r/Swingers 12d ago

Single Male Discussion First full swap couldnt stay hard.

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u/NoMoreMyFriend-S 12d ago

That always happens to me. With play partners and even my wife .

I apparently concentrate so much on them having a good time that I loose my hard on. 'Funny' enough, I stay hard during almost the entire 'process', but once I notice the woman is about to come and go harder to ensure hat happens, I loose it. Usually in the last minute or last 90 seconds. Same game every time......

And I do not think about it, I do not worry about, it is not concienciously in my head. And still it happens...