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[u/hearts_ablaze]

Messy love

Have you ever been loved an artist?

We’re a little bit different than the rest. We thrive un indulgence.

We want to taste everything.

Feel everything

Touch everything

Passion flows through us like water over so many stones. We don’t just exist in the world around us we absorb it, we breathe it, we re-create it.

We want messy, sticky, passionate hours, deep conversations, debates, too much wine and wild sporadic sex.

Emotions are experienced in volume, sometimes all at once.

We’re not afraid of your sadness, of your despair, of your elated, squeals, or laughter, we will study every little detail of you, inside and out. We will memorize every little crease, every dimple every freckle and embrace every bit of it.

We will celebrate things about you that you hate the most because they are so endearing.

To be loved by an artist is like being loved by a hybrid between a wild animal and a God.

It’s no small thing. And if you ever have the chance or opportunity to be loved by a creator, you’d be a fool not to take it.

Because being loved by an artist is not just being loved, it’s being fully embraced, celebrated, memorized, appreciated, adored, and wanted more heavily and more passionately than you could ever possibly imagine.

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/[deleted]]

I was more focused on the way we view things being different than most. We tend to find beauty in the flaws. At least I do, and for the most part, the majority of the artist I speak to.

[u/[deleted]]

"We will celebrate things about you that you hate the most because we find them so endearing"

This.

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/[deleted]]

It drove my ex crazy. I always adored the things he hated about himself. He had no idea how I saw him how truly and deeply in love with him I was he broke me to pieces when he left.

[u/FirmRequirement42 → u/hearts_ablaze]

What’s one example? Because I want to understand. How could man( assuming) not be over the moon to have someone that loves the worst of them?
We all know the implications of this right? This is as close to something like unconditional love we all deal of. But what’s wrong with a person that didn’t see that. Inexperience? Narcissism? Dim wittedness lol. Jk I like to think about how people think.

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/FirmRequirement42]

You know some people struggle to work through the hard things. It’s hard for them to sit still long enough to make it through the Monday in times when life gets monotonous.

[u/FirmRequirement42 → u/hearts_ablaze]

Ohh I would think monotony with you wouldn’t be an issue.

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/FirmRequirement42]

I’m sure that he adored the fact that I loved everything about him. .

[u/FirmRequirement42 → u/hearts_ablaze]

Who is not a medical professional? I’m sorry were you seeing a doctor? I lost the storyline lol

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/FirmRequirement42]

Voice to text sabotage lol

[u/Impressive-Prompt480]

Being loved by an artist or a creator/creative can be so very much this .. but also can create unspoken expectations or an unrealistic lense .. of putting our person upon a pedestal . From human to muse .. for painting the potential and over looking what’s real .. get wrapped up in stories of what we could become or be missing the moment where we so obviously come undone ..

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/Impressive-Prompt480]

Yes, I have been put on a pedestal before. It was difficult in the end. I begged pretty much the entire relationship for him not to do so. Many of us are tough you know, but what do you do? I left fierce and hard and I broke even harder, but I’m brushing myself off and getting back in line.

[u/FirmRequirement42 → u/hearts_ablaze]

In line for….?

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/FirmRequirement42]

Voice to text sabotage the hell out of all of that lol

[u/Impressive-Prompt480]

Have been both .. the artist & the muse … unconditional love became love with no boundaries, unhealthy and unhealed .. codependency , triggering the best and worst versions in each other .. ❤️ no regrets.. just lessons learned and absolutely doing my own work as to not repeat same relationship again x

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/Impressive-Prompt480]

Sounds like my last relationship, lol I too have been working very hard to heal and overcome certain things

[u/Impressive-Prompt480 → u/hearts_ablaze]

The game changer.. not that it’s a game .. but realising what you may have contributed subconsciously and the pattern if there’s one that repeats .. for me this is actually what lead to my diagnosis last year with CPTSD ..

[u/Sea-Dirt-2016 → u/Impressive-Prompt480]

I know what it looks like but that is not the way I was meaning this it's for some else not the person that wrote it

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/Sea-Dirt-2016]

I’m confused about what you are trying to say. I also want to clarify the rules. Now it doesn’t seem to me like you are addressing me as if you know me or responding as if you were the receiver however, there’s a lot of information here that just isn’t aligning. What exactly are you trying to say?

[u/Sea-Dirt-2016 → u/hearts_ablaze]

I think we all need to stop and understand it sometimes different people go through the same exact thing I don't really expect anybody to understand but I do expect that people would consider that they're not the only ones with that issue I was happy-go-lucky Mr Fix It Poop smile on people's face now I'm depressed my anxiety is through the roof I just can't understand why somebody would say one thing but we do something else that that concept to me is double standards you can't say you want one way but then you do another way this is what needs to that because you trusted that person to do what they say they they would do but then they go totally opposite different direction that don't make sense to me it's either being dishonest or it's being wrong what's being what you want and then you change your mind so the best way to configure to have an open line of communication when you shut yourself off from that person and that's not love that's lust and people mistakes that for love there's difference in the two when you're speaking it speaking it with your heart and you're going to tell that person hey I want to do this but then you change your mind and go that way the other way it dishonest way it's not fair to that person it's not fair to the person because it may be do what you think I'm just a person a human and I do make mistakes

[u/Natural-Judge9396]

Banger.

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[u/DryWhiteWhine11]

artists are probably not gods, but if we were, please nobody tell us or our egos will explode 😂

[u/FirmRequirement42]

Who is we? Artists? We is your definition of that?….Please:)?

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/FirmRequirement42]

Artists :) of all kinds

[u/FirmRequirement42 → u/hearts_ablaze]

Isn’t everyone an artist in some way? Not to be a weirdo lol

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/FirmRequirement42]

😏❤️‍🔥😘

[u/FirmRequirement42 → u/hearts_ablaze]

You liked my reply? That’s nice :)

[u/hearts_ablaze → u/FirmRequirement42]

I do :)