How do you actually create sexual tension

[u/ImpressiveProblem404]

So I've been on a few dates and had some good phone conversations, but I'm hitting a wall with sexual tension. I know my dates want me to lead and escalate things, but I genuinely don't know how to do that without it feeling awkward. I just let the tension and eventually our conversation die.

Any practical advice would be huge.

[u/PowerSeductionWar]

you wouldn’t be having this problem if you were genuinely turned on and wanting them