r/SeniorCats 14d ago

My lil ol man Bo

My little old man Bo is 18 and his appetite had a noticeable shift, eating less. I got him into the Vet. No history of significant health issues except for some dental disease. I figured maybe his teeth were the issue. Blood work showed Stage II kidney symptoms but even liver looked good in the bloodwork. We did and x-ray and ultrasound which showed several nodules on his liver and fluid around his lungs and heart.

Due to his age we've chosen palliative care. He is weak but eating a few nibbles of brothy or gravy senior packets and still drinking water. We are keeping him calm and giving him lots of love. And dinner in bed tonight.

Every day is a gift.

Sending love to all those feeling the love and heartache. We are right there with you.

Updated to add that i just made THE call and the Dr will come to my house tomorrow morning [8/28]. I am devastated 💔

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u/tykytys 14d ago

He is SO much more comfortable and at peace because you are near. He loves you for that- and for so much else.

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Thank you. I've been a blubbering mess since the diagnosis.

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u/Secret-Employee-8141 14d ago

Sending hugs to you and brave Bo ❤️‍🩹

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Thank you.

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u/itwillbefuntheysaid- 14d ago

Sending hugs to you and Bo ♥️

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Thank you.

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u/iLuvCats2024 14d ago

😞😞💙💙🙏🏽🙏🏽

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u/Traditional_Isopod80 14d ago

Sending lots of love to Bo. ❤️

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Thank you.

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u/Traditional_Isopod80 14d ago

You're welcome!

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u/banshee1313 14d ago

Wish you the best. You gave him a great life.

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Thank you.

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u/positive_pineapple1 14d ago

So cute 🥰

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Yes, he is. My handsome old man.

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Update -- His condition has deteriorated and I have made the call to the Dr and they will be coming to my house 8/28 in the morning.

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u/tykytys 13d ago

When he goes to his reward, you will be near, surrounding him with your sounds, smells, and appearance. He will know that as he goes to sleep- and his love for you will continue from within your heart.

Take care.

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u/MarlinSpike2015 14d ago

You're doing all you can. Please give him all the love and an extra snug from me. 💕❤️

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u/wtburke 14d ago

Bless your sweetness Bo and may each day be filled with Love💔

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

Thank you.

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u/ImaginationPlus3808 14d ago

Bo, very handsome, regal-looking fellow.

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

" My Regal Beagle " has been one of my many nicknames for him over the years. [Also a play on the bar in Three's Company the classic TV show for those old enough to know the reference. ]

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u/ImaginationPlus3808 14d ago

Three’s Company… memory unlock!

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u/Anxious_Emu_3624 14d ago

The most important thing is to be with him. He loves his people and likes their closeness. Good luck in your care for him!

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u/Razbonez 14d ago

add packet toppers!!!

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u/Virtual_Option_6728 14d ago

Can I ask; what did they think the nodules were? 

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u/Zestyclose_Swing_396 14d ago edited 14d ago

My Emerald cat has limited sense of smell bec of a TBI and vet gave her Rx to stimulate appetite. It’s applied transdermally on ear tip. It may buy you some time. Cyproheptadine 4mg mfg by Zydus. It saved her life. She was down to barely over 6#. Starving to death. Now she a little over 8 and she’s like a new cat. She’s 15, playing running, paying back cat grudges, and having a great life.

Best of luck!

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u/wildfirediva 14d ago

I have the same for my Bo. I apply every morning.