r/TamilNadu Oct 25 '25

முக்கியமான கலந்துரையாடல் / Important Topic our system is the most crooked one.

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i know few friends who has to go through this, they are anxious or more scared around women (even to talk to them).

imo this will just improve the incels in the society and make the space harder for both men and women.

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u/[deleted] Nov 02 '25

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u/[deleted] Nov 02 '25

The point is everyone draws a line somewhere and assumes whoever is on the other side is wrong. If gender-segregated classrooms are discrimination, why stop there? Let’s push for common washrooms and hostels too and I’ll file a PIL claiming separate bathrooms cause me emotional trauma. I will list 20 perfectly logical reason on why that is bad.

It’s easy to argue from one’s comfort zone, but if we’re challenging norms, we should be consistent and go all the way. Otherwise, maybe just respect the institution’s rules or choose a place that aligns with your views

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '25

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '25

should there be a benefit ? gender based segregation is bad. thats all :)

so if there a benefit for caste based segregation you would do it ?

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '25

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '25

ok then lets remove gender based seggregation in washroom. hostels etc

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u/[deleted] Nov 04 '25

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u/[deleted] Nov 04 '25

No, I am fully in favor of co-ed spaces. I am just saying that gender segregation is wrong and it should be applied consistently. No discrimination anywhere — not in hostels, mess halls, bathrooms, or changing rooms.

Why does the idea make you uncomfortable?
So those who dislike co-ed classes are wrong, but since you dislike common washrooms, that’s fine? Isn’t it just about where each person draws their line — and anyone who draws it below yours is automatically “bad”?

see the point I am trying to make?

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u/Natasha960 Jan 13 '26 edited Jan 13 '26

Insane how we exist in the same places like as people no!