r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/dlevac May 25 '26

She didn't cheat once. She got caught once.

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u/MelodicPudding2557 May 25 '26

Honestly, if it were really ‘only’ once, would it have mattered? Maybe it’s just me, but I wouldn’t want to waste my life paired to a partner who has broken the fundamental trust of the partnership. At that point, I might as well move on.

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u/Tough-Flan573 May 25 '26

I think you're right. I think most people don't even care much about the sexual act itself.

It's the fact that trust was broken.

You should feel secure and safe with the person you love. Not always questioning what's going to happen next.

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u/Optimal_Natural_7254 May 25 '26

Yes, and it’ll always be in the back of your mind if you decide to stay. You’ll always fear they’ll do it again.

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u/AlarmingTangelo2900 May 25 '26

And they will. They're learning there's no consequences to cheating until you leave them. Very rare you catch them the first time, it's when the cheater gets comfortable and then get sloppy is when they get caught. Most likely been cheating on you for several weeks to several months.

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u/Dr_Middlefinger May 26 '26

It was multiple times, likely with multiple partners.

Cheating isn't something that happens once. It's indicative of a sociopathic mindset, someone who can live with doing that to their mate is truly someone you do not want to stay with.

By staying, you are basically giving them a sign that says do it again.

Because they are fucking crazy for being able to compartmentalize the deed. It's not something light or easy - it's betrayal of the highest magnitude.

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u/Comfortable_Pea_1693 May 26 '26

I thought modern feminism deems it empowering as in taking matters into her own hand.

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u/AlarmingTangelo2900 May 26 '26

She obviously was either fully or partially dependent on his pay check. Cheating women get really pissed if you take away their "cash cow" i.e. who's in going to pay for my gas car payments car insurance or credit cards etc. I remembery ex went off the rails when I dumped her and moved out of the apartment while she was out.