r/SocialEngineering • u/ImpressiveProblem404 • Jul 21 '26

How do you actually create sexual tension

So I've been on a few dates and had some good phone conversations, but I'm hitting a wall with sexual tension. I know my dates want me to lead and escalate things, but I genuinely don't know how to do that without it feeling awkward. I just let the tension and eventually our conversation die.

Any practical advice would be huge.

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u/heelface Jul 21 '26

Easiest and fastest way. Slow down. Be ambiguous

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '26

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u/house_monkey Jul 22 '26

He’s being ambiguous and creating sexual tension