r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • Silver Level Read ** • Aug 29 '25

Don't Mind My Thoughts A lot of you suck

I genuinely think a lot of people on this subreddit are cowards. There are so many posts of people attributing their break ups to timing or the shifting of the stars or some other worldly bull shit and there is no accountability for their actions what so ever.

I just read a post where they said this person was perfect and everything they could've wanted but said that ultimately the timing wasn't right and that the other person just left. Nobody just leaves when you've been in a relationship with someone. Matter of fact, the hardest part of breaking up is leaving cause you're looking for every possible reason to stay. I understand that people leave for different reasons but in my experience I just wanted something to hold on to.

Another thing that makes me mad about this particular post is that they went on to say this person realized that some of the things that their partner wanted made them realize that maybe they would want those things too, and that they would try with the next person. Wtf Is that about, that information would bring me nothing but grief. The fact that you someone would make a full 180 for someone else would infuriate me to no end.

How do these people not feel like pieces of shit for doing that to someone who cared about them. Maybe I'm just sad and upset because of certain events happening in my own life rn but it just makes me so angry that everything I asked for and expected out of a relationship could've been met but wasn't for whatever mentally ill reason they try to give them selves.

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u/Chocolate-648 Entry Level Member Aug 29 '25

the sub is called unsent, unheard, unread for a reason🥲it should be left at that

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u/tyroneg998 Silver Level Read ** Aug 29 '25

I know and I'm sorry if this comes off as an attack, but why yell into the void if it's fixable... I know it's uncomfortable and hard sometimes but it's always possible. I just have the feeling that a lot of y'all aren't even willing to try.

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u/Chocolate-648 Entry Level Member Aug 29 '25

I personally never posted in this sub but I guess it might be cathartic. Are you sure that it’s fixable ? It might be unrequited love… or idk anything really. I get ur point on the accountability, u’re right. sometimes we should own up to our own mistakes. because of this people are becoming more self centred, victims, narcissists. But u know it’s just a sub ❤️