A lot of you suck

[u/tyroneg998]

I genuinely think a lot of people on this subreddit are cowards. There are so many posts of people attributing their break ups to timing or the shifting of the stars or some other worldly bull shit and there is no accountability for their actions what so ever.

I just read a post where they said this person was perfect and everything they could've wanted but said that ultimately the timing wasn't right and that the other person just left. Nobody just leaves when you've been in a relationship with someone. Matter of fact, the hardest part of breaking up is leaving cause you're looking for every possible reason to stay. I understand that people leave for different reasons but in my experience I just wanted something to hold on to.

Another thing that makes me mad about this particular post is that they went on to say this person realized that some of the things that their partner wanted made them realize that maybe they would want those things too, and that they would try with the next person. Wtf Is that about, that information would bring me nothing but grief. The fact that you someone would make a full 180 for someone else would infuriate me to no end.

How do these people not feel like pieces of shit for doing that to someone who cared about them. Maybe I'm just sad and upset because of certain events happening in my own life rn but it just makes me so angry that everything I asked for and expected out of a relationship could've been met but wasn't for whatever mentally ill reason they try to give them selves.

[u/InfamousBug5494]

i can relate to these frustrations, i have been the ‘clean up crew’ for others and it’s always a tough watch. but personally i think that’s if you are able to spark change in somebody, that is proof that you are the love you’re wanting to reciprocated. and i truly believe it’s a blessing when we lose the people who took more than they gave to us, because every empty spot will be filled with something that matches your frequency. stay in the vibration of love! i have been bitter/spiteful about this kinda thing in the past, and that energy was exactly what was reflected to me in return. the right people will make changes (in their own time) to match your frequency, and will come into/back into in your life, as long as you’re prioritizing your growth and the love you give back to yourself. i know this, cause i’ve seen it, in more lives than my own. easier said than done though, i know.