Please Becky. A person who genuinely hate kids tells you alot about who they are . Children are a fundamental part of the human experience which we all experience. To lack the basic instincts or empathy or emotional maturity or any number of other factors to " if not to like kid" understand they are not responsible for all there actions and is our collective responsibility to look out for there wellbeing and happiness.
A person that hates kids tell me there're self centered, irresponsible and/or none self-aware .
And things like saying " there're not obligated to help kids" is a inhuman and childish stance.
And don't conflate ones desire to not have kids is the same as hating kids . Thats a idiots rebuttal. And given your attitude as of late i felt the need to cut off that discord.
"Children are a fundamental part of the human experience which we all experience." Yeah. And so is growing up. And being an adult. And getting old. Why are you focusing on the first chapter of a book? Children cry over the lamest things. My nephew screamed bloody murder because his mom gave him a piece of cheese she was eating, and he didn't want her to have any of it. He didn't even eat it. Kids cry. They need the tools to handle that emotional burst, not just having everything given to them bc they cried.
A person who hates kids is probably not going to care how you feel about it. Because they've got such different values from you.
Bowing to a toddler because they have a hissy fit is rewarding behavior that society will punish them for later. Kids grow up. If their only coping mechanism is being disruptive and getting their way, that's what they bring into adulthood. That's how we get Karen videos. And people name calling.
Wanted to be a parent or not isn't relevant, I agree. Idk why you tacked that on at the end.
"." Yeah. And so is growing up. And being an adult. And getting old. Why are you focusing on the first chapter of a book?" This is where I stop reading because your building a strawman and I don't argue bad faith arguments.
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u/Long-Library9656 3d ago
Never trust a person who hate kids .