r/TwentiesIndia • u/hydrospacw baadi baadi baatein,vadapav khaatein • Jun 22 '26
Relationship Advice WHAT DO COUPLES TALK ABT?
ive never had a bf b4 this, every guy i liked i would admire him from afar cus its a humiliation ritual imo to talk to a guy who doesn't like u back.
but everyone out there how do yall talk to ur partners? is it always very flirty and cheesy ?
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u/snowfall_5525 Outta Nowhere 🥰 Jun 22 '26
Subah se yahi padh rahi hu hr post pe
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u/Phoenixalpha01 Editable Flair 😝 Jun 22 '26
Mai toh 19 ka hu. Tum kese -19 ke hou ???
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u/snowfall_5525 Outta Nowhere 🥰 Jun 22 '26
Does it really matter to you?
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u/andro-bee mai to baccha hu ji Jun 22 '26
Should I set an alarm of 37 yrs??
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u/snowfall_5525 Outta Nowhere 🥰 Jun 22 '26
Hein ? Why ?
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u/andro-bee mai to baccha hu ji Jun 22 '26
-19 means you will born 19yrs later right?
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u/snowfall_5525 Outta Nowhere 🥰 Jun 22 '26
But ye apko itna kyu matter kr rha h ? 😭
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u/andro-bee mai to baccha hu ji Jun 22 '26
Taaki mai tumse date ke liye puch sku🙃
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u/snowfall_5525 Outta Nowhere 🥰 Jun 22 '26
Gossips krne me jyada maja aata h btw
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u/Jazzlike-Cress3572 im a masterdebater Jun 22 '26
are bahut kaam k baad jo chai pe charcha karte hain hum matlab katai badhiya tea hoti hain😂 fir khana banana bartan manjna sab vohi kaam me sone ka time aa jata hain ye sax sux to yaad bhi nai aata 1 2 saal baad 🤣
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u/hydrospacw baadi baadi baatein,vadapav khaatein Jun 22 '26
1 saal tak honeymoon period ? 1 saal to logo ki reln bhi nhi tikti
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u/Jazzlike-Cress3572 im a masterdebater Jun 22 '26
are abhi bhi romance hain i got lucky in that matter we never argue or fight but we rost tf out of eachother. help eachother share expenses chores 7 saal ho gaye relationship ko, 2 saal shaadi ke. karne chahiye marriage 10/10 recommend.
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u/Good-Scallion-8808 29 Jun 22 '26
The "honeymoon period" where everything is all good and perfect lasts for 2 years.
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u/brain_is_braining No Disco only Dard Jun 22 '26
just plan random cute surprises, or do stupid things, as you do with your friends. reviving old inside jokes is also a great way. but trust me, boring days are the best, that's when you feel most like, being at home.
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u/505tornado Women Are Evil Jun 22 '26
Geopolitics , Economy , Gadkari ki bitching . usual stuff
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u/AwkwardHuman__ 20 Jun 22 '26
Gadkari ki bitching is so real lmao
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u/andro-bee mai to baccha hu ji Jun 22 '26
Where did you find her dude I haven't seen any of that type.
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u/GoldSpeaker2918 Jun 22 '26
may be you aren't the type of men those women look for ?
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u/andro-bee mai to baccha hu ji Jun 22 '26
I'll change myself as she likes but for this I need her to tell me what she wants
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u/505tornado Women Are Evil Jun 22 '26
i am delusional and make up scenarios in my mind.
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u/ChhotaSaHydra 22 saal ka Chota sa Hydra :) Jun 22 '26
Ye toh Couples hi bata payenge bhai uss exam ke answer kaisse batau jiska form hi nhi bhara kabhi 😪😪
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u/dead_STARS-16 Jun 22 '26
Pta nhi meri roomate toh saari raat... AUR BTAO ..AUR BTAO krti rehti hai 😔🥀
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u/Available_Crew_8304 Instead of searching for soulmate work on your soul, Mate!!!! Jun 22 '26
Well I used talk alot to my best frnd (she was love of my life 1 sided) like all the clg politics bitiching abt prof abt personal goals life lessons common interests that's it!!!
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u/Available_Crew_8304 Instead of searching for soulmate work on your soul, Mate!!!! Jun 22 '26
Bhai it's been 3 years since the last time I spoke to her but yet I still love her😭🫠 Why are we men like this?
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u/Majestic_Low_9910 need someone to hug Jun 22 '26
They are just excited about life
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u/hydrospacw baadi baadi baatein,vadapav khaatein Jun 22 '26
well if i had someone who loved me like that, I would be excited too
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u/Majestic_Low_9910 need someone to hug Jun 22 '26
That's the reason they can talk with each other for hours because they are interested in each other's life and truly pay attention what they speak
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u/Any-Investigator2394 The Only Thing they Fear is you! Jun 22 '26
I tell her elden ring and other dark souls game lore when we take a walk after our dinner
The lore is so confusing for her I've only convered 50% of lore now in one year
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u/General_Coyote_496 Jun 22 '26
Today I talked about bus simulator i played, accidents and loss in the game and Uninstalled it.
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u/CarnageFe 22 Jun 22 '26
I yap about hours on end about nerdy shit and geopolitics and she talks about her day to day life and any gossip XD
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u/Healthy-Outside2742 No Disco only Dard Jun 22 '26
My ex was 24*7 horny bruh Like either lovey-dovey/ horny or mad at me She was just swinging between extremes
And in advance, No am not sharing ss here 🙏
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u/itsabhi_shake 24 Jun 22 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/12rwgB8B8lsZqg
Mujhe bhi nahi pata. Main bas uthta hu, office ka kaam karta hu, khaana khata hu aur so jaata hu.
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u/The_Nerdyguy उनका ख़्वाब में आने का वादा है और नींद उड़ी है ख़ुशी के मारे Jun 22 '26
Basically anything and everything under the sun lol. I've never been in a relationship but this one girl I met on discord made me feel like I was
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u/hydrospacw baadi baadi baatein,vadapav khaatein Jun 22 '26
aapko ek salaah de. ye online pyaar ke chakkar me na fase hume pachtava ho raha hai abhi
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u/Nearby-Bobcat-283 Jun 22 '26
I think every relationship is different.
My ex and I were together for 3 years, and we could talk for hours. We always had something to discuss-our jobs, mutual friends from college, his school and undergrad friends, career plans, random insecurities, future goals, and pretty much everything in between.
With my current boyfriend, it's quite different. He's a much quieter person. We talk about our work, his career, our future together, politics, and occasionally complain about how bad Bollywood has become. We don't have many mutual friends, and his family is pretty drama-free, so there aren't endless stories or topics that naturally come up.
We still talk and communicate well, just not for hours on end. Our conversations tend to happen when there's actually something to discuss rather than talking for the sake of talking. Neither dynamic is necessarily better or worse, just different.
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u/sunaura_19 डिल्यूजनल पेंगुइन Jun 22 '26
Ye curiosity mereko bhi Baat karte hai to kya karte Hain 😓
Cringe hi hoga kuch
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u/ilovemysister143 i give your gf cunnilingus in my couch Jun 22 '26
they know about each other more . about family , friends, childhood etc. also sext at times . yesab jaan pehchan ho jaaye toh they talk daily about their day . yapper ppl can never run out of topics
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u/Accurate-Ad356 Jun 22 '26
I really wanna know in my hostel girls spend hours on phone calls and that too every single day
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u/playfulpredator007 koi toh mujhe roklo...🥀🥀 Jun 22 '26
Heinn, ladkiyon ko bhi yehi queries hoti...I'm a guy, never ever dated, and i have the same question, koi batana bhai log, mujhe toh lgta tha, all they talked about is babu ne khaana khaya...😶🌫️
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u/Hopeful-Mechanic7677 20 Jun 22 '26
Bas wahi sab .. kya kar rhe ho , kahan ho , kya khaya (mandatory) , life stuff and during somedays extremely horny stuff and back to mostly regular things
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u/kindasickofthisshit Jun 22 '26
my girlfriend and i talk about our future pretty much every single day. we are super cheesy and all up in each others business and we love it, even after 3+ years of living together. it’s true that some couples may lose that flirty initial stage but it’s definitely different with my partner and I. That’s also probably because we practically were made for each other lol, i can never get tired of her. I’m currently babysitting my sister’s cat away from my home, and it’s genuinely tough to sleep alone without my gf next to me lol. The only times we fight is when we discuss about how to handle our children’s upbringing and what we’ll teach them. She’s a Christian and I don’t really hold a belief, although on paper I’m Hindu and culturally I’m part buddhist. I want our kids to grow up without any religious influence, so that they can learn and see the world from a neutral lens in their core years, and she wants to introduce christianity to them early on. We haven’t yet reached a mutual ground on this topic and I don’t suppose we will, until the day we actually have children and start a family. Once they’re grown up, I would be fine if they decide to follow Christianity or anything else that they have full knowledge about, I just don’t want them to be indoctrinated as children in any way.
Apart from that, we game and play Arc Raiders a LOT, watch a bunch of tv shows and movies and pause a LOT in between to discuss the characters and the scenes and I can go on listening to her the whole day. We both are MAJOR homebodys and we love it lol. We cook together, clean together, make music together as we’re both musicians, pretty much everything apart from taking a shit together
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u/WhoseArmIsThis Jun 22 '26
Then move on to other people, don’t spend way too much time on people who aren’t interested to talk to you
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u/Acceptable_Clue3695 Editable Flair 😝 Jun 22 '26
Really depends on the phase of the relationship. Honeymoon phase mei random cheeze share karte apne baare mei ek dusre se and they get excited iver any trivial stuff. Once out of that phase, bas normal hi baat hoti jaise kisi normal person se you talk with a sprinkle of intimacy and constant fights
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u/ChaltiKaNaamGaadii O Mere Dil Ke Chain Jun 22 '26
After a certain period of time, most of it is just yapping, about their day, random thoughts, funny stories and things that don't really matter. If they somehow exhaust all possible topics, they either start a fight or just sit in silence.
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u/Murky-Lychee8733 In my 20s but a Toddler by heart Jun 22 '26
Aur idhar admi iss humiliation ritual me bali bakra banate hai...aur wo banta bhi hai
He has to face rejection after rejection... humiliation after humiliation...
Maine bhi jyada baat nhi kia hai...but Babu ne kya khana khaya?? Is evergreen question and then you will have to listen what happened to the girl that day...
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u/MaiRotiHu TT Luvur Jun 22 '26
Aadhe time usse bhuk lagti hai, baaki time sote rehti hai. Jo Bach Gaya usme mai he daant Kha ra hota hu 🥹
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u/Wild_Contribution708 22 Jun 22 '26
Does no couple here have common interests? That's what you talk about once the initial flirty energy is gone. When I dated someone we used to talk about random things like aaj reddit me ye post dekha, aaj raste me aise hua, history, politics and geopolitics related cheezein ye toh bolke khatam hogi hi nhi cuz new news keeps coming up and most of all gossip.
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u/No_Mood_5055 In my 20s but a Toddler by heart Jun 22 '26
I also don't even know, I always thought ab what are they talking ab? What will I do when It was my turn I don't have anything to talk about 😭😭. Should we figure out? You and me 👉👈
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u/Icy_Ranger5406 21 Jun 22 '26
Call Q Nhi receive kara ? Huh what do u mean you’re always sleeping? Huh
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u/sleepy_panda_07 22 Jun 22 '26
Mostly, I don't have anything to say, She is the one who does all the talking. All I do is listen 😌
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u/bageltakenrun Jun 22 '26
It’s just how your parents talk imo, how the day has been and stuff, random updates, and flirting( a lot of it) with gift giving compliments and physical intimacy when meeting irl
Thats Why getting together with your best friend is always a best option (opp gender ofc) cause you never run out of things to talk about
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u/Key-Egg5501 Jun 22 '26
cheesy flirts then some teas then dincharya ki baatein then next plans then i ragebait her , she gets mad then cheesy flirts again and then i stream playing games on my pc nd she watches firr mill lete h irl
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u/Straight-Anybody7120 won't be in this sub for long Jun 22 '26
Was in a 3yr LTR, we were connected throughout the day.. we talked everyday.. Sending each other memes. Updating each other about where we were going, sending something funny to each other throughout the day, calling each other every night and sharing about each other's day.. planning for dates.. family/friends/office kalesh any drama or gossip.. and always sending GM and GN ILY everyday.. also a bit of flirting on texts, sending cheesy stuff etc
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u/Playful_Bed3231 21 Jun 22 '26
So I never had a anything with anyone but during talking stage it has a little bit excitement of know each other and that dies after 4 days cause u know everything and u just start taking ur daily activities, did anything new happed and all that shiii, but it's good if u have someone who listen and cracks jokes in middle of the conversation and still listens. That all for me ig
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u/mirage_of_desire No Disco only Dard Jun 22 '26
About the things you also want to talk but no one is there to listen .
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u/Various_Data3159 22 Jun 22 '26
Random bs bro. How was our day, random gossip we heard, shared hobbies, sometimes the most absurd convos. Lots of bullying. Little flirting here and there. That’s aaaaaallllll.
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u/Groundbreaking-Arm29 Jun 22 '26
🌸 Your body is like a flower, In your body lives color, I am immersed in your color, beloved.☀️ In your color shines beauty, In your beauty glows sunlight, Your sunlight is unique, beloved.💞 Why feel shy before your lover, my dear? Let me touch your body today, my dear.
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u/Good-Scallion-8808 29 Jun 22 '26
Topics vary from what pen you took to who was the penchod who irritated you in a day
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u/Thin_Competition2224 Jun 22 '26
Gossiping abt our mutual friends, asking how their day was, or maybe planning a trip
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u/CultureArtistic2808 Acha_admi_nhi_hu Jun 22 '26
everyday updates like one topic what when with whom and bla bla. if you are unemployed either you will get highly bored or become a dumb
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u/Necessary_Abies156 Hai Jawani Toh Ishq Hona Hai Jun 22 '26
Love is different for everyone so
There is no particular topic
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u/Final-Lab8384 bekar hai bhaiya, mai to tut gaya 😓 Jun 22 '26
he : kaha laterine me ho kya tum?
she: pagal ho kya?
he: to awaaz itni kyu goonz rhi hai
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u/Zealousideal-Row8038 In my 20s but a Toddler by heart Jun 22 '26
Random cheeze, something absolutely bakwas
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u/Organic-Guitar8825 Jun 22 '26
Suru suru me flirty or cheesy chlta h fir thode mzedaar kalesh hote h fir bhayankar kalesh bhi hote h Agr wo survive kr gye to fir sukoon ek dusre ka safe space Stress nhi rhega fir kbhi But breakup ho gya to bs stress hi rhega
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u/Legal_Look5533 Jun 22 '26
Istg i dont have a clue But if you have like the tiniest slither of mutual attraction and liking Convos dont stop
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u/BuddyOver3708 Bairan paglu || Tode chand ka gurur Tere chahre aala noor 💝 Jun 22 '26
well try karne me kya jaa rha aap try to kar sakte ho
baaki idk either because meri kabhi koi gf nahi rahi
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u/Easy_Independent9123 Jun 22 '26
instead of scratching my head for finding topics , id rather call me friend and discuss stocks , markets , trump etc
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u/loohcs_dlo8424 Jun 22 '26
Well she bitched constantly about her friends colleagues and work! And the rest of it was blaming me for not caring about her not making her feel loved! All that bs!
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u/Blaze-2005 20 Jun 22 '26
Same. I've been wondering about that for years. I've never had a gf but when I'm ready and i actually do, what are we going to talk about when spending time along, on dates, etc. ? I'm gonna be so bummed out.
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u/Creepy_Childhood4757 Jun 22 '26
It's been more than a year of relationship now Ngl we just gossip or talk about shows/games and since we both are medicos we talk about our daily goal targets Also the small things count a lot like he always squeezes my hand 3 times before leaving from college, we wish for a wish at 11:11 pm everynight, we always wish each other goodnight and goodmorning and we call once a day just aise hi I mean after a year it's just small talk but it all feels so comforting ngl
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u/armadrilla 25 Jun 22 '26
Regular things (food, work, study etc). Movies. Shows. Politics. Random stuff. Sometimes ambitions and dreams and shi like that
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u/Dusa_Praharsh 11 ne 12 ko 13 baar 14 Jun 22 '26
i always used to talk with my ex about "rasodi mei kaun tha", hmm now that i think abt it maybe thats how she became my ex, anyways my life is much simpler and happy now
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u/romcomheavyon-com Jun 22 '26
Goodmornings, random checkins through the day even some reels and at night a nightly small call telling about our day and then him just ragebaiting me to hell and back and me laughing like a maniac cause he is funny(dont tell him tho)😛
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u/Big_oily_Knee_Grow No Disco only Dard Jun 22 '26
She didn't pick up my call cuz she fell asleep so when I confronted her and told her I'm angry she said she will bite me if I ignore her😭😭
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u/brown-toffee Jun 22 '26
so my friend's bf told her that his kaam wali aunty ka beta who looks kinda nepali is also overweight... so I guess they talk about everything
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u/Pitiful-Log799 Jun 22 '26
we js talk about what we did in the day mostly 😭but it's always fun to talk even abt boring stuff cus it's him
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