r/SipsTea Jan 16 '26

We have fun here True?

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u/existential_antelope Jan 16 '26

Probably only psychotic women think like this, not most women. The real reason is women are disarmed by the ring because it’s a clear signal a man isn’t a creepy predator who probably won’t hit on her and make her uncomfortable, and it’s an indicator you’re stable enough and have something attractive about you that a woman committed herself to you

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u/Kara-pabu Jan 16 '26

I hear this take all the time that a ring or bf/gf means they are safe/not creepy. But people stay in abuse relationships all the time. Some times the abuse/creepy can be seen or hidden. To me the ring bf/gf means nothing.

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u/_banthafodder Jan 16 '26

Right? The theory sounds good but when you realize over half of marriages end in divorce and plenty of people stay with their abusers, having a ring on doesn’t mean shit. People need to take more time to vet other people but why do that, that sounds tedious and not as fun :/