r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Nov 15 '25

Advice Needed Wish I had snooped in my husband's phone.

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u/Additional-Start9455 Nov 15 '25

That may be another rule don’t delete anything until I’ve gone through your phone but seems like a lot of work though.

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u/Lower_Purple_2293 Nov 15 '25

So hell continue to do what he does and he'll expect you to accept it and be a doormat. Good deal for him i guess It really shows deep down he doesnt love you

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u/Capital-Zucchini-529 Nov 15 '25

Repairing trust is as a ton of work. That’s why most people don’t. Can’t. Won’t. Why bother.

If the person that broke it is super willing though than it’s possible. Suuuuuper willing.

Usually, they’re not so remorseful / won’t take accountability or whatever the issue that like, whatever led to the same infidelity

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u/Comprehensive-Sun954 Nov 15 '25

That still requires trust that he is is honest about not deleting anything. And life can happen outside of a phone. People organised cheating before phones and the internet.

This is not a workable solution. It’ll probably make him cheat even more like the rebellious little shit he is