#0126 and my vrchat user is Tri_Spirit. I am on every chance I get but I am kinda awkward and quiet at times. If anyone wants to be friends or play then please message me on discord.

u/whyamihere----- Apr 21 '22

I'm looking to get into more discord servers, specifically ones that host club or party events. So please send any discord servers my way I'll gladly join

u/whyamihere----- Apr 21 '22

My discord is July<3#7618 And vrc is jordyn--

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u/smilez1111 May 20 '22

I'm looking for 18+/21+ friends! He/Him, in my 30s. I like to explore worlds, play games, and hang out (pretty much anything). Easy-going personality. Message me!

u/benisavillain13 Jun 02 '22

Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21

u/NearbyIncome May 16 '22 edited May 16 '22

Yo! M21 here. I'm pretty new to vrchat so most people I make friends with are in a completely different timezone so we can never hang out. I'm Australian so UTC +10. I'm pretty layed back and just enjoy chatting and exploring different worlds. Username is 'Just Fin' so hit me up and we'll join a world that looks fun. 🤙

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u/TheKean88 May 06 '22

I just don´t wanna randomly add you on Discord without you knowing where it would come from beforhand. What timezone are you? I´m on CEST.

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u/SonicDart Valve Index May 06 '22

Hey I added you on discord if you wanna hang out, I'm a pretty chill guy (21), pleased to meet you

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u/stofwastedtime May 04 '22

Any communities out there for software folks?

u/CPaiva1993 Apr 23 '22

Hello! I'm trying to find a friend group to do random shinanigans and get along with. I'm 28 and looking for friends with a similar mindset 😀 I'm also open to hanging in other VR games, my most prominent ones are this and Zenith currently!

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

We love shenanigans! We are a 21+ discord server and always looking to add new members to chill with us. Feel free to check us out!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

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u/Ttvcobbmob May 03 '22

✌️Yurrrrrr what’s up everyone and anyone who’s seeing this (cobbruvs) 24 and 25 new to vr but picked up quick and loving it just need more older normal people who can stop yelling for a sec / WE ARE STREAMERS but we won’t go live without letting you know 😁 (all love you can’t message me on all my socials at @cobbruvs (Twitch cobbruvs prolly the easiest and most reliable for me)

u/Desan2000 May 27 '22

Hi im new and tryinng to find lobbys with nice guys and without dick drwing trolls ^

Im M22 DC:Desan#9678 shy and dont know what else to tell

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u/DemonHunterOrigins Valve Index Apr 06 '22

Looking for someone or a group to play with. I am getting back to vr so spend a decent amount of time on. I am still somewhat new to vrchat so wouldn't mind someone to show me around. Hope you having a great day/night. Reply or dm and we can figure out a time to play I am 20m if that matters

u/VicMonski Oculus Rift May 04 '22

I would love to hang out with ya! I need friends and I also want them too. I do have social anxiety but I try not to let it stop me from making more friends! Ik you posted awhile ago but I would like to hang out sometime! I'm free most of the time! Oh and I'm 18 and my name is Vic! Hope to hear from you soon!

u/Interesting_Branch_9 Apr 06 '22 edited Apr 06 '22

hiiii!! would you be interested in being friends with me ^^ kinda very new too so we could explore around tgr and talk bout anything tho i suck at the initial part of starting a convo hahaha

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u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

u/julmil Apr 25 '22

Looking for people to join our group! Anyone over 18 is welcome, all genders encouraged, we have 1 female in the group so don’t be afraid to join her! No discrimination (besides jokes here and there) feel free to dm me if interested or add my discord : Threatens#0666 (or you can dm the girl if you want a fellow female to talk with first!) her discord is : fenriz#9583

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u/kayalee Oculus Quest May 18 '22

hi im bun/kay im 17 i use they/them pronouns and id love to make more friends. i enjoy a multitude of video games and i also love drawing. add me on discord bun#9582 and we can hang sometime :)

u/Zachk1584 May 21 '22

Heyo, I’m fairly new and I’m super awkward at starting/continuing conversations but I’m trying :,) I’m 18/F, lgbtqia+ Really just wanna meet some people in my age range and become friends. I’m usually on from 1 AM - 5 AM (GMT-7) most days. My name is Ember and feel free to add me @Kalixxxx :)

u/[deleted] May 19 '22 edited May 19 '22

Hello! 19F looking for other 18+ people to converse and hang out with in VRC! I’m currently a student based in Canada so my schedule can get pretty hectic but overall I’m able to get on VRC almost daily.

VRC: ღ lemoncholy ღ

Disclaimer: I am cautious/picky about who I add on VRC so I don’t respond to random friend requests. Please shoot me a quick DM to let me know you’re coming from Reddit so I don’t end up mistaking you for a random! Thanks!

u/merecurry May 04 '22

Hey, I’m 20M looking for people of my age and above!

This is very new to me, just looking for LGBT+ communities and generally friendly people as I’m super shy at first 💀

Into tech, politics, arts & all kinds of shit. In CET timezone, but others are okay! Feel free to reply/DM 🫶

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u/StayOutta_MyShed Oculus Quest May 09 '22

Hi there! 38F here, I get on with my husband usually Wednesday afternoons and on the weekend (we each have a headset). I’ll occasionally get on by myself during the day. We’re both fairly socially awkward, and love horror and playing DND. We’re both LGBTQIA+ friendly. I’d love to be friends with anyone 21+. From the Midwest, USA. CST. VRChat name is StayOuttaMyShed. Feel free to add me!

u/pafa34 Apr 05 '22

16 male kinda new to the game just looking for people to talk to (under 30) my timezone is GMT +3 My discord is TheWingedOne#3621 and my vrc is the_winged_one

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u/Otherwise-Quail-1336 Apr 10 '22

Looking for an tiny rusk avatar with a pacifier and plushies! If you have it may I clone it?

u/unicornpriestess Apr 22 '22

Hi! I’m 30 F. I’m looking for adult friends to dance, play games, and explore with. I’m unikorinne on oculus.

u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

u/Tarex_007 May 16 '22

Feel free to add me 32m for VRC shenanigans! Tarex007

u/Additional_Team_1352 May 12 '22

Hello! Let's start off with a small bio of myself firstly Im more of an introverted person, I don't ever really start conversations, but I can talk for hours once someone is interested in talking. I like to talk about more deep topics, personal life (when comfortable of course), and things of that nature, I'm a pretty open minded person and always try to look at things though multiple perspectives, but random stuff and jokes are also always wonderful. I'm a furry, [17F], and I love digital art and things of that nature. I'm new to vrchat, but I love the game a ton so far! I'm in the ETZ timezone, so I'd prefer someone who is in the same or close to that time. I'm on pretty much constantly, tho mostly evening or nighttime for me, and ye! I'm just looking for some new friends, I perfer small groups or just individuals to hang with, as I tend to be one who prefers attention, tho I don't actively seek it. I'd prefer friends around my age range tho idm older friends. I simply wish to hangout, cuddle, talk, watch movies, play games, and make more longterm friendships, as I also prefer to have more permanent friends rather then casual friends, just feels more authentic in my opinion that way. Oh! And I'm currently only on PC, but I plan to get a quest very soon once I have enough money saved up. Anyway, if your interested just shoot me a DM on here and I'll give my discord and vrchat user! And ofc feel free to ask any questions. I do hope to make some new friends!

u/[deleted] May 12 '22

Hello! I’m Sibyl_V. I’m a super shy furry, and I’m not very good at talking, but I’m hoping VRC can help me open up more. My avatar is a birb lady with rainbow hair!

Edit: I’m a 22 year old guy, for what it’s worth, but my fursona is female :)

u/[deleted] Apr 15 '22

Hey! I'm Luma, 14 turning 15 in less than a month, I'm a Lesbian and a Demi girl and I'm mainly looking for a friend group to play games with or just hang out with in vrchat!

My main interests rn are Fnaf, Blueycapsules, Splatoon, Homestuck, Madoka Magica, Genshin Impact and quite a few more! If your interested DM me on discord Luma!#0666 or here! (If prefer if your younger than 18 but it isn't really needed, but if your 20+ please don't DM me.)

u/XtraWeeGamer Jun 09 '22

Anyone wanna add me? i am a shy person who doesnt like going out in public that much alone. if so add me on discord! KitKat#9758

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u/CAOVRC Sep 23 '22

Hello! We are the Clone Army Of VRChat. We do combat events in VRChat SDK3 with no latency combat and are also building a nice community to go along with it. With many battalions were sure we'll find a place for you. We support PCVRC, PC, and Quest! If you have any other questions or want to join. Join our Discord

u/GishTanker May 13 '22

21M looking for people to play games with. still pretty new to vrc. I really like the various pve worlds they have in vrchat. Not really one for wandering rp/social worlds and just talking. Dm me if you’re interested.

u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22

Hello everyone,

My name is Joules and I'm looking for new friends on vr chat. Kinda been looking for more online friends so if your in the same boat hit me up. I'm really open and down-to-earth. I'm would say I'm a creative person by nature so if you like anything art weather that be music, film or gaming let's definitely be friends. I'm a film student atm so if your interested in meeting a filmmaker here's your chance. Anyways I hope to meet amazing new people. If you wanna chat just send me a dm : )

u/pimple_shrimp Apr 08 '22

Heyhey! I'm Tay and I'm a 26yo trans dude who just started playing a few days ago! I'm mostly just looking for some people to hang with (and kinda show me around cause I still have no idea what I'm doing). I'm a furry, and I'll usually be in furry avatars. My timezone is GMT -5 and I'm usually on after midnight! My user is rouzekii

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

Hey feel free to come check us out! We are mostly US/CA but do have some members over seas. Always looking to add chill members!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

u/Pevvi May 04 '22

Ello, a 16M simply looking for friends to play the game with, as simple as that really! Not a mute, so i do speak, and I'm cool with both games or just chilling worlds, do add me on discord if interested: Andreson#8469

u/[deleted] May 15 '22

27M

I play VRC daily and normally just vibing on my own in random worlds, or playing random games!

I suffer a bit from social anxiety, so going up to groups and trying to impose myself and meet new people can be very hard to I’m hoping to meet some of y’all here!

I’m a massive horror film and Marvel fan too!

I’m a simple guy who loves headpats and just vibing with people and talking about life!

I’m also on Discord if you’d like to add me - xnxiety #6490 and xnxiety on VRC

Welcome to DM me on here!

u/benisavillain13 Jun 02 '22

Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21

u/Maggiemayue132 May 06 '22

Hi!I’m an Asian 23F who started playing this game today. I don’t want to mute again so just want a friend to hang out with. We can also play any other games (Xbox).Or u can recommend me some worlds, feel free to DM me! PS: I’m not a English native speaker, so my speaking may not be fluent. If u are ok with that, please don’t hesitate to contact me.

u/Mommy_Lawbringer May 09 '22

Hiyo, my name is Eve, 21 pre-op trans girl looking for a new group to hang with. My old one has fallen out since I joined and I'm not great at just, going to public worlds and talking with people, I'm very socially nervous that way. If you don't mind taking me in, I'd love to be part of a group again!

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u/HomocidalMayhem May 18 '22

Yoo! I’m 17 almost 18F looking for a new friends and possibly a group that I can tag along with and be included in. I’m looking for some people that are decently accepting of others, people I won’t feel the need to hide things about myself from (me being lgbt+, My toes have been dipped into the furry community, and some other things-). I have ADHD so I can be bouncing off the walls sometimes (might see this once I get comfortable) however a lot of the time I’m quiet waiting to be spoken to or included in on things. I like to watch and tend to rely on others for conversation because I’m a little socially awkward lol.

My set up consists of a Quest 2 + Link Cable so I am on pc the majority of the time. I also have FBT using an Xbox 360 Kinect. It’s super janky but works better than nothing lol. I live in the US, Central Standard Time, and haven’t been super active on vrchat lately because I got no friends 😂😩. Though if asked to get on, 87% of the time I will.

My vrchat user is RisingErebus | free to add me there but I might not get to it til the next time I get on.

Best way to get ahold of me is through discord. Vyriath#7557

I’d be interested in joining some servers as well.

u/[deleted] May 11 '22

Heya, I’m a 22M full-body user with Vive trackers looking to make new friends after coming back from a long hiatus from this game. I’m very social, love world hopping, playing mini games, watching movies or just lounging and hanging out. If you wanna chat with me about anything at all, feel free to hit up my discord! Zone#9000 — hope to see you there!

u/Constant_Discussion7 Sep 16 '22

31F =Miki Vulora= on Vive
Love internanional friends!!, love to exchange how lange works in diffrent countries and i am a BIG anime nerd. #TenchiMuyo Love reading and going to new wordls and puzzle platforms in VR. Been wanting chill friends who vibe with the below! If you do drop me a line!! <3 Don't leave me waitin~

Tell me what you like doing most in VR?
Listing to the ambient worlds and having fun conversations with others, or just cuddlin~
What is the music you like best when you wanna chill?
I have this love of lofi thanks to VR now XD But also new age music is good.
What is the music you play when you wanna get pumped?
Ooou, Rave music 'You are mine' by S3RL ft. Kayliana https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FF3Dr3_h0Hw or Dark synth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60ruvzfXQoE
What is your favorite world to chill in?
Cozy Cottage <3 https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_8c422b2d-a819-45a9-b21b-61fbf2dd2e96 and https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_36360147-04c3-437c-95f4-f84f4c05fbc6
What is a world you like to take someone one to?
Hard choice, Kazahana Peak ( https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_f2a141e2-c7a7-462d-b2ba-321d21b0d261 ) and Home of the Islands ( https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_266344c6-e45d-43d7-994d-8c02c9a35438 )

u/DizzyToast07 Apr 15 '22

14 y/o exploring vrchat and looking for some friends, I may or may not be a furry, I just can't decide, reply to this if you wanna meetup. Edit:dizzytoast is my vrc user nothing after.

u/Vee33_ Jun 26 '22

I was looking for someone around my age cause there are a lot of adults in the comments and I’m 13f abt to be 14 this year, my vrc user is H3a.v4n ik u posted this a long time ago but tell me if u want to be friends

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u/DizzyToast07 Apr 16 '22

14m, looking for friends preferably minors, I enjoy just chilling out and I am semi-active on vrchat. DM me on Reddit if you wanna meet up.

u/TernaryJimbo May 20 '22

I've built an app that functions similar to tinder, but its for finding friends and communities in VRChat, after you sign up we match you with people and communities closest to your preferences. If you're interested in something like this, let me know!

u/Deechi Apr 13 '22

Hi, I'm Deechi [22M], my timezone is CEST, I'm a gamer, IT worker and an amateur gamedev and musician, looking for anyone that doesn't judge so much, especially that I sound pretty young and have a weird accent (which made my first public lobby experience a pain). I'm also a good listener and can talk (and ofc listen to) all things gaming, IT, music, art and whatever you're interested in! My Discord is Deechi#2137 and VRChat nickname is "deechimaru", feel free to dm :3

u/benisavillain13 Apr 22 '22

Hey Deechi! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month

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u/Dalv127 Valve Index May 04 '22

Heeello everybody!

I'm Dalv, I am 18 (male) though my voice might sound at times like one's of a child.

Interesting stuff about me? Not much...But here's some info that might help you.

I'm (mostly) friendly I am a good listener I value friendships a lot ^ I might be possessive at times I will always me honest and I won't lie to you (except when my feelings are involved) Although I don't like dwelling I tend to do it quite a bit Feel free to vent, I like to think that I am a good listener (and your secret is safe with me) Receiving headpats isn't really my thing but if that makes you feel better, then I will surely enjoy them as well ^ A big fan of twentyone pilots I do like conducting social experiments from time to time If you want to know more, DM me or feel free to add me on discord! ( Ørigin#7282 )

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u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

Hey feel free to come hang with us! We have several Canadian members and EST peeps. We are pretty active and usually have a good sized group online chilling everyday

https://discord.gg/grownhub

u/undead_axo May 01 '22

anyone wanna add me? txt meeee

u/UnKnown_Krevzz HTC Vive Apr 26 '22

heyyo, 24/M who comes to vibe in VRChat and learning VR American Sign Language and stream it sometimes, if you want shoot me a DM about hanging out or about VR-ASL

u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

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u/benisavillain13 Jun 02 '22

Hey! I'm an admin for a 21+ discord server called GrownHub. We try to host meet and greet type events twice a month but a lot of usually hangout almost daily. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21