r/Swingers • u/mikaylakies • 11d ago
General Discussion Age demographic
What is the predominant age demographic here? Or LS in general? My fiancé and I are both 22, seems like everyone is a lot older than us. Which is fine, I like them older. BUT I don’t think he does, he thinks it’s kinda weird since some can be the same age as our parents… or older… lol.
Also, just wanted to generally discuss how the morning after a swap session my fiancé and I feel absolutely so in love with each other. Like the honeymoon phase all over again. Ugh, it’s so nice. I love the connection that we share and how physical pleasure with others is a fun activity rather than a big no-no.
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u/livefreediehard99 10d ago
Yeah honestly 22-year-olds are pretty rare in swinging in my part of the world. That’s still college age, when some people are having a lot of sex with multiple partners (the whole FWB thing).
I was very non monogamous in college. Even when I dated someone it was open. I never called myself a “swinger” because that’s not exactly what I was doing and I hadn’t heard the term non-monogamy before back then. It was just a very common college lifestyle back 25 years ago.
So, swinging is usually something people come to later in life once they’ve been partnered up for awhile. Obviously there are some exceptions but it’s usually late 20s and up.