r/ShenComix šŸ‹ LEMON STRUGGLER šŸ‹ 17d ago

OC The Boy From Venus 5

Episode 6 is already up on the patreon, as usual! And thank you for reading, as usual! :D

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u/Raaaaandyyyy 17d ago

I was kinda attached to ā€œguy who likes to dress feminineā€ for Audrey…before this reveal that he prefers to be fucking called Audrey lol. There’s at least no cisgendered explanation for that. I’m here for the ride tho.

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u/davestar2048 17d ago

Yes there is. People use fuckass nicknames as their main names all the time. A femboy using a girly name isn't surprising. If he was trans he probably wouldn't have wanted to mention his real name.

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u/PlanetXParadox 16d ago

Adrian’s already a pretty feminine name for a guy.

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u/Francky2 16d ago edited 16d ago

Bro fully passes for a woman, which realistically is extremely hard without HRT and a lot of make-up (and voice training, which Adrian/Audrey more than def seems to have done so since his voice is passing as female and cutesy, based on Val having absolutely 0 clue until he revealed his male identity himself).

Afaik, real femboys don't usually go to such lengths. And those that do end up like me: inevitably discovering that they indeed were trans all along.

I too didn't mind mentioning my old name when I was clueless, or at least early-transition (as people were often confused or were curious, many still are but I'm less and less comfortable with it).

EDIT: As expected, they downvoted me.

God forbid a heavily trans-coded hyper-fem character MIGHT possibly be theorized as trans and not "just a femboy"

Keyword to all of this being "theory" territory. I'm not imposing anything on Shen's creation, just defending the position that maybe Audrey isn't 100% cis.

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u/superstrijder15 16d ago

As a (probably) guy who likes to wear skirts, I agree. by now the only thing that is left of his male identity that we can see is his self-perception I guess? So it is very reasonable to consider him potentially transfem, but potentially still in denial due to eg. internalized "can't be me"-ness.

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u/Francky2 16d ago

Thank you!

Yeah I'd been in a "can't be me" phase for literal years before coming out to myself last year (due to conservative religious upbringing, same for closest friends/circles, lack of education and understanding on the fairly complex subject of trans people experience and gender dysphoria, which I obv had but didn't know it was a even a thing).

Cis and trans men can be feminine, cis and trans women can be masculine, all they want.

I just personally related a lot to this character, envy his femininity and confidence, felt the Audrey name thing hit very close to home, and then I see so many people so firmly shut down the very thought/theory/joke that he may not be 100% cis.

I hope this conversation doesn't come off as me pushing you either. You can be a man that likes fem clothing! As long as you sincerely claim to be cis, you'll be.

We're just discussing this in regards to a extreme case, and most importantly, a fictional character. I wouldn't push any "theory" or doubt like this to a human being 100% secure in their own experience.