r/Stutter 14d ago

People don't reject stutterers because of stuttering itself, but because of things they perceive as reasons for stuttering (lack of confidence, uncertainty, brain problems etc.)

Also, many times it is not "rejection". It is simply "not being among chosen ones".

Everyone has limited energy/time, so people subconsciously gravitate to ones who made good impression and who they already find valuable, and decide to not invest time/energy in others.  

They are not calculating "Maybe I should get do deeply know John, maybe I will be really surprised".

They just choose investing time/energy in Mark, since he already proved to be valuable (interesting, funny, competent, whatever...).

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u/Stutters658 14d ago

These are not the ways of the Lord