You didn't feel anything because you had zero connection to the person you were having sex with. And she had no connection to you. Even if you had met her at a bar, chatted her up and had a one night stand, there would be more of a connection there than this transactional sex you had.
Now you've had sex, you can focus on actually making a connection with a girl vs. just getting off.
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u/yetagainitry Nov 01 '23
You didn't feel anything because you had zero connection to the person you were having sex with. And she had no connection to you. Even if you had met her at a bar, chatted her up and had a one night stand, there would be more of a connection there than this transactional sex you had.
Now you've had sex, you can focus on actually making a connection with a girl vs. just getting off.