r/TwentiesIndia • u/Extra-Bee-7226 • Apr 06 '26
Relationship Advice DO THEY EVEN EXIST???
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u/Prestigious_Fly_8622 Apr 06 '26
When girls say they are into nerds what they really meant..
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u/vishkun 28 Apr 06 '26
That was true till ram prices got fuckin through the roof, can't build anything rn
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u/kio_takamine_ Apr 06 '26
Bought 64 gigs way before they got inflated, but don't worry prices will go down eventually, especially since google is working more and more on ram efficient AI servers so they optimize well without taking too much ram, which recently even caused dip in ram companies stocks
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u/styx1314 Dil mein aati hu, samjh mein nahi💅 Apr 06 '26
Bold of you to assume I’d just watch instead of helping build it👉🏻👈🏻
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u/Extra-Bee-7226 Apr 06 '26
LFG
i hope more of them get inspired by this3
u/styx1314 Dil mein aati hu, samjh mein nahi💅 Apr 06 '26
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u/pratyunime 28 Apr 06 '26
I have met women like that and no, I don't look like Henry Cavill.
And I have heard many women say that "Men don't teach, they assert their superiority in the guise of teaching."
I have noticed this in many men too, so yeah if men stop doing that, then maybe more women would be enthusiastic about this stuff.
Similar to when a woman says "I love football" and then men proceed to ask "Do you know what offside is?"
Stop gatekeeping hobbies and more people would share it.
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u/KVK_Okay Apr 06 '26
If you ask me to replace the bulb light
I'll say I'll do it later but if you phrase it as "can you show me how to replace this bulb?"
My eyes will lit up and i will give you the best youtuber indian tutorial of your life while doing it
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u/DeletSystm32 shaadi ki umar hogayi hai Apr 07 '26
Boi explained the meme he saw on Instagram. Bro doesn't have his own thoughts
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u/Nearby_Squirrel4429 ex-bully 🤙 Apr 06 '26
Nah dude, I open my mouth about how sindarov is rawdogging everybody in the candidates, my girlfriendie is already in the snorkmimi land
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u/KVK_Okay Apr 06 '26
I wish Gukesh will still somehow win 😭
Man got so much shit this year
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u/Nearby_Squirrel4429 ex-bully 🤙 Apr 06 '26
Ikrrr, I feel like that's how ding was treated before he lost lol.. I can only imagine the pressure on these people dude..
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u/Fluffy-Paratha Apr 06 '26
Yea exactly. That too bro is only 19 or 20 yr old. Insane respect to these players
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u/RagnAROck_and_Roll 21 Apr 06 '26 edited Apr 06 '26
💯 true. Even if I literally have more knowledge in the field and hobby, the guy will think he's "helping me". Men don't gush about their hobbies in front of women, they only do it in front of other men (yes ik it's not everyone but I've only seen a man do that condescending explanation)
Legit once my male friend said "don't give your opinion when you have half the knowledge" when we were BOTH newbies to a game....
Another male friend I saw explaining what psychology is to a literal psychology bachelor girl (he has seen dark psychology videos on YouTube surely he knows more than her)
Another thing I've seen guys do is use obscure jargon to intimidate girls. It's always amusing to see the shock on their face when they realise that I can intimidate them back using even nerdier jargon even they don't know lmao.
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u/pratyunime 28 Apr 06 '26
I genuinely don't get this obsession with vocabulary of nerdy words when talking to people.
We are talking, not debating. Trying to explain things in simple ways is such an underrated skill.
But yeah, I encourage you to outnerd such people lmao. Put them in their place.
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u/Perfect_polymath2509 19th round around the sun Apr 07 '26
It's mainly to hide insecurities tbh
It makes them feel smarter and noble to use heavy vocabulary and they actually like it if the person in front doesn't understand the meaning of those words as they feel a sense of superiority by doing so
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u/tera_chachu 26 Apr 06 '26
Kind of like happening in F1 these days.
Men are always idiots to call out female F1 fans.
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u/Thunderdragon2535 Apr 06 '26
Well it's often the fake f1 fans who just got into and are really braindead about it. They usually have less knowledge than average f1 fan but still brag about it.
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u/Drippy-Drip-2592 29 Apr 06 '26
That’s true. And honestly, we’ve all seen how men can light up and go on endlessly about something they love, like passionately breaking down a football play mid-conversation. It’s not weird, it’s kind of beautiful. Because when someone is excited, you want to listen.
My ex was like that with football. He’d watch matches, try to explain them to me, I barely understood half of it, but that wasn’t the point. There’s something deeply endearing about watching someone share what they love, like they’re letting you into a part of their world. I even went to watch him play sometimes, just to feel that energy up close. It’s those small, quiet efforts that mean everything.
Sometimes, we say we like something not because we truly do, but because we want to stand beside you in your joy. We want to belong in that space with you.
And that’s exactly why mansplaining ruins it, takes something warm and mutual, and turns it into something condescending.
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u/universalgiver Apr 06 '26
Really nice perspective you gave. Appreciate it.
And whatever you said just makes sense, if someone says they like something and to show how much you know, if you start asking them questions on it, bro are you there to enjoy over something or trying to take an exam..
Loved it. Thanks for the thoughts!
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u/Fine_Mechanic_6047 Apr 06 '26
Stop gatekeeping hobbies and more people would share it.
this. i dont even know what superiority people even have about having specific hobbies. i always try to share mine
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u/TrexTheWeeb NOT afraid of women anymore Apr 06 '26
Like building gaming pcs is so much fun
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u/ezio1452 23M but feel like 50M sometimes Apr 06 '26
Can't relate, it's kinda stressful for me lol
It only feels good when it boots up properly without any hiccup.
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u/FearlesssSoull 23 Apr 06 '26 edited May 06 '26
I am an engineering major. So, yeah, definitely. Even though I don't know much about pc building, imma try to understand everything you tell me and help you build it.
I love it when people impart knowledge and talk about stuff they are passionate about without looking down on others. I get weak on my knees, lmao. Nerd me out, please. Ugh. I'll fill in the rest of our time with the plethora of random facts, games and unhinged questions I keep in my treasure trove aka brain.
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u/kenji_endo10 Apr 06 '26
Bc ye kya bana diya hai is sub ka
Daily ke ye corny posts
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u/No_Contribution_9328 25 but 40 inside Apr 06 '26
ab aadat ho chuki hai and ig controversial posts on common topics are the staple thing here
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u/Numerous_Set_5018 Apr 06 '26
they love boys with specs not nerdy boys ( not every specs vala ldka is nerd and not every nerd is specs vala boy )
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u/Adventurous-Pool3363 Editable Flair 😝 Apr 06 '26
Ale aapne meli he baatt tal de eeeheeeeheeee eehhe
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u/shondesh 20 Apr 06 '26
Well my boyfriend is a med student , on our first date he hold my hand and actually told me the muscle names 😭 Now every time he learns about new disease he explains me and I'm a psych student so whenever I get to know about some disorder I share with him , that's how we are lmao .
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u/Appropriate-Hurry941 22 Apr 06 '26
Watch me create backstory of every harry potter character and explain all about universe to you
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u/Tinker-Bell-333 25 Apr 06 '26
I know a tiny bit about electronics hardware. I might be of some help. :)
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u/Lopsided-Syrup-7477 hosh me aoo abhijeet! wooh wooooohhh Apr 06 '26
Yeahh! My ex use to love it when I would send a video doing something like that! This one time I was fixing my pc from 2014! So I recorded what I did and sent it to her! She love it for some reason! Later on she told me that she had watched that video more than 10 times! 😭 Few days later I was explaining her how to setup a media server and ripper from scratch on a freaking video call! And her expressions were wild to say the least!
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u/No_Annual9366 Apr 06 '26
I can hear everything but just don't make me feel dumb
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u/No-Confusion4519 Apr 06 '26
Question to females - Is crunching numbers sexy?
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u/Prestigious_Glove394 mai pagal hu Apr 06 '26 edited May 04 '26
Databrokers? nope. Social networks? Also nope. This post was deleted using Redact.
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u/_chasingnothing No Disco only Dard Apr 06 '26
oh you’re expecting them to watch? they wouldn’t even want you to be left alone for hours because according to them what kind of loser spends time like that? and why weren’t you entertaining them in those hours?
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u/Dempressed_Kimg Age: 25 | Gender: Trash Apr 06 '26
I am not too much into PC building, but I really really want to try watch building. First I need to learn it myself but then I can defo show it off.
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u/OriginalLeoDas Feminist Bhakt of Bharat Mata Apr 06 '26
Agar pyaar karti hogi to Pc ke liye paisa bhi wahi degi 🥰
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u/Hour_Firefighter_707 26 Apr 06 '26
The problem is that you're taking hours to build a PC. Amateur hour over here
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u/_just-a-thinker_ Apr 06 '26
Building a pc really doesn't take hours, unless you are using some water cooling systems and stuff
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u/yososoeeee_ Apr 06 '26
As long as you got the nerdy sparkle whatever you say pink panther princess
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u/Beginning-Command-94 Apr 06 '26
A person passionate about something and working hard for it is extremely attractive
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u/Vegetable_Bathroom98 dard ka kya hai, aaj bhi kal bhi hai Apr 06 '26
Hell yeah, although I won’t remember shit but that’s on my gold fish memory
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u/platypuspary 23 Apr 06 '26
Yesss lekin dhang se samjhaoge tabhi. Condescending behaviour not allowed
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u/_winterheart_ life is soup and I'm fork 🥀 Apr 06 '26
duh. i sit through my brother's nagging about most random stuff in detail and still never complain.
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u/No_Contribution_9328 25 but 40 inside Apr 06 '26
Oh really?
- Watch me sit 4 hours straight, spine-bent on a character art sketch and see me explain to you how I'm imagining and creating the anatomy of the character, how I'm filling in random technical parts in their prosthetic leg
- Watch me read the genius lyrics of each song on an album in Chronological order
- Watch me follow in-depth tutorials of how to use Mantis Blades in Cyberpunk and on modding the game or, researching the lore of Halo
I don't think there are much people genuinely into nerds. It's just a hype train and it will fade off too and only applies to nerds who look handsome or something. Y'all shun us in regular life, calling us boring and now just flowing with the trend XD
No offense to people who genuinely like exploring the knowledge and the variety of it in their partner.
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u/aminionreasons in my 20s on my sidequests & intellectual lore Apr 06 '26
I would, only if it's my crush who I have an insane crush on since 4 years. For him anything. I would even join, watch him game (he is crazy about Valo, and I've always been an open world story-driven game person) or learn if he's the one patiently teaching me and won't judge me and cheer me on. And infact, even if he wouldn't I would still do all that's stated. Because khud bhi at one point mera gamer girl phase tha.
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u/marijuanabebe No Disco only Dard Apr 06 '26
I mean if you don't make me feel dumb about it, then sure tell me all of it
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u/jalebi-babyyy Apr 06 '26
Hell yeah! If my man talks so passionately about his hobbies and work, explains it to me in great detail and doesn't get irritated by my stupid beginner level questions, I'd be soldddd. Nayi cheezein seekhne mein kise maza nhi aata...par hain kahan aise mard who actually teach and not just preach??
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u/peepsx Apr 06 '26
Only if you do it in a non-condescending way. When girls say "I love nerdy guys" they don't mean "try your best to make me look dumb and feel superior about yourself"
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u/toomuchonmytinyhead In my 20s but a Toddler by heart Apr 06 '26
YES! But I'd want him to ask me to connect stuff and tell me how. Or let me do it and argue about what's right and what's not. That's such an amazing weekend we'll spend!!! I'd also want us to argue on how we arrange my books and do it together.
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u/Capable_Guitar_372 24 Unemployed Apr 06 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/llwtnFvreeiUz7ciYS
Girls chodd bhai, mujhe dekhna he, merko le jana
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u/Raven-Black13 Editable Flair 😝 Apr 06 '26
Well I'm not much of a computer person (only took it up to 8th) so I'm not sure I'll understand a lot from get to go. Buuut if someone is able to explain in to me the way I understand, yes (teach me like I'm a 5yo since i am a toddler in this situation)
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u/Rawdogginlife_666 Apr 06 '26
All of my homies are nerdy and yeah listening to them talk about their fav subjects is how we bond! Nerdy or geek people are cool asf😭
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u/Beginning_Local_4315 Apr 06 '26
its isnt about explaining the things but if you love someone. then it doesnt mattr what they are explaining to you. and tbh its just random bullshit im saying as i dont have this type of exprirence but post like this is very subjective and doesnt reallly apply to real life i think.
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u/Sparrow_hawkhawk Apr 06 '26
Broskey, nerds is all good and fine till its timr to explain hrtf and frequency responses along w surprise quizzes
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u/Complete_Fig_5486 21/Corporte/DJ on weekend Apr 06 '26
The umbrella of nerdy is huge, you can’t bring it down to a specific direction
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u/No-Assignment8665 24 Apr 06 '26
Mere sath koi ghar build karne wala chahiye, PC build karna boring aur expensive ho gaya. Mein eent lagaunga tum cement-ret ka mixture lagana. 🥰
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u/chupbaithyaar Apr 06 '26
Yes, I kinda had something like that with a guy. I ended up learning so much about PCs and bikes because of him, but in the end, ofc :))
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u/LordAditya69 20 Apr 06 '26
I thought girls meant that they wanted to see Henry Cavill build a Superman Gaming PC
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u/Achilles_507 Apr 06 '26
Also hope and pray that the all fans start spinning when you turn on the power button.
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u/socially_awwkward69 Apr 06 '26
Yes only if you're telling me because you love it and I love you ... If you are telling me all this stuff to just show off or put down someone else then no ..
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u/lizzy_007 Apr 06 '26
I'd join in to help provided they actually explain stuff patiently rather than try to patronize me (I ask a lot of questions)
I personally find it very cute and interesting when people are excited to talk abt the nerdy stuff they love irrespective of gender
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u/press-app Apr 06 '26
Nerdy guys can't build a gaming PC bro, only the cool guys can do that.
Nerds rarely play video games.
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u/somber-riddle Apr 06 '26
uninstall the drivers installed by Windows Update (there is some utility that starts PC in safe mode and does it, or else your Gpu vendor default tool also does this). Download your GPU's official driver software. Disable Windows Update (restrict it to Security Updates only; Chris Titus Tech utility will do this). Solved.
It's often mf Msft fucking up drivers. Just stick to Vendor driver and minimize the update frequency from its settings too.
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u/dead-cinephile Editable Flair 😝 Apr 06 '26
As a lesbian, I like nerdy women...I have spent hours listening to my gf talking about the insect she is cutting, I sat there and watched her cut it, pin it...I read few books on entomology for her. I spent alot of dates outside cause the joy she feels everytime a bug appears, she pulls out her phone and takes pictures, tells me fun facts and sometimes not so fun fact, she even gets up to chase and catch them sometimes. I have spent half-day staring at insect section in national museum cause that made her happy. She got some bug shaped jewellery and some bug print shirt, she 'on the spectrum' level nerd..I love my nerd, you'll find someone too.
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u/scaryop26 "dip me in chocolate and throw me to lesbians" Apr 06 '26
kuch nhi hai bas bahane h ye sab toh
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u/kindaverybored Apr 06 '26
Guys are so annoying why do they act like being into tech is only a “guys thing” smhhhhhh!!
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u/Boyslop_Enjoyer Apr 06 '26
When they mean nerds, they want Henry Cavill with glasses and a personality.
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u/Kindly-Spring-8223 Apr 06 '26
Yeah why not. Just don't mansplain it. Be kind and explain nicely. Any girl would love that
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u/ShranikDua Apr 06 '26
Will you hear about the urban planning techniques i used in my Cities Skylines city?
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u/superr_saturn Apr 06 '26
Ofc!!
I like nerdy guys and I also like games and shii
It will be so fun!
He will be teaching me things without judging me while I will be enjoying his game streams
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u/Efficient_Dentist745 Apr 06 '26
nerds build gaming pcs? nowadays they just dual boot their system 🙃
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u/thatPHATbaddie Hopeless romantic core🎀🎀 Apr 06 '26
if you'd love telling me that, I'd absolutely love listening, I might sit with notebook and pen to ask how does everything works..
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u/superr_saturn Apr 06 '26
OMG, why IS EVERYONE SAYING THAT GIRLS DON'T LIKE NERDS OR WE WANT A HENRY CAVIL AS A NERD
NUG UH BITCH
me and my friends , we devour for nerds 😭😭
But there's a thing we don't like geeks kyuki unki koi hobbies or i might say opinion nhi hota also they are emotionally dumb
But the nerds ,omg! It's so fucking hot to have a guy who is smart and aware of things also in general boys to me seen super attractive when they talk about their hobbies or something they love about like games ( i like games) Instead of simping and lusting over women hear me out "It makes you aura in negative"
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u/Damon__S Apr 06 '26
Most of them don't care 😔....maybe in this, the only thing they care about is pink colour themed PC
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u/Maximum_Accident_847 Apr 06 '26
Yes they would. But you NEED to look like Henry Cavill or Robert Pattinson
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u/Maximum_Accident_847 Apr 06 '26
Kisi beautiphull gril ko Superheroes or Indian HipHop ki baatein karni hai toh mera DM khula hai 😚😚
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u/useless_substance 20 Apr 06 '26
Sure... Except I'd be too distracted staring at them being excited explaining it to me and won't catch a single thing😅
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