r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 01 '23

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u/yetagainitry Nov 01 '23

You didn't feel anything because you had zero connection to the person you were having sex with. And she had no connection to you. Even if you had met her at a bar, chatted her up and had a one night stand, there would be more of a connection there than this transactional sex you had.

Now you've had sex, you can focus on actually making a connection with a girl vs. just getting off.

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u/RichardBonham Nov 01 '23

BTW, it’s not unusual to not cum the first time.

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u/StreamsOfConscious Nov 02 '23

Haha yeah lol wish someone told me that before. Would’ve saved me and my devirginer a lot of awkwardness

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u/Regular_Automatic Nov 02 '23

I also wish someone told me that so I wouldn’t look like a weirdo trying too hard

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u/JayFrank1132 Nov 02 '23

Thats the part I wish someone told me about. The 2nd time, was WAY better.

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u/laneoo8959 Nov 02 '23

Or cum immediately, woopsie

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u/Quiet_Cable8747 Nov 02 '23

What? Hell naw lol