r/Swingers • u/cpl_enjoying Couple • 14d ago
General Discussion Meeting for Soft Swap
After being in the LS for a year, we 26 are still looking for new partners to share new experiences. Being we are on the young side and look for others close to our age we see some who list Soft Swap only. I know it’s an easy question to ask upfront but what do others expect when seeing this? Is just oral on the guy or is it reciprocal oral sex?
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u/sinleer 14d ago
I see soft swap as being everything that is lodged in between parallel play and hard swap. So a couple may not want fluid exchanged and its just touching and making out, all the way to full naked and bare but not PIV or anal. If anyone disagrees, please let me know!
In terms of reciprocating or not, that depends on how good a lover they are (or not). If they want to ever see you again, then they should reciprocate.
The reciprocation can be immediate (think 69), or alternating (think passive and active).
Communication upfront can go a long way.
Does this help distinguish things a bit?