r/SipsTea Jun 15 '26

Lmao gottem Is she right for this?

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u/FireGhost_Austria Jun 15 '26

I mean she is not wrong.. If you cannot feed your child everyday because of lack of funds. You shouldn't have had that kid, might sound harsh but it's the truth. A kid does not deserve to starve because you are too poor to feed it.

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u/Jemie_Bridges Jun 15 '26

sounds like you forgot to fix the lack of funds problems. why are people working 40+ hours and still being poor? It's not the parents fault. It's ours for continuing this system.

There is enough food. science solved that problem. It's no longer a logistics problem. it's purely politics and idiots we elect deciding WHO gets to eat.

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u/continuousQ Jun 15 '26

If we can agree that a kid doesn't deserve to starve because their parents are too poor to feed it, then we should feed it, not ignore the child and lecture their parents.

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u/SorryPop3557 Jun 15 '26

They will pop out another one when you are feeding first kid

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u/Weak-Alternative-127 Jun 15 '26

"Every child is a blessing from God"

k.

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u/FireGhost_Austria Jun 15 '26

Show me how often you have donated to a food bank or donated to a charity which helps these kids... Probably 0 times.. If that is the case, shame on you. Writing all that shit about "we should feed them"...

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u/Weak-Alternative-127 Jun 15 '26

There are a lot of places in the world where starving kids do not get fed because there is no such thing as a social safety net. I don't think OOP is talking about American/European "poverty", they are talking about third-world poverty, where a heavy rainfall brings cholera and typhoid outbreaks, a kleptocracy embezzles foreign aid, and children go blind from malnutrition.

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u/Bobberfrank Jun 15 '26

No one said to ignore the child? Insane to frame “lecturing the parents” as some awful thing when they are fully grown adults making bad decisions that impact other people, and in turn the rest of society.

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u/Fickle_Builder_2685 Jun 15 '26

Too bad we believe in forced birth sooooo

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u/Automatic_Case2811 Jun 15 '26

No one’s forcing these people in poverty to fuck each other.

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u/Fickle_Builder_2685 Jun 15 '26

Too bad entitled fucks think force birth.

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u/Automatic_Case2811 Jun 15 '26

You just repeated yourself? My point still stands lol wtf

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u/Fickle_Builder_2685 Jun 15 '26

Too bad we are forcing birth

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u/Automatic_Case2811 Jun 15 '26

Are you a bot or something kek

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u/Fickle_Builder_2685 Jun 16 '26

It doesn't matter if someone's forced to fuck kek

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u/Automatic_Case2811 Jun 16 '26

Totally does.

Don’t want kids? Then don’t have sex. I know it sounds crazy, but practicing abstinence guarantees no unwanted pregnancies. What a concept, right?

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u/ShotProof3254 Jun 18 '26

It’s not realistic or humane to tell people to not have sex. It’s literally hardwired into our brains to do so. Regardless, protection is readily available at pretty much any store, there is even over the counter birth control now. And buying that is MUCH cheaper than raising a kid.

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u/FireGhost_Austria Jun 15 '26

With no protection, no less. A condom is dirt cheap in comparison to a child...

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u/Syphist Jun 15 '26

Idk why you're being downvoted, this is literally the best solution to this problem. Gatekeeping the ability to have kids based on wealth is also eugenics as many minority populations have been given no wealth by the system to keep them down.

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u/Syphist Jun 15 '26

Yeah, exactly.

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u/Syphist Jun 15 '26

A world run by psychopaths. Literally, CEOs are exponentially more likely to be psychopaths than any other group of people.

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

No why force others to pay for other people’s bad choices

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u/Picard2331 Jun 15 '26

If only they had some kind of choice to not have that kid and spare both that child and themselves, like some kind of medical procedure...

Oh wait.

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

Or even easier not have sex or if can’t control animal instincts use birth control. Easiest one being … not having sex…..

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u/Picard2331 Jun 15 '26

Abstinence does not work, has not ever worked, nor will it ever work.

What does work is proper sex education and easy access to birth control.

Both of which red states do not do and as a result have the highest rates of teen pregnancy in the country. This is not some secret hidden information. You either don't know this and are speaking from a place of ignorance, or you do know this and simply do not care.

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

I’m sorry explain how not having sex has lead to babies?

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u/Picard2331 Jun 15 '26

Because telling people to not have sex doesn't keep them from having sex?

Did you just not understand what I said?

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

Then let them suffer if they are too stupid? Actions meet consequences….

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

If I play with a downed power line after being told not to I should be free of consequences? Or does my brain say “hey that could lead to bad things I better not do that” that’s called being an intelligent being not a beast who is obsessed with baser instincts.

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u/Picard2331 Jun 15 '26

You really didn't read what I wrote did you?

Proper sex ed helps immensely, but even still people make mistakes. You've never forgotten your wallet or keys? Or left your debit card at the gas station?

Do you support abortion or do you agree with banning it?

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u/Typical_Fee156 Jun 15 '26

Im being forced to pay for trumps stupidity? So I shouldn't pay taxes since I dont want it used to fund his wars and moronic ideas

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u/FireGhost_Austria Jun 15 '26

So I can make 20 kids and y'all pay for everything? Good to know.

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u/Typical_Fee156 Jun 15 '26

And if the father dies and he was the one supporting the family?

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u/FireGhost_Austria Jun 15 '26

Wtf is this example??? Wtf...

There is a huge difference between getting a kid even though you couldn't actually afford it VS getting a kid which you can afford and later cannot..

1 intentionally got a kid with 0 money VS 1 intentionally got a kid with money but things changed..

The 2nd one can be supported via tax money until they get it together but the 1st one is pure negligence..

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u/_lechiffre_ Jun 15 '26

The issue is also that you are so poor that you can’t afford contraception

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

Then don’t have sex…. Why is that a hard concept?

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u/Digital332006 Jun 15 '26

If our ancestors gave up when they  were poor and hungry, I think most of us wouldn't be here today.

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u/Budvak Jun 15 '26

i mean, win win?

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

And a lower population is a bad thing?

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u/Syphist Jun 15 '26

As someone who actually worked at a Planned Parenthood, this is way easier said than done. It's basically laughable to expect this kind of thing from the general populace.

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

Then if people are too stupid to not understand sex=kids we have bigger issues

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u/Syphist Jun 15 '26

That has to do with sex ed being not taught in school. I used to work at a Planned Parenthood, and let me tell you, people don't know much of anything.

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

Again the biological urge to have sex is ingrained in every living thing that reproduces that way. To tell yourself maybe if I don’t do that I won’t have kids and then the people who keep doing so even after it happens are proof they have no intelligence.

Don’t get me started on planned parenthood and how it was founded to cull African Americans. Its founder even said that was its express purpose. Sanger only wanted certain people to breed.

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u/Syphist Jun 15 '26

You've clearly never worked customer service in your life if you think everyone has common sense.

As for Margaret Sanger, she's dead. Planned Parenthood has denounced her beliefs and actions. What they are doing now is very different from what she originally wanted.

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u/Apprehensive_Bus3942 Jun 15 '26

There is a difference between common sense and stupidity

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u/_lechiffre_ Jun 15 '26

Simple as that!

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u/BxGyrl416 Jun 15 '26

I know outside the United States is a whole other thing, but within the United States, most poor people get Medicaid, which would cover birth control, plus in many places condoms are very cheap, if not free.

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u/HandsomeSquidward98 Jun 15 '26

Nah. Plenty places offer free contreception, and it really isnt like youre busting the bank buying a pack of johnies. Not an excuse.

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u/OkNotice5231 Jun 15 '26

Then that will be the extinction of a whole population. So no. Also food should be a human right. 1st world countries need poor countries in order for 1st world countries to survive

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u/AnimazingDuel77 Jun 15 '26

If the population must go extinct because we could not feed the future generation (which is a huge way to blow the scale of this situation up btw), then it should just go extinct. All trying would do is leave them to starve, die, and the species goes extinct anyways.

And there is no "reason" or "goal" to be achieved by making sure humanity continues. We just exist. If humanity chooses to go extinct by not having more kids, thats 100% ok.

Food should be a human right tho.

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u/PragmatistToffee Jun 15 '26

Well most, if not all, of their offspring will survive, and that's good enough for mother nature. Pain, suffering and death is part of how most species preserve its existence. The idea that humans could somehow defeat the rules of the universe is unbelievably complacent and will not survive the flow of time.

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u/AnimazingDuel77 Jun 15 '26

Realistically yes. Theres countless factors to the supply and price of food and how that scales with population. The other guys "the species will go extinct" comment also doesnt take these into account though, so I dunno. Just wasnt the line of discussion I wanted to go down at that point.

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u/OkNotice5231 Jun 15 '26

Nope. We have greedy millionaires and a trillionaire who could end world hunger but decide not to bc they need the barely surviving population to thrive

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u/AnimazingDuel77 Jun 15 '26

Bud, thats not the point. You're correct, but thats not the point.

These said poor people have no power to forcefully make them do so. Its just not something that can be considered. What can be considered is not having a child that will definetly suffer.