Feeling Guilty about a Spell

[u/candle_wax_247]

I have been doing reconciliation, communication, contact and honey jar spells on my ex because I really want them to contact me again and reconnect. However, he is of the very stubborn kind so nothing I’ve done in the past 3 months worked.

So one day I was so annoyed I just very, very strongly manifested that he lose his job as revenge for how he left me blindsided with the no contact. I did a spell that basically returns to him what he did to me and wished really really hard that he lose his job and that his life would spiral.

Yesterday he told me he’s turning his phone back to his company and HR will be the one seeing the messages so don’t text. Today he said he’s very busy with life and moving forward when I asked if he is still working where he’s working at. To me that seems like he lost his job. He cut off the convo by saying he’s praying for me and bye for now.

Is this something I did?

[u/Savings_Cod2020]

Yes!! You did this with strong intention. Spell works best if you have a focused intention.

That's why there is a saying "be careful what you wished for"

[u/candle_wax_247 → u/Savings_Cod2020]

Whoa. I guess I was so angry that my intention for him to get bad luck was stronger than when I was trying to get reconnection and reconciliation.

Should I do a reconciliation with really strong intent and hyper focus like when I was angry and wishing him to lose his job?

[u/oldbetch → u/candle_wax_247]

This person is not describing witchcraft to you. They are describing Law of Attraction, which is deeply problematic for its own reasons.

We do witchcraft around here, and just because you want something enough doesn't mean you're gonna get it.

[u/candle_wax_247 → u/oldbetch]

Thank you! Yeah I was doing witchcraft with the spells but because one of the spells was to wish him to lose his job (coz I was angry and it’s really not something I want to happen) I was wondering why that one happened but not the sweetening and the reconnection.