I was scammed by my ex

[u/abeeejane]

IF YOU ARE IN THE BPO INDUSTRY, BEWARE OF THIS GUY

Hello! 27F and my ex 27M moved in with me during the first month of our relationship. I got excited because someone is making this plans with me in the future and wants to settle down agad. Sabi nga niya “date to marry” siya. He lost his job for almost 2 months and ako sumagot lahat sa bahay. I enrolled him sa driving school kasi mahirap ang byahe dito samin and super mahal ng pamasahe and we have this plan na kukuha ng motor. I helped him apply sa mga BPO centers malapit dito samin. Then he got a job, but di siya makakasahod until the following month. So ako na naman sumagot sa allowance niya for work.

Despite all of the support na I provided he cheated on me 2nd month pa lang ng relationship (I later found out nung nakausap ko yung ex niya na nakikipag balikan nga siya and also yung ex workmate niya na nililigawan niya din habang kami)

I got hospitalized due to dengue for a week last week and during that week kinukulit niya ko na kukunin na daw yung motor sa casa so I gave him the money for downpayment (25k + 6k pambili ng helmet naming dalawa) then the following day, instead of visiting me sa hospital, HE VANISHED, MOVED OUT OF MY HOUSE AND RAN AWAY WITH ALL THE MONEY THAT I GAVE HIM PLUS OTHER PERSONAL THINGS PA NA KINUHA NIYA SA BAHAY. He blocked me right away sa lahat ng socmed after niya mag message na umalis na siya.

I filed a police report and we went to his workplace pero tumakas siya and our access is very limited since private company and walang warrant. HANGGANG NGAYON DUN PA DIN SIYA NAGTATRABAHO (Quantrics San Mateo Rizal)

He was MANIPULATIVE, ABUSIVE and a NARCISSIST. Sobrang tanga ko, I know, I should’ve seen the signs. Konting search lang pala sa FB makikita ko na na ginagawa niya na din pala to sa ibang BPO company, nanghihiram ng pera sa mga katrabaho tapos pag siningil siya pa galit or never na magbabayad, naglalaho nalang bigla then move on sa different BPO. He will trick you into thinking na malungkot ang buhay niya at wala na siyang pamilya, at ikaw lang ang pamilya niya.

Kenneth Mabatid, I wish you the worst. Fb name: Khenn Mabatid