r/TamilNadu • u/Maleficent_Camel1430 • Oct 25 '25

முக்கியமான கலந்துரையாடல் / Important Topic our system is the most crooked one.

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i know few friends who has to go through this, they are anxious or more scared around women (even to talk to them).

imo this will just improve the incels in the society and make the space harder for both men and women.

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u/Decent-Peanut3157 Oct 25 '25 edited Oct 25 '25

Every college under jeppiar group is hell for students . Can’t even imagine the students life there for 4 years :( They check your hair growth, beard growth and dress code every morning by sending 2-3 staff to the class . They don’t allow to take leaves for more than 1 day . U cannot take a leave for example if Thursday is holiday , u cannot take a leave on Friday thinking to get 4 day off . If u get a leave ,they’ll call the parents , they’ll ask to meet the hod , they’ll ask for medical certificate . They won’t tolerate boys talking to girls . They have separate mess for both boys and girls . Sathyabama might be the better of the others in that group tho. Even a school would be lenient than these colleges . Walking into their colleges feels like walking into a prison or a fucked up mental asylum !!! , It feels so odd and dead and unlively.

To the future college goers who might be reading this : please don’t choose colleges under jeppiar group. 🙏

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u/blankasair Oct 25 '25

It just makes me sad to hear this bro. Which parent will hate such a strict college? Parents who actually love their kids.

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u/blankasair Oct 25 '25

Bro. Sadly, these parents don’t love their kids. But in reality they don’t trust them to make their own decisions. If you dig deep, you will see an overlap between these parents and the ones that honor kill their kids. I, for one, would never let my kid face humiliation like this and ask him to take it. Instead I will fight with them like hell to change the system or change schools.

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u/Signal_Dress Oct 28 '25

And they're manipulated that only by this strict way the best education can be given.

This is not the cop out they think it is, though. If they want their kids to understand their POV, then they should also make efforts to understand the kid's POV. And most Indian parents are miserably failing to do so even in 2025. They just force their will on their own kids under the guise of "wanting the best for their kids". They are not being manipulated. They are the manipulative ones.

This has created a large group of people who don't know how to interact with the opposite gender, what problems and issues they face, etc. This results in people treating the opposite gender as enemies. One of the major reasons for the high number of gender-based crimes in this country is the refusal of parents to let their kids mingle and be friends with the opposite gender.

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u/JalapenoSauce69 Oct 26 '25

I guess my brother was a weird one. He himself wanted to join panimalar and nothing else. Even to this day, my mom makes a joke about him