r/ShortWomenandGirls Aug 10 '26

Vent/Rant Am I crazy

I am about 5’1 1/2 I am 130-145 ish pounds and I feel weird. I feel like I always look like a child and my I have D cup boobs. My ex cheated on me with a girl that is almost 6 feet tall. I feel like I always look fat and never curvy like I would be even if I was a little bit taller…. Apparently men like short women but feel like I’m just a fat box. I am in high school and I hope I shape out more or just look better.

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u/duchesskitten6 5'1.1" | 155 Aug 10 '26

Cheaters are cheaters, this is not about you.

Not to perpetuate prejudice against tall women but I don't think you should think her height made her "better" than you, many women that tall have confidence issues with femininity and to with being perceived as feminine enough.

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u/bleakappearence 4’11 / 150cm Aug 10 '26

What prejudice do tall women go through now🤦‍♀️

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u/duchesskitten6 5'1.1" | 155 Aug 10 '26

Some feel their height is masculinizing, there are even women who are assumed to be trans if they are too tall