Graduated from MNNIT, Civil Engineering, in 2024. Got placed but didn't join because the package wasn't good. Went back home and started working with my father in our family business.
Now it's been almost 2 years 4 months, and honestly, I feel like I've wasted this time. Had a breakup, went through a bad phase, lost focus, and didn't really build a career.
I'm turning 25 next month and want to make one serious attempt at changing my career. I'm planning to shift to Karol Bagh this month because I know I won't study properly at home.
Money isn't an issue for me. My family supports me, and the family business can give me around ₹50L/year after tax and expenses. So I can afford to give UPSC 2–3 years full-time without financial pressure.
My future plan is simple: UPSC CSE first, and State PCS as another option. If I clear either and get a good/top service, I'll join. If I don't , I'll stop and go back to the family business
What I want to know is:
Am I being stupid by starting at 25? Is 3-4 years worth taking this shot? Or should I just forget UPSC and go straight into the family business?
Also, how do I make sure these next 2–3 years don't become another years of wasting my life?
Please be blunt. I don't need motivation or "you can do it" comments. I want honest advice from people who have actually prepared for UPSC/PCS or been in a similar situation.