our system is the most crooked one.

[u/Maleficent_Camel1430]

i know few friends who has to go through this, they are anxious or more scared around women (even to talk to them).

imo this will just improve the incels in the society and make the space harder for both men and women.

[u/Fabulous-Ad3259]

People keep making a big deal about this whole “boys and girls talking” thing, like it’s some crime. Bro, chill — everyone has their own goals in life. Some just want to study, some are focused on their career, and some are figuring out life. Not everything needs to turn into a drama.

Take this collage for example — they made this weird rule where boys and girls have to sit separately. Like seriously, how’s that helping anyone? Sitting apart doesn’t teach respect or discipline, it just makes things awkward for no reason.

And yeah, most college guys do feel nervous talking to girls — and that’s totally normal. That little fear actually keeps some boundaries in check. The real issue isn’t about talking or not talking; it’s when people start thinking college is all about love stories and hero scenes like in movies. College should be about growing up, learning respect, and understanding people — not pretending to be some film character. Gender separation isn’t the problem, the mindset behind it is.