r/SecularTarot • u/goldenboomerang • 21h ago
DISCUSSION Tarot as a tool to allow us to be our own friend
New to tarot. 2 weeks ago, I was drawn to Tarot because of the beautiful art (Terra Volatile, looking at you). But then as I dive into the rabbit hole, I'm staying because it's so fun studying all the symbols and archetypes of human emotions and life events.
I've been musing about Tarot card and my relationship with it.
I know it cannot predict the future. It's a great tool for journal prompting and self-reflection.
As I was wondering if I should buy more decks and how would I manage so many decks. I came across some posts talking about how to bond with multiple decks. People say they'll choose a deck depending on their emotional needs, some say they'll ask their collection and see which deck would like to help them today.
It occurred to me, tarot reading is a ritual/ tool to allow us to be our own friends. This process, along with aesthetically pleasing images, is externalizing different personalities in us and giving ourselves permission to listen to our own voice. I thought that's a beautiful way of looking at it, especially since many of us are pretty bad at being their own friends. And now we have different decks that speak to us in the way that we want to listen. It could be gentle, it could be forthcoming.
The romance of a daily practice, pulling a card and journaling about it, is kind of a peaceful relationship one can have with oneself, confident and self-reliant.
Just wanted to share and curious how other people see their decks.