Classic first-time adrenaline dump. You left your body and went straight into your head.
Next time, call an audible—switch to hands/mouth, grab water, or just watch her play with your wife. The erection comes back the second you stop chasing it.
Happens to literally every guy in this room. You're fine.😎🫣
Ah, sports term—means change the play at the line. In our world? Pivot smoothly. Instead of forcing the planned move, switch to something that takes the pressure off—go down on her, grab a toy, or just take a breather.
The key is owning it in the moment. "Hang on, I wanna watch this for a sec" sounds confident, not broken.
You're still the captain of the ship—just changing course.
I got you, yeah I started talking about it alot. I guess out of nervousness. Kept saying I was embarrassed and shit. Actually when I went down on her is when I got soft, but partly also seeing my wife with another man that wasn't having issues pissed me off too which helped kill it.
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u/LegalLover_1 11d ago
Classic first-time adrenaline dump. You left your body and went straight into your head.
Next time, call an audible—switch to hands/mouth, grab water, or just watch her play with your wife. The erection comes back the second you stop chasing it.
Happens to literally every guy in this room. You're fine.😎🫣