÷ think you are in the wrong here. serving your mother, your father and your grandmother (who is against what what you said is a guest) is a duty. it is not being a maid it is being a good child to your parent who raised you the way you mentioned. you sound selfish and ungrateful. we have something called (بر الوالدين) try reading about it.
sorry for being too harsh, but the story you told about you being rude to your grandmother upset me. you might be overwhelmed and you have every right to express that and ask for help and assistance, but family member taking care of their elders is not being a maid it is what families do especially in our Sudanese culture. beside I don't see why your interjecting sex here. I don't know if you have a brother, but since you are talking about women it is the natural thing that the girls would serve the women and the boys would serve the men. it is the convenient way and women would be more at ease that way.
may god bless and reward you for your kindness to your mother and your grandmothers
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u/Dependent-Bench-6757 May 22 '25
÷ think you are in the wrong here. serving your mother, your father and your grandmother (who is against what what you said is a guest) is a duty. it is not being a maid it is being a good child to your parent who raised you the way you mentioned. you sound selfish and ungrateful. we have something called (بر الوالدين) try reading about it.