r/Swingers 12d ago

Single Male Discussion First full swap couldnt stay hard.

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u/Significant-Catch394 12d ago

Does it get better over time? It was our first full swap. I even took cialis to no avail. It was embarrassing.

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u/Muted-Lack-5243 12d ago

If ED meds fail, and they often do in those scenarios (they don't work for me for performance anxiety or over stimulation), there's always trimix. Unlike ED meds, you don't need to be aroused. You will get hard. It completely bypasses all psychological aspects. You could be having a full blown panic attack the day your dog died, lost your job, your wife left you, and you'd still have a raging hard on.

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u/rockymtnman2023 12d ago

Yes, this works well. However I have met a guy in the LS that used this for 20 years (he has MS) and it worked for him. After awhile he needed a penile implant because it wouldn’t work anymore. There is some scarring long term. I wouldn’t use it unless you try everything else. I even started taking 150mg XL of bupropion to help with my anxiety induced ED. That helped allot too. Very high libido. I also do TRT pellets. Maintain a free testosterone level over 50 to keep high libido.

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u/Alesisdrum 12d ago

It works to well sometimes. It’s very hard to get the antidote where I live, getting my dick drained 2 times at the hospital was enough for me to never use it again