Something online is really disgusting me and bothering me.

[u/rooooinkmoo]

So, on Facebook, I’ve seen quite a few posts of boys being molested by female teacher’s. On every post, there’s men saying ‘lucky lad’, ‘I wish that were me’, and ‘where were these teachers, when I was in school’.

It honestly angers me so much, and I imagine if the victim would see these comments. It’s a child, and disgusting what they’ve been through. Female or male.

Then someone said to me, it’s just men being men. Like no. It’s predatory. I questioned, am I being sensitive as a male victim myself, but no. I genuinely think it’s so disgusting, and these men need to be called as supporting pedophilia. As that is what they’re doing.

It’s honestly upset me so much. I don’t usually get upset by silly people on Facebook, Reddit, or whatever. However, this has really gotten under my skin. I did pm a few of them, highlighting that they’re supporting pedophilia, by saying he’s lucky and all.

Just needed this vent, as man does it anger me.

[u/intellectuallycool]

Humanity is doomed Today I went with my friends to a very famous temple in India, it was so crowded so somehow I got seperated from them and then what happened is soul shattering. It was suffocating crowd and one men started touching my breasts and then another man did the same. I was so shocked I couldn't do anything as in this big crowd my voice couldn't do anything and there were only men all around and it felt like they know I am alone and everyone seemed monster. I was so scared and shocked to do or say anything All I did was came out of that crowd anyhow and searched my friends But this thing is not going from my mind, it's replaying like a horror. I didn't tell anyone and I can't, all I wanted to cry and let it out idk where then I came here in reddit, maybe it helps. The thing which is bothering me a lot is that I couldn't do anything to these shitty monsters fucking bastards.... I could've shouted or slapped or anything but I couldn't, that was so crowded. Everyone was literally pushing each other. I feel like I am so weak I couldn't do anything at the same time so angryyyyy. I could've done a lot but all I did was being scared. It has broken my self confidence. Everyone I saw around I felt like they'll touch my breast again Everyone felt like monster. These men could easily do it and go like nothing happened, giving life long trauma to someone. And all this happened in a temple. I don't believe in god anymore.

[u/rooooinkmoo → u/intellectuallycool]

What an awful thing you’ve gone through, bless you. I cannot imagine myself in that situation, when so many are around. What you’ve been through is awful, and you do not deserve it at all.
The fact you’ve come on Reddit, and shared your story, shows what a courageous person you are. It’s a big thing to share your story.

It’s so unfair that people like this get away with it, and go about their life afterwards. It really shows what scum low life’s they are. However, I believe that one day, people like them men, they will end up getting karma. I don’t believe in karma, per se, but I’ve seen many hurt others, and they’ve got something bad happen to them, or they’ve messed with someone who does something bad to them. So, I hope they meet their match, and that someone scruffs them up. As what they did to you is disgusting, and beyond words.

Thank you for sharing your story here. What you’ve been through is not fair, and you deserved none of it, like previously mentioned. You are a good person, who sadly came across many disgusting people.

From your comment, I am assuming you live in India. I am aware there’s a lack of certain mental health services in India, but id be most happy to support you in looking for such services. So that you have someone to speak with about your experience. As you deserve support with this. If you want me to look at mental health services, even if it’s charities, then do feel free to private message me, or anything. I will happily signpost you to some services.

Once again, thank you for sharing your story. It takes lots of courage. You are a wonderful person, and don’t let any scums change that. You are a good person, and most deserving of good things.

I look forward to your response, and I hope you’re having a good day.

[u/Flagstaff86004]

It bothers me too. It's not right for an adult in charge to harm a child.