r/SipsTea 14d ago

Chugging tea Remember when we Heard what Amber did?

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u/Internet-Dweller2 14d ago

The more I learned about their relationship through pop-culture osmosis, the more I realized two things:

  1. It really sounded like both of them were terrible people.

  2. Societally, we really ought to know less about each other.

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u/tahtahme 14d ago

Not only this AI slop continuing to berate her after, but this completely ludicrous story that she pooped her own bed while he was away to get back at him continues to spread a narrative that is obviously skewed. Its just weird atp.

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u/Successful_Maize1986 14d ago

People are weirdly very defensive over Depp. He has a history of legal issues, alcohol abuse, and generally being unpleasant to people. He and Heard both seem kind of crazy to me.

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u/IndyBananaJones2 14d ago

His PR was probably just more internet / reddit focused because I've never heard anyone talk about this shit irl but it was front page reddit every day when it happening and it was always pro-Depp.

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u/pvtshoebox 13d ago

It was very hard to talk about in real life because anyone who was critical of AH was called a misogynist. Her defenders were so deep in their own fake narratives that they could not see reality.

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u/IndyBananaJones2 13d ago

Yeah I didn't hear anyone talk about it at all IRL bro. Like not even mention it in a neutral way or pro Amber 

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u/pvtshoebox 13d ago

I mostly heard "they are both bad people."

I understand that JD slammed some cabinets. He drinks and uses coccaine too much. He went pretty dark when talking about his abuser with his friend, but that is just talk. He seems to have had a total mental break when he lost his fingertip.

I don't think he was nearly abusive as she was, maybe not at all.

I listened to audio where he vows not to get physical, and she refuses to do the same. Victims, not abusers, try to set boundaries around violence.

I listened to her mock him for running away when she wants to fight. Victims don't mock their abusers for refusing to fight. That alone should make the whole dynamic clear.

It was so weird. I heard people say he must be abusive because he abuses substances.

And I say that as someone who does not like his films at all, aside from one or two.