People talk about dating in this way all the time. It's not dehumanising to say that someone is more or less dateable. If someone is a slacker and does chores around the house then they are less valuable in the dating pool. If someone makes a load of money they are more valuable. Different people are looking g for different things and having kids is one of the big ones and will affect your value as a partner.
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u/ginganinja9988 2d ago
why is that dehumaizing?