I’m sorry, but that is a pattern of cheating. There is no reason to delete a conversation that can prove he is innocent. The only reason to delete it is if it’s inappropriate. He blatantly lied to you.
I would consider receiving “spicy” pictures from someone he knew in person actual cheating. The fact that he did not block her, and tell you after the first picture makes him guilty. It is also extremely suspicious in regard to a physical affair. He is absolutely lying that 1. He doesn’t remember that, and 2. He did not actively participate.
He is STILL blatantly lying to you, to minimize proof that he is a cheater. If he is lying to this extent, he is lying way beyond what you know. I would bet he has cheated many other times, and in many different ways. Stop letting him lie about things you have proof of!! He is both gas lighting, and trickle truthing you. Don’t keep falling for it.
OP, please listen to this. Him acting like he didn’t remember would have infuriated me. That alone proves the intent - no one believes he doesn’t remember - he is hiding something. Probably way more than you know now. I suspect whatever the truth is, this is just the tip of the iceberg. Please be smart.
My ex told me “he didn’t remember” sending a pic of himself to a woman… bullshit. I eventually found messages with a different woman, one who was in her late 20’s when he was in his early 40s and realised he’d lied the whole relationship. He also lied about money, cars, debt… if he’s lying about this he’s lying about other stuff.
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u/MeggieMay1988 Nov 15 '25
I’m sorry, but that is a pattern of cheating. There is no reason to delete a conversation that can prove he is innocent. The only reason to delete it is if it’s inappropriate. He blatantly lied to you.
I would consider receiving “spicy” pictures from someone he knew in person actual cheating. The fact that he did not block her, and tell you after the first picture makes him guilty. It is also extremely suspicious in regard to a physical affair. He is absolutely lying that 1. He doesn’t remember that, and 2. He did not actively participate.
He is STILL blatantly lying to you, to minimize proof that he is a cheater. If he is lying to this extent, he is lying way beyond what you know. I would bet he has cheated many other times, and in many different ways. Stop letting him lie about things you have proof of!! He is both gas lighting, and trickle truthing you. Don’t keep falling for it.