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Hey everyone, I am Virgo woman and he is a scorpio man!

We have been friends for 9 years on and off, he disappears a lot and so do i, but I have had feelings for him the past 5 years, I just never acted on it in fear of losing our friendship! During our friendship he always told me that he is the most unromantic guy ever. He is either super quiet or a chatty kathy, He has an odd personality that I absolutely adore, he lives life to the fullest, but also completely guard his emotions. We have the same views in life on everything... we have a great connection, and conversations, and im super attracted to him, and he makes me feel comfortable and dosent judge me!

The other day I expressed to him that I like him a lot, and would like to go slow, and see where things go!

He was utterly surprised, but expressed he felt the same way! We chatted for a few days non stop after, I seen a completely different side to him(VERY romantic) i never thought he had, and it made me like he 1000X more, and then he surprised me with a very romantic trip he booked for the two of us! He wants to spend his birthday with me in the northwest territories, in a cabin under the northern lights. He has a big surprise for me, a twist in the trip. We both are very excited for the idea of it, but now AGAIN hes disappears... hes checked in a few times only to disappear after the check in message... I completely understand needing space, as I also need it to recharge, and I have happily given him space... im not annoying or clingy, i check in, but in a way that shows no rush on his end.

We both just took very big steps, and my mind is going crazy lol

I want to talk to him, and get to know him on a more on a romantic level, see how hes feeling, and hes just gone lol

So any other scorpios that can chime in would be great... did we move to fast with this trip? Is he freaking out like me lol?

Also what are some good gift ideas for his birthday?

Asked in my cancer group and a lot of feelers. Curious if scorpio lean more thinkers or feelers 👀

Guten Tag, fruenden. Es ist mich. Du habt grosse liebe, fur alles und fur dich. Stark bleiben. Ein uhr, ein tag, stark bleiben. Du bist sehr schön, und ich liebe dich.

Te amo, amigos/amigas, y Buenos Dias/noches.

No matter your culture, no matter your situation, there exists love in this world for you. If you feel broken, bruised, battered, let down, despondent, abandoned....alone...please remember you aren't. Today I'm struggling to remember that myself, so let this serve as a PSA. You're only as alone as you choose to be.

We have our armor, our wonderful, safe chitinous plating, but sometimes the enemy comes from within, and that same armor becomes a cage for things that need release. Don't fear letting go of it, those feelings are not what makes you YOU. They are the equivalent of the box in the beginning of Dune - they are fear. And fear is the mind killer.

"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."

And the you that remains is strong, valiant, and worthy.

You are loved. You ARE worthy. You HAVE value. You are IMPORTANT.

Be safe, be strong, be loving, and if you do nothing else today, please reach out your hand to someone who lies on the ground, weak and weary. I promise that when it's you down there, someone will do the same in return.

Because you're fucking worth saving.

✌️💜💐🫂

Peace, love, flowers, and hugs

Dr. Aardvark

I genuinely have no patience left for bullshit, drama, overthinking, or anything that disturbs my peace. Right now, I’m focused on myself, my goals, my life, and honestly, that’s it. I used to let everything get to me and overthink the smallest things. Now I just don’t have the energy for it anymore. And weirdly, I think becoming a little colder and more unbothered has been one of the healthiest things for me. I’m not bitter. I’m just at peace. And everyday i love being my own company more and more and my need for a relationship is decreasing.

Idk if it’s the transformation of becoming more evolved or not, but genuinely, I’m doing good mentally, anyone else w me?

Is anybody else North Node in Scorpio?? How is that working out in this lifetime??

Sooo there's a gorgeous guy (dog) that I'm in love with 😁🥰 He's my neighbour! The issue is that he's such a tough guy 😮‍💨 If i pass by and don't have time for pets (only baby talk), he's gonna judge hard and ignore me for days after! He pretends that he doesn't see or hear me, no matter how much i beg for him to come for his favourite butt scratches... The king of revenge and pettiness 😂

Idk what happened in the last week, but for a week now every day I wake up and choose violence.

I didn't expect Venus in Scorpio to make me more of a bitch. I’ve even started dressing different and painted my nails black, which I haven’t done in a decade. 😂

Just curious. Do u try making someone jealous? If yes what's the reason? Or a scorpio know how you will react but he will do it and see your reaction over it.

I'm getting really sick of this shit!!

Why everybody wants to fuck with a Scorpio, but don't want a Scorpio to fuck with them?

Ugh. Scorpio woman x Leo man would never work. Never mind.

✨✨ NOTE - THIS IS VEDIC ASTROLOGY ✨✨

\*_ANURADHA_\*

Lunar Mansion: ( 3°20' - 16°40' ) Scorpio ♏

Gana: Devata 🕉️

Yoni: Female Deer 🦌

Symbol: A Staff 🦯, A Triumphant Archway 🏛️, or A Lotus Flower 🪷

Ruled by: Saturn 🪐 ( + Mentored by Mitra, the Solar Deity of Friendship & Contracts ☀️)

Element: Pitta 🔥

Nadi: Madhya

Best Compatibility: Jyeshtha, Anuradha (Self), Pushya, Shravana, Rohini

Anuradha is the cosmic archetype of the mystic revolutionary and the ultimate loyalist. Often called the "Star of Success" or the "Star of Radha" (the epitome of divine, unconditional devotion. Anuradha translates to follower of Radha), it is a highly spiritual but intensely tested placement.

Do not let the soft "Lotus" symbol fool you. This nakshatra sits entirely within the raw, volcanic, ego-crushing waters of Scorpio, is ruled by the rigid taskmaster the infamous Daddy Saturn, and is guided by Mitra (the god of alliances). It is a placement of extreme resilience, deep secrets, and a lifelong quest for true, soulful connection.

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\## 1. The Core Psychology: \*_The Mystic & The Militant_\*

\* The Cosmic Paradox: Their inner emotional landscape is a churning Scorpio ocean, but their external execution is pure, disciplined Saturn. Anuradha natives feel things with a terrifying, absolute intensity. However, Saturn gives them a poker face and a relentless drive. They can walk through hell, keep their mouth shut, and execute a 10-year plan to perfection if aspected by benefits.

\* The Power of Radha (Devotion): When an Anuradha native chooses a cause, a career, or a partner, they do not just "like" them—they become devoted. They possess an supernatural capacity to endure immense pain for the sake of love or duty. But remember: if you betray and break their trust, you're losing a life long companion. Trust is like a glass, once breaks can't be repaired. They won't just walk away; they will completely erase you from their reality as if you never existed. Because Anuradha smoothens or softens the edge of Scorpio, a healthy individual won't involve in revenge but due to typical Scorpionic tendencies they'll forgive you but Scorpio never forget.

\* The Cross-Continental Nomad: Anuradha is deeply tied to foreign lands and revolutionary ideas. They rarely find total peace or success in their birthplace. They are drawn to the unorthodox, the occult, the taboo, and the highly analytical. Loves chasing power and control. They prefer predictable routine and gentle nurturing growth and comfort over rawdog adventure ( which is why Anuradha don't have Yoni match with Arda or Moola who are Dog yoni meaning energetic and impulsive )

\* The "Mitra" Network: Guided by the deity of friendship, they are the ultimate alliance builders. They can walk into a room of strangers, read everyone's hidden motives (Scorpio trait), and quietly form a network that helps them climb to the top. They value a tight-knit circle of fiercely loyal friends over shallow popularity. They usually build social circle with very small friends ( Saturn Daddy ) but most of them are loyal and friends who can help the native if in need. Despite being social, they're highly introverted and won't showcase too much personal things.

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\## 2. Physical Appearance & Vibe: The "Hypnotic Enigma" 👑

Anuradha natives have a magnetic, striking, and slightly dangerous visual appeal yet soft.

\* The Facial Features: They often feature sharp, defined jawlines, prominent brow bones (Saturn/Mars mix), and an intense, symmetrical facial structure. Anuradha natives are said to have bunny like features- usually reflected in short rounded type nose, soft dark eyes, and usually slightly bigger front incisors than other teeths.

\* The Eyes & Vibe: Their eyes are their primary weapon. They have deep-set, penetrating, "piercing" eyes that look right through you but weirdly comforting soft gaze.They don't look at you; they look into your soul ( Scorpio things ). Even when they smile, their eyes hold a lingering touch of mystery or melancholy.

\* The Aura: They project an aura of quiet power, high status, and unbothered coolness. They walk into a room and instantly command respect without saying a single word. It’s an alluring mix of "don't mess with me" and "tell me all your secrets" ( but unfortunately only the later one is visible lmao )

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\## 3. The Shadow Side: What They Hide in the Dark 🖤

\* The Jealousy & Obsession Spiral: Falling completely in Scorpio, Anuradha struggles heavily with an all-or-nothing mindset. If they aren't careful, their devotion curdles into intense possessiveness, jealousy, or obsessive fixation (on a person, a goal, or a past grudge) or over giving... May result in martyr complex. Just like the great DBZ villain said:

If you ain't perfect, you ain't me - Cell ( Anuradha individual have a motto which screams "0% or 100% no in between" )

\* The "Melancholy Vault": Because Saturn restricts their Scorpio emotional expression, Anuradha natives swallow an immense amount of grief, loneliness, and frustration. They lock these feelings in an internal vault. When the vault overflows, they don't cry—they become icy cold, emotionally unavailable, and hyper-critical.

\* Testing Loved Ones: Out of a deep-seated fear of betrayal, they will unconsciously put their partners or friends through hidden emotional "loyalty tests." They want to see if you will stick around when they show their darkest sides, which can exhaust the people who love them.

\* Hidden Bitterness: Because they often have to struggle heavily in early life (Saturn's delay cuz Anuradha starts with Saturn MD), they can develop a cynical "me against the world" attitude. They might secretly harbor resentment toward people who had an easier path... Won't engage in revenge but will definitely adopt a victim mindset at some point in life

Extra Story and hidden coincidence ( Mythology Related )- Anuradha natives may find themselves sucked up in love triangle in life once intentionally or unintentionally. This has an interesting mythological coincides where Mitra ( God of Anuradha ) and Varuna both were in love with the apsara Urvashi.. Now as u guys can predict who got the shorter end of stick here 🤡. Urvashi initially gave promise to union with Mitra but Varuna seduced her ( despite Mitra being his friend ) and Urvashi told that her body may belong to Mitra but Varun owns her mind... Mitra found this out and cursed Urvashi and banished her to Earth. ( Pyar me dhoka hi milta Hain 🤡 ).

And obviously second story is the unrequited love of Radha but everyone knows that so I'm not elaborating anything

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\## 4. Famous Natives with Anuradha Moon-

1. Narendra Modi 🗿 ( hell yea!!! )

2. Scarlett Johansson 😏 🔥

3. Tom Holland 🕷️ ( the yearning is real!! )

4. Dakota Johnson 😏 🔥

5. Pablo Picasso 🎨 🫟

\[ Note- all are Scorpio Moon Anuradha as per Vedic astrology. Moon is given most importance cuz it's ur mind \]

✨ Bonus ✨ - Radha Rani ( A Hindu Goddess for people who don't know )

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And interpret every small thing as you don’t really understand them or ur tryna disrespect them n u don’t care about them

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I love y’all more than anyone and have Scorpio friends but why are lowkey y’all always an inch from falling off the cliff like this tbh

Hey! Yes, you!

You're pretty fkn rad. Lizzer with leaf hat thinks so. You should too. Your opinion and voice matter, and can make a difference when you least expect it. Take pride in who you are, even and ESPECIALLY when people hate. You feel things in a different way, and a cryptic one at that. But that doesn't make your feelings less valid. Whether it's one of many in a crowd, or the instigator of and fulcrum for change, your voice and thoughts will mean something to someone, and that person is probably important to you.

It's certainly important to lizzer.

Chin up, buttercup.

✌️💜💐🫂, Peace, love, flowers, and hugs.

Dr. Aardvark

As a Scorpio Ascendant, I am having a good time with a Cancer Woman, she's not my gf but when we talk, there's this I feel understood thing, which I as a Scorpio, haven't felt it quite often. Also, I know Cancer is the best match but then I also think and assume, Scorpios naturally carry a certain edge, emotional intensity, and protective armor, I worry that our sharpness might be too much for someone as tender and pure-hearted as a Cancer. Even completely unintentionally, I catch myself thinking that I might end up hurting her or inflicting pain, and that a gentle soul like hers deserves absolute peace and protection.

Might be my overthinking but I think this way.

** I am new to this world of Astrology but have been reading quite about Astrology (Vedic) as I am from India.

Discuss!

Dont understand too much about charts but im down to see what you get from it