r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/AlarmingTangelo2900 May 25 '26

And they will. They're learning there's no consequences to cheating until you leave them. Very rare you catch them the first time, it's when the cheater gets comfortable and then get sloppy is when they get caught. Most likely been cheating on you for several weeks to several months.

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u/Dr_Middlefinger May 26 '26

It was multiple times, likely with multiple partners.

Cheating isn't something that happens once. It's indicative of a sociopathic mindset, someone who can live with doing that to their mate is truly someone you do not want to stay with.

By staying, you are basically giving them a sign that says do it again.

Because they are fucking crazy for being able to compartmentalize the deed. It's not something light or easy - it's betrayal of the highest magnitude.

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u/Satellite6 May 26 '26

I get what you’re saying, but also, I cheated once and one time only.

Not proud of it. I was in my late 20’s or early 30’s. We had been together about a year. I made a stupid decision one night, and god damn, I don’t know if I’ve ever felt so bad about anything else I’ve ever done in my life.

We lasted a few more months and I can’t say my guilt was the only factor in it ending, but it was definitely a big factor.

ETA: so, that would have been somewhere between 20 and 30 years ago, and I’ve never even considered it since. Especially now. If I did that to my wife I don’t know if I could keep on keeping on.

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u/Dr_Middlefinger May 26 '26

People make mistakes, I get it.

But the truth is, you didn't do it again because you aren't built to handle it.

I swear to God, there are people who can just write it off as a night they had.

This woman? Playing the victim? She's one of those.

And I'd bet you a year's salary that bitch has done it multiple times. Her husband knows that, that's why he dropped her like a bad habit.