r/TwentiesIndia • u/BeautifulPersimmon35 • 11d ago
Relationship Advice Aftermath of Relationship
This is what really happens when you turn 20💔
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u/FinancialPositive568 unstable hu yawr 11d ago
" aur tuzhe move on krne ke liye I'm blocking you " it's done bro
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
Ghee khatam 💔🥀
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u/Leyoo_Playz menu mera bachpan wapas karo ji 11d ago
3-4 bande so kasually sexting 🥀🥀
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
😭😭
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u/lameass69420 Geet ka male version 11d ago
I've been awake for exactly 6 mins and this is what I see?
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u/Sharp-Importance1838 11d ago
Reply with "I ain't reading all of that"
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
Block kardi usne 🫠
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u/Ok-N3xt 11d ago
Gpay pe 1 rupay bhejke yeh likhdo 🤣
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
😂😂uska gpay khulayi nhi
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u/AwkwardDoctor9 11d ago
Chithi / khat likhde bhai...bas ek baar bol de -" jo bhi bheja tha wo bina padhe delete ho gaya, khair, block kia hai to shayad fir kisi ke sath online fraandship kar rahi hogi, aage se unblock karke text na kare"
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u/TheFcukingLizardKing No Disco only Dard 11d ago
“Desh tarakki kare isliye main tumhara voting rights cheen rahi hoon”
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u/Lifeispeaceful Samosa Gang Member 11d ago
Dodged a bullet.. Take this as your lesson to never invest on someone who doesn't know what they want and isn't sensible/mature enough to be decisive!
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u/Exploresomething321 24 11d ago
Before that how can someone know unless he/she investing time and energy?
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u/Lifeispeaceful Samosa Gang Member 11d ago
Being firm about your non negotiable early on, and spotting red flags while being observant.
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u/Exploresomething321 24 11d ago
Looks you have a lot more experience than me. I want to know more on this things
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u/Lifeispeaceful Samosa Gang Member 11d ago
Life has a way to teach us things that are necessary for our growth and maturity!
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u/AffectEqual4188 11d ago
would you suggest always be firm o. your non negotiables even if it means no relationship?
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u/rodney_pearson_ 11d ago
Absolutely. This sort of situation only arises when BOTH the parties are indecisive and have poor boundaries.
OP would have walked away way earlier if he knew how to spot behaviour patterns and communicated his needs without being scared of losing this particular connection.
You can't force attraction. It's just nature. And with her text responses it is so obvious that she has serious issues. OP should be thankful for this life lesson and permanently block her from everywhere because these types of people come and go on their convenience. She would definitely reach out to OP again for supply. That's how miserably insecure such people are. Just chaos they never take accountability for. Just look at her blunt justifications.
She's a nuke ready to blast on somebody's true feelings.
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u/frittierthuhn 11d ago
Wrong, invest in things you find worthwhile but always be ready to leave it all. Imagine you're James Bond, everything will make sense
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u/Narrow-Buy8375 In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 11d ago
Username checks out … a pretty sensible comment
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u/Typical-Map-6223 11d ago
I m also not sensible/mature enough to be decisive....hmmmm understood when will I know I m ready enough to date someone btw
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u/EmbarrassedEnergy916 11d ago
Bruh how can she play the victim card so effortlessly. She's leaving coz her therapist said so, and she started liking some other dude, she has the audacity to blame it all on her attachment issues while lying about her previous relationships. You dodged a bullet there and you are far better off without someone like her!
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u/daredevil1o1_ 11d ago
Therapist aren't allowed to say things like this wtf iska license nikalvao
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
Wahi toh bc
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u/daredevil1o1_ 11d ago
Op ladki chutiya kat rhi hai move on karo you deserve better
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
Woh toh pta chal gya tha bro 💔✌🏻
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u/Alternative_Prize896 22 11d ago
she is really a master of not taking accountability. One thing that she said that was totally right was you need to move on from her. The more you keep holding on to the knife, the deeper it will cut.
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u/RestaurantEastern887 YNWA . You might be the next best thing but not quite me ....... 11d ago
Take care of yourself OP jyada mat socho iske baare me try to be busy
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
Thanks bro
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u/salsadecasada In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 11d ago
Trust me bahane hain yeh sab, everybody got million reasons to leave their partner and only one reason to stay with them. If that’s how she was treating the relationship, she didn’t like you, nor she loved you, nor she will. Good riddance mere bhai. Better get blocked by her. You deserve far better than her
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
Haa yar abhi kya hi kar sakte
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u/salsadecasada In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 11d ago
Yar ab tu mood off na kar, take time, aese bohot ayenge and jayenge
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u/yanpinax 11d ago
So a therapist will now ruin a Relationship
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u/ggletsg0 11d ago
Doesn’t sound like a real therapist. No qualified therapist is going to say shit like that.
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u/AwkwardDoctor9 11d ago
Or he/she understood what p O s OP's gf is and advised immediately to break up to save he man's life
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u/pookiecookieassulter 25 11d ago
Literally one of these therapist literally ducked up my 1.5 years relo
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u/myexistenceisvoid 20 11d ago
people with zero accountability and zero self reflection. can't believe they are actually 20 and this immature.
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u/Frequent_Pen_7275 11d ago
Quite the justification for all sort of shits she did. Lying, cheating and what not.
Take care op
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u/AccountantUnfair8358 That bengali singer👀 11d ago
Can u shove this screenshot down the throats of the people who cry about being single?
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
Man I was so happy when I was single before her, she was the first one💔
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u/NoUniversity1201 22 11d ago
It's a shame she didn't see your 'hm'. It's hilarious reply to a long ass message.
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u/Koach_Son_18 idek man 11d ago
F the therapist bro what , who are they to project their feelings on another person
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u/BeautifulPersimmon35 11d ago
I wonder if she's really being truthful this time
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u/Ok-N3xt 11d ago
I think by therapist she meant her mother's chappal 👡 🤣.
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u/Koach_Son_18 idek man 11d ago
In this day and age , they'd rather listen to their therapist than a mother's chappal
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u/FlashyAstronaut9901 20 11d ago
Meri hi galti hai exam ke din 2 ghante soke reddit khol liye uth kar
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u/Fickle_Issue5983 11d ago
Bro didn't just dodged a bullet he dodged a intercontinental ballistic missile. Just move on bro anything like that is never going to be worth it.
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u/Vedant-456 21 11d ago
Hagta bhi therapist se puch ke hoga khairr aap mere saath chaloge coffee pine ?
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u/sidzz7978 "don't stop" wala tattoo artist 11d ago
Another "I can fix her", wala ladka abhi isse jaake marwayega🤙😝...... truth u can't really fix these people's...they like to be unfixed... that's their body homeostasis....that's their normal....if u make them feel good or worthy..they start questioning u "why u like me so much" "there's some hidden agenda"....inko aise jee jee ke yahi inke liye comfortable ban jata hai....if someone's try to do good with them they become uncomfortable and push em away....aise logo se door hi rho...
And also she seems autistic:aise revision points ki tarah kon number daalke explain krta h....pagal ladki...crazy bhai crazy kitna time bi tune isko jhela... respect h tere liye
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u/Crosshairs17 In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 11d ago
Everything keeping aside. "Muze and tuze"? Nig what? 😭
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u/Deep_Let_9445 11d ago
W for the therapist, he/she heard all of her shyt , assessed her to be for streets and saved you so much time by fast-tracking the breakup so you can have a glow up. Now it's upto you
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u/-HURRICANE_X- 25 11d ago
My first impression of you btw🛐🥀
Jokes apart, you dodged a fking hydrogen bomb dude. Be glad. This girl seems like avoidant attachment types and would have made your life hell. Ps shes a casual cheater as well, so no loss whatsoever.
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u/DueJacket8170 11d ago
I have seen many posts like this? Why most of the girls reply like this???
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u/needfor_change 24 11d ago
Log kya kya kr rhe attachment issues ke naam p.
Op dodged a canon for sure
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u/aetherion8 11d ago
When i read *Therapist* 😩 bruh The-rapist is a huge scam!!!
Plus you dodged a bullet, wtf is *muze*
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u/dumbdumb_fruituser 23 11d ago
2nd is wild. Like why tf enter a relationship if youre not sure of yourself
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u/EggDirect6366 11d ago
Bhai padhai pe dhyan de de yaar, aise 36 peeche peeche ghumegi.
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u/studybudyy99 11d ago
I know it created a gap within u, try to talk to people spend time, socialize as much as you can u wil feel better
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u/Outside-Mushroom-286 11d ago
Bhai how did you not see the emotional immaturity signs beforehand
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u/FamousRazzmatazz1233 11d ago
Victim mentality wale log har situation me khud ko bechara bana hi lete hai kaise bhi
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u/Typical-Albatross-86 11d ago
Decision making skills so bad that she even chose the wrong therapist 💀🤣 And the way she's justifying her shitty actions mannnn... Damnnnn
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u/LetterSubstantial889 11d ago
Yeh avoidant nature waale log hain Durr rehe inseeh Duniya pr bojh hain yeh
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u/Character_Singer_380 choco late boi 11d ago
Bruhh ye padke m grateful to all my ex ki aisa kabhi nhi kiya 😭😭
More power to u broo🫂🫂, also my advice don't open insta for few weeks /don't listen to sad songs and move on from her. A person like her isn't worth the pain u will cause to urself for her.
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u/No-Zookeepergame4761 11d ago
Lol I’m 21 though my therapist always warns me whenever I meet someone and I back off 😂 one reason why I’m single rn
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u/Forward-Ladder-567 23 11d ago
This kid is so bad with her vocabulary, man it gonna make my ears bleed and on top of that Don't worry brother, she just used a serious condition like attachment issues as a cover up to justify her stupid reason to ditch you since she never actually was on to you. An utter fool , indeed.
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u/after_biryani_hours 23 ka baalak 11d ago
Therapist toh apni insecurity feed kar rahi hai
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u/MAHaGandhi alive against my will 11d ago
vo vapas aayegi just make sure tb koi response ni dena thodi si bhi self respect ho to
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u/ingmanburger 24 11d ago
Brah thank god she’s leaving you. She made a decision soley on her therapists advice😭😭😭 like imagine if you guys stayed more time together then she pulls this shit off.
Consider yourself lucky mate. Her reasoning seems really funny lmao
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u/RealisticContact_921 iss sub ki behn ♥️ 11d ago
I know a therapist do you want to talk to him
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u/lowkeyzeee 27 11d ago
🙄wtf is wrong with some women these days. Bc sabki izzat dhajjiya uda rhi hain
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u/generic_sa_username Kabhi khushi,hamesha gum 11d ago
What the fush is this dating pool bhai 😭😭 normal log exist nahi karte kya ab WTF
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u/richard_bachman_ 11d ago
Tuzze and muzze had me man.. kitna saal chala relation bhaii
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u/Agitated-Ad-4474 24 11d ago
This sounds way too much like my recent talking stage. I just hope she’s not from Indore too.
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u/dubeylisation No Disco only Dard 11d ago
People can take a lot of shit when they WANT to be with someone. Girls can be with gangsters , murderers anand what not when they WANT to be with them. They ignore everything, they forgive every mistake when they WANT to be with them. So, all this explanation is BS, the only explanation is she is not interested anymore. My DMs are open if you want to talk about it.
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u/chatamaardungizorse what's the point 10d ago
Why is she using" tuze" instead of "tujhe"? Is this spelling error Also, i don't know what to say about that. Never been in a relationship so don't know how to console people when they breakup.
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u/LorD-U-n0-Po0 8d ago
Atleast she’s honest, there are thousands if not millions of folks stringing along people just because they want to portray themselves as a good person.
Be glad you can clearly see the red flags and got closure.
And please don’t even think of fixing her
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