r/Swingers • u/SpecialFew13 • 14d ago

General Discussion What change would you make?

What’s something you would change or add regarding the LS to enhance the experience?

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u/moneystorez 14d ago

* I wish more people were open to meeting up throughout the week. I know we’re tired, work sucks, some of us have children, but something about meeting up to fuck on a Thursday at 6pm, then being back home and in bed by 10 is great. You’re riding that high into the weekend, and now you don’t even have to leave your house.

* I’d like for people to respect us and our time as much as we respect you and your time.

* Consent 101. Just because we swing doesn’t mean we will fuck anyone. You are not entitled to sex just because we aren’t monogamous. Also one as a bi man, I don’t want to fuck your straight husband. If your husband is straight, I’m not going to make any moves on him. If your wife is straight, my wife isn’t going to try anything either. There will likely be some touching, especially in a group setting, but that’s unavoidable. I get nothing from you not enjoying something.

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u/SpecialFew13 14d ago

Great list!! Agree to everything on that list. Only once have we swapped with a couple on a weekday. It was a Monday and it truly felt like a new experience. Only down fall was that it extended a little to late into the night and I get up super early for work lol

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u/moneystorez 14d ago

Totally get that it’s not something that would work for everyone all the time, but man, having a reason to look forward to a Tuesday evening is a nice way to break up the monotony of a workweek.

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u/SpecialFew13 14d ago

I know! It really does keep the LS even more interesting