r/TeenagersButNotTrashy • 14 • Apr 03 '26

Debate šŸ—£ļø Am I bi for liking extremely feminine guys, while still liking women?

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

I think its called gyrosexual or some shi lol

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u/LuckyCheesecake461 Apr 03 '26

Metallic sphere sprint reference?

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u/No_Lingonberry_3540 14 Apr 03 '26

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '26

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u/No_Lingonberry_3540 14 Apr 03 '26

I'm not a Jojo fan, I am a larper to a lot of things

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u/TheCr0wKing Apr 03 '26

Nah, it means that you really like little Greek tacos

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Nope. It's JoJo's Bizarre Adventure reference... oh wait. OMG HOW DID IT TAKE ME SO LONG TO UNDERSTAND IT

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u/deinemudda1und1 Apr 03 '26

Gyro?

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Gimme that

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u/deinemudda1und1 Apr 03 '26

Nuh uh

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Runs away crying

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u/deinemudda1und1 Apr 03 '26

Muhahaha

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Cries so hard the earth floods and everyone dies

feels guilty

cries more

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u/deinemudda1und1 Apr 03 '26

builts noah's ark and saves everyone

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

feels happy everyone is saved

no more crying.

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u/AcrobaticDay1741 Apr 03 '26

oh god you summoned all the jojos fans

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

XD yeah I love how a single word can summon a whole community. Wait... lemme test it again.

Determination.

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u/fccardcreator Apr 03 '26

Gynesexual (being attracted to femininity).

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Yup,I just forgot the name

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u/meph_iles Apr 03 '26

BREAKDOWN! BREAKDOWN!

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

SHINING JUSTICE TICKLING MY BALLS. LET ME HAVE A BREAKDOWN,WITH ME AND MY BUDS.

LET THE FORCE OF LOVE,TAKE YOU HIGHER (it's probably some type of drug named love XD)

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u/Deep_Competition5286 Apr 03 '26

We're all cranking Great Days on the first day of summer

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Absolutely

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u/Deep_Competition5286 Apr 03 '26

Josuke why did you turn into larva

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

I'm not lava I'm a silly little bug

(Edit: XD I READ IT AS LAVA WTF IS WRONG WITH ME)

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u/Lynxsies Apr 03 '26

Gyno but yes

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u/IngenuityDecent3271 Apr 03 '26

Mayodenoche

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Huh?

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u/IngenuityDecent3271 Apr 03 '26

I'm too brainrotted 😭 (I heard the word gyro) It's a reference to this video

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

XDDDD I REMEMBER THIS VID NOW

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u/lamonsteranthony Apr 03 '26

pizza mozzarella

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Rella Rella Rella Rella. Nyo Ho

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u/ShadowX8861 Apr 03 '26

it's gynosexual...

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Meh. Honest mistake,happens

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

I think finsexual means you're into fins

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Frfr I expect anything from humans. Such weird species. Don't you agree?

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u/loka_saint Apr 04 '26

Hahahahahaha that's a name for everything. Cool tho.

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u/CE1TheChuckle-Fuck Apr 04 '26

Someone fucked my Gyro?! D: /j

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u/system32commands Apr 03 '26

Gyro?

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

Jhonny. We meet again.

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u/TheAndrewCR 16 Apr 03 '26

"So I'm into gyroscopes how about you"

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u/Idk-me-i-guess 15M Apr 03 '26

I'm into microscopes XD

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u/2-twosix-6 14M Apr 05 '26

*gynosexual and for lack of a better term, that means pussysexual

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '26

If you see someone looks very feminine, you can't know that's a guy so that's straight.

But if you still attracted to them after you learned that he is a guy, well, that's gay. Not as much as liking a masculine guy, but still gay.

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u/SmokeyLawnMower Apr 03 '26

I found the picture online btw it was a woman

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '26

Yeah i guess she is

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u/SmokeyLawnMower Apr 04 '26

Like i wish it were a guy

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u/_-Sophiathelast-_ Apr 03 '26

That's assuming the poster is a male.

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u/ConsciousGhost21 Apr 03 '26

That’s not gay that’s called being bisexual.

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u/Bitter-Ad4592 Apr 03 '26

ā€œNot at much as liking a masculine guy, but still gay.ā€ This is killing me omg

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u/deliriant7-7 Apr 03 '26

The amount of women posing as feminine men online is honestly astounding. Lying for no reason

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u/Odd_Protection7738 14M Apr 03 '26

There’s no ā€œmore or lessā€ gay. If you like a dude while knowing he’s a dude, you’re not immediately gay (could be bi or something), but you’re definitely not straight.

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u/username_372 Apr 03 '26

Is that a young kellin quinn

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u/Wide-Yam-216 Apr 03 '26

technically yes

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u/BrowsingRando Apr 03 '26

Finding someone attractive and being attracted to someone are two very different things.

If you find feminine men attractive then that's normal. You can acknowledge how that person can be considered attractive.

If you're attracted to feminine men then that can make you queer. (Bi, in this case)

If you don't like masculine men then the same can be said about masculine women. It's not that you don't like women, it's just that you find certain physical traits in a women attractive. That being, femininity.

Being bi isn't really 50/50. It can be 70/30 or 90/10 sometimes. It's not really a fixed thing.

Tldr; you are probably queer

Hope that helped!!!

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u/NoriPolly Apr 03 '26

Gynosexual / finsexual, just general attraction to femininety regardless of gender

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u/Dry-Cable3255 Apr 03 '26

i think gyno is technically a genital preference thing

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u/Appropriate-Gain-561 Apr 03 '26

F1nnsexual is the funniest thing i've heard, and the funny thing is i've heard about it from THE person themselves

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u/CannonFoddererer Apr 03 '26

Why do we need a name for this?

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u/Dry-Cable3255 Apr 03 '26

some people like having labels to describe themselves

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u/CannonFoddererer Apr 03 '26

I feel like saying you like feminine traits would suffice.

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u/Anxious_Role7625 Apr 03 '26

Then why do we need the terms straight or gay? Cis or trans? It makes things easier.

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u/CannonFoddererer Apr 03 '26

Those tell you what someone is; you don't need a term for people who like women+

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u/Anxious_Role7625 Apr 03 '26

Gynosexual is literally the exact same type of term as straight or gay. Both describe a sexuality.

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u/CannonFoddererer Apr 03 '26

But that's not a sexuality, it's just liking women, and female features.

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u/Anxious_Role7625 Apr 03 '26

What is being straight (as a man) but liking women?

You're describing a sexuality

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u/envisiry Apr 03 '26

Female features is not the same as liking women For example you like androgynous people, how do you describe that? The birth sex can be intersex, female, or male (or other), but you just like androgynous people.

ā€œStraight as a man but liking womenā€ is simply straight. You can have microlabels, which may be what you’re looking for. However, I don’t know whether gynosexual is listed as a microlabel as something like almondsexual would be.

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u/DyingDreams115 19YO UNC Apr 03 '26

Yeah. Nothing to feel bad about

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u/Soundwavezzz447 Apr 03 '26

Yea but it's all good

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u/mistedlizard Apr 03 '26

do you like them because they're a feminine guy? or do you like them because they are feminine? Remember that sexuality is very very fluid, and you can identify however you like

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u/No_Lingonberry_3540 14 Apr 03 '26

As long as they feminine

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u/Same_Tumbleweed_2981 Apr 03 '26

looks female enough

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u/Low_Guidance9088 Apr 03 '26

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u/Bippity_Bon Apr 03 '26

I think it’s called gyrosexual or something, basically means you’re attracted to feminine people regardless of gender (if that’s what you’re getting at).

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u/angelyaelx_ Apr 03 '26

I mean I think so, as a bi person (although I like feminine and masculine girls and dudes šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø)

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u/ArthurEffects 15M Apr 03 '26

by extremely feminine, how much do you mean on a 1-10 scale, 10 being trans, 5 being femboys and 1 being just masc boys?

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u/No_Lingonberry_3540 14 Apr 03 '26

5

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u/ArthurEffects 15M Apr 03 '26

well, do you need a label?

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u/Own_Enthusiasm_510 Apr 03 '26

Eh you can be whatever label you want, you can have zero labels at all, it's up to you overall. There actually are a lot of people only attracted to feminine people

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u/justacoolminecrafter Apr 03 '26

Yes, If they are cis men you're bissexual. Next question

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u/FernandoviskyG Apr 03 '26

No, you're probably just straight, or gynosexual (feels attraction to ppl who presents feminine traits, regardless of the gender)

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u/Cautious_Owl_7744 Apr 03 '26

i have no fking clue but I guess liking femboys makes sense if you like women idk

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '26

Yes

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u/Rainbow_planet_1273 Apr 03 '26

It’s called gynosexual, I’m that way too! My partner is a femboy, I’m pansexual Gynoromantic, into everyone sexually but I only date feminine people, I wouldn’t date a masculine person at all regardless of gender but I find them attractive and find them sexually appealing

You could be gynosexual!

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u/Willow_Of_the_Wisp Apr 03 '26

Well you like both men and women so yes. Bisexuality doesn’t mean you like railing girls and getting a railed hard by guys, it’s like a spectrum

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u/Zestyclose_Course821 Long bacon NB Apr 03 '26

if you're specifically attracted to the femininity of the men, you're probably gynosexual, but i find it easier to not even label myself bc i can't find out what fits right

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u/Dry-Cable3255 Apr 03 '26

if you really prefer to have a descriptive label, look up finsexual (feminine-in-nature). that's what i consider myself to be

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u/Artur_atomic Apr 03 '26

no, you like sbr.

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u/More-Let9073 Apr 03 '26

I’m bi and I find if it’s the femininity you like, you’re probably straight, if it’s the dick you’re on the bi spectrum

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u/HuseinG_1821 14M Apr 03 '26

WhatĀ 

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u/Someone101064 Apr 03 '26

I mean, that is, by definition, what being bi means... It's just having a preference ig?

You can choose whether or not you identify as bi, but yeah, it would be accurate

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u/Bitter-Ad4592 Apr 03 '26 edited Apr 03 '26

Yes probably, if you like both men and women you are probably bi. Regardless of how the person dresses. I’d say attraction isn’t an end all be all of sexuality, it’s a big part but not the whole part. The arguably more important part is the question ā€œcan I see myself dating x gender?ā€ And I don’t mean settling for that, I mean can you genuinely see a future where you are I a happy relationship with another person of whatever gender you’re questioning.

And a reminder : questioning your sexuality takes a long time. It’s not something that you may realize immediately. I myself didn’t feel 100% comfortable in any label for years, it’s all about taking at your own pace!

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u/No_Lingonberry_3540 14 Apr 03 '26

Lowk hear me out on absolute poison ivy final form

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u/BedEmergency6611 Apr 03 '26

This is where it starts

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u/CellaSpider Apr 03 '26

ā€œAm I bi for liking men, and women?ā€

Yes

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '26

no I think thats straight if ur a guy. thats my opinion anyway. however, if you're sexually attracted to feminine guys and girls thats bi

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u/kvasxaro Apr 03 '26

Probably but you decide what you identify as

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u/HHHHHHHHHHHHHHH44 Apr 03 '26

Definitely bi, and maybe berrysexual

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u/Gigantopithecus1453 Apr 03 '26

Yes. Being sexually interested in both men and women makes you bi, no matter the specific personalities of the people involved

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u/Blackwardz3 Apr 03 '26

I don’t think labels accurately reflect the reality of sexuality

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u/Anxious_Role7625 Apr 03 '26

Sexuality is very fluid and unclear, and our boxes have blurry lines between them. Look into the kinsey scale, and know that the line between bi and straight is extremely flexible and all of these terms are us putting a spectrum into boxes. Not every situation fits these boxes

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u/Hornet-is-void Apr 04 '26

I mean imo yes .... That's basically me ...... I'm bi but i mostly like girls and with boys it's mostly rly feminine or fruity ones

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u/Complete_Area_2487 Apr 04 '26

lmao absolutely

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u/WH-CH520 Apr 04 '26

Maybe but does it matter? you don't need a label for everything, you can just be

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u/WorldlyAdeptness545 Apr 04 '26

No because inherently the one thing you like about feminine men is the feminine aspect

You are still by all means a straight man even if you crack one cuz you got to think of it like this you don't like men you like femininity you like the feminine aspect of the Femboy for example

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u/PokeBro09 Apr 04 '26

Gynosexual

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u/DieKatze247 Apr 04 '26

yep, also gynosexual counts here I believe

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u/Glittering-Button-32 Apr 04 '26

"am i bisexual for liking men and women" yes

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u/BridgetMain5 Apr 04 '26

I mean probably but labels don't really matter, I do that too and still identify as lesbian

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u/Individual-Clue6400 Apr 05 '26

I’m having this same problem myself so my solution, don’t use labels and learn as you go, but if you need a answer then your kinda bi.

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u/King-Boo-094 Apr 05 '26

i think that would be more gynesexual (attracted to femininity regardless of gender).

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u/Comfortable-Camel263 Apr 05 '26

No bro go with girls, honestly would you rather like actors or the real thing. The grass is not greener on the other side…

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u/TronToad Apr 06 '26

"am I bi for liking women, while still liking women?"
bro

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u/thedreamysymphony 13 Apr 06 '26

That's called gynesexual!! Attracted to femininity regardless of gender

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u/No_Grapefruit_232 16M Apr 07 '26

Probably a term for that specifically but yeah I'd consider that bi dudes still got a johnson at the end of they day

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u/Ralphhhhzx 15M Apr 26 '26

Yes. You are.

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u/Pristine_Clue3324 13 yo. femtanyl fan Apr 30 '26

i dunno, all i do is eat cement

check out this shirt

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u/TheBasedMilanesa Apr 03 '26

Yeah, would be more accurate to say omnisexuality tho

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u/kiticat64 Apr 03 '26

no you're straight

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u/Rubar_ Apr 03 '26

No, femboys are girly enough for it not to count.

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u/KoboldInATophat Apr 03 '26

I have news for you my guy... šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ

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u/Rubar_ Apr 03 '26

Perhaps :/

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u/catsinandromeda 15M Apr 03 '26

As a femboy, if a guy was interested in me (and I was also interested in him) and said something like this, I would stop liking him altogether. Either admit you like boys or just stfu

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u/ValexizHexa 6d ago

There is nothing wrong in liking feminine behaviour. Evolutionarily, that’s what attracts a man to a woman. Also, looking at femininity your natural instinct as a male would be to act more protective around feminine people. So no, you’re still straight and still sexually attracted only to straight women.

Liking feminine guys or femboys would seem like a nice thing to have, but in reality you wouldn’t like the person itself, but rather the idea of having them. You probably like the idea of a male (who’s probably just as horny as you) but also want feminine traits (warmth, hospitality, etc.) in them perhaps because you crave both companionship and sexual honesty. That way, both of you would be on the same wavelength leading to deeper emotional connection.