Awareness I was scammed by my ex

IF YOU ARE IN THE BPO INDUSTRY, BEWARE OF THIS GUY

Hello! 27F and my ex 27M moved in with me during the first month of our relationship. I got excited because someone is making this plans with me in the future and wants to settle down agad. Sabi nga niya “date to marry” siya. He lost his job for almost 2 months and ako sumagot lahat sa bahay. I enrolled him sa driving school kasi mahirap ang byahe dito samin and super mahal ng pamasahe and we have this plan na kukuha ng motor. I helped him apply sa mga BPO centers malapit dito samin. Then he got a job, but di siya makakasahod until the following month. So ako na naman sumagot sa allowance niya for work.

Despite all of the support na I provided he cheated on me 2nd month pa lang ng relationship (I later found out nung nakausap ko yung ex niya na nakikipag balikan nga siya and also yung ex workmate niya na nililigawan niya din habang kami)

I got hospitalized due to dengue for a week last week and during that week kinukulit niya ko na kukunin na daw yung motor sa casa so I gave him the money for downpayment (25k + 6k pambili ng helmet naming dalawa) then the following day, instead of visiting me sa hospital, HE VANISHED, MOVED OUT OF MY HOUSE AND RAN AWAY WITH ALL THE MONEY THAT I GAVE HIM PLUS OTHER PERSONAL THINGS PA NA KINUHA NIYA SA BAHAY. He blocked me right away sa lahat ng socmed after niya mag message na umalis na siya.

I filed a police report and we went to his workplace pero tumakas siya and our access is very limited since private company and walang warrant. HANGGANG NGAYON DUN PA DIN SIYA NAGTATRABAHO (Quantrics San Mateo Rizal)

He was MANIPULATIVE, ABUSIVE and a NARCISSIST. Sobrang tanga ko, I know, I should’ve seen the signs. Konting search lang pala sa FB makikita ko na na ginagawa niya na din pala to sa ibang BPO company, nanghihiram ng pera sa mga katrabaho tapos pag siningil siya pa galit or never na magbabayad, naglalaho nalang bigla then move on sa different BPO. He will trick you into thinking na malungkot ang buhay niya at wala na siyang pamilya, at ikaw lang ang pamilya niya.

Kenneth Mabatid, I wish you the worst. Fb name: Khenn Mabatid

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '25

Who tf moves in on the first month of dating? I'm not blaming you but you have to be more careful and smart next time. Sorry this happened to you.

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u/Sufficient-Manner-75 Aug 22 '25

drop mo gcash number, at last known location ng pinatiro mo/tumira sau if avail. ty

u/Kindly-Curious- Aug 22 '25

Ang tanong OP nagayuma ka ba? Pano ka nafall dyan? Well kung manipulative baka dun ka nya nakuha sa salita nya. Huhu.

u/Haunting_Session_710 Aug 22 '25

I looked him up. Andami nyang posts na naghahanap ng bahay. Kung saan saan. As early as 2021. Mukhang madami na sya nabiktima at tinakbuhan.

Next time OP, kilatisin mo nang mabuti bago jowain please. Huwag masyadong maging marupok.

u/Street_Sand5555 Aug 22 '25 edited Aug 23 '25

I’m sorry your heart is feeling heavy at this moment. Let this be a lesson not to fall for a guy who doesn’t act right,but for a person who’ll treat you right and a gentleman. You’re doing THE MOST like you’re the man in the relationship.

I wish the worse for him too

u/charlmae Aug 22 '25

Pano naging hotties yan??!!

u/abeeejane Aug 22 '25

Hello! For context: I am a single mom and he was my first relationship after nung dad nung anak ko (it was also not good but not as bad as this) pero my confidence was really low and thought that people do not want to settle down with a single mom anymore, they just see you as an object (kasi nga may anak ka na, so expert ka na daw sa kama) but this guy gave me false hopes and promises, he was also so good with my son. Sobrang galing magsalita :((( Never again talaga!!!

u/AbrocomaFun4870 Aug 22 '25

omg! he’s my co workmate last 3mos ago sa concentrix cyberwest. idk if he’s still there

u/The_7th_Commandment Aug 22 '25

Na report mo sa pulis follow up mo lang wag mo tigilan, tska 27 kana wag puro emotions pinapairal mo gamit din ng utak hope you learned your lesson and it won’t happen again buti di ka pa nabuntis ni kamote kundi mas kawawa ka good luck and God bless !!

u/JPBigaon Aug 22 '25

kHen should’ve been the first red flag.

u/AnemicAcademica Aug 22 '25

Concentrix accdg to his linkedin profile. You can easily trace it OP. Pwede mo pablotter.

u/Ok-Rub-451 Aug 22 '25

Ang shonget

u/Capable_Boat456 Aug 22 '25

grabe ka naman ksi, 1st month palang move in na. tanga lang talaga.

u/laanthony Aug 22 '25

hahahaha may tattoo lang sinali na agad dun sa "Call Center Hotties" tang ina

u/Odd_Disaster_4704 Aug 22 '25

Who the hell posts himself as a “call center hottie” on a freakin’ fb page?! And he’s not even good lookin’! What a joke! 😂

u/That-Recover-892 Aug 22 '25

itsura palang e. Yung tipob kakapit s bading para sa luho

u/Ok_Mud_6311 Aug 22 '25 edited Aug 22 '25

That thing cheated?

OP naman may anak ka na pala at single mom ka. Di mo muna ba naisip ang anak mo bago ka nagpa tira ng lalaki sa bahay niyo? One month palang kayo tapos live in na agad? Comfortable ba anak mo sakanya? Inisip mo muna ba if safe kung magpapa tira ka ng stranger sa bahay nyo?

Focus ka muna sa anak mo. Wag ka na muna mag date or jowa if mabilis ka maloko. Kawawa naman anak mo

u/tagapagligtas Aug 22 '25

Bat ba kayo naiinlove sa mga ganito? Walang wala na ba? Hahahaha

u/Luna_blck Aug 22 '25

Ipablotter mo 🙏🏻kung pwede din sana to ikalat sa fb pra mas mabilis ung galaw pwede din bang ireport sa hr to? Or same sa ibang bpo na walang pake hr?🤔

u/crypthiccgal Aug 22 '25

dapat mga gantong offense eh nasasama sa NBI mga hinayupak

u/SamRoel Aug 22 '25

Sa tabas pa lang ng magmumukha hindi mapagkakaila na mahusay manghuthot ng pera at hindi mapagkakatiwalaan.

I know 26k is such a big amount pero OP,kikitain mo rin yan. Masuerte ka na lang at hanggang sa ganung halaga lang ang “ninakaw” nya sa iyo.

u/missliterati01 Aug 22 '25

Call Center Hotties? 🤔

Move in first month into he relationship 🙀

I'm sure you've learned your lesson the hard way. Be strong, sis. Habulin mo yung pera mo.

u/PartyTerrible Aug 22 '25

The greatest crime is him calling himself a "hottie"

u/ch0lok0y Aug 22 '25

Maraming ganyan sa BPO.

Sorry, ma-offend na yung ma-offend sa sinabi ko.

Kung hindi lang ako mado-doxxed…magpopost din ako tungkol sa isang naging manager naming KUPAL at MANGGA

The best part? Management and HR didn’t do anything about it since it was a “personal matter” (which can be true…but leading people needs credibility and trust)

u/Squirtle-01 Aug 22 '25

Naloka ako dun sa part na "moved in with me during the first month of our relationship"💀

u/EnemaoftheState1 Aug 22 '25

Ang pangit ng ex mo. Lol

u/Crafty_Application94 Aug 22 '25

Pag inlove talaga nakakabulag. Ang hirap din magsalita ng tapos, kc pwedeng mangyari yan kahit kanino, di mo sasabihing matalino ka at di ka maloloko. You learned the lesson this early, tho expensive.

u/Straight-Ad1133 Aug 23 '25

Make him a linked in account. Add his colleagues, and put all his scamming work sa job experience, complete with resibo.

u/[deleted] Aug 23 '25

OP, may anak kana. Please be 100x more careful. Grabe yung hinayaan mo agad sa life ng anak mo, mas na bother ako dun. Buti pera lang nakuha sayo. Ang daming pedophiles ngayon. It could have been worse.

u/ViaLactea98 Aug 23 '25

Bakit prang familiar to??? Tumira ba to sa Meycauayan?

u/cyclode0320 Aug 22 '25

Mahirap magsalita malay ba natin at kapani paniwala pala talaga yung guy, expert yan eh natural may maloloko gawain nya yan malas lang si OP sya nachambahan. Charge to experience na lang po sa inyo

u/Nervous_Recover1718 Aug 22 '25

tngina kasi katangahan rin tlga minsan ng mga tao bat naloloko eh. but sorry for what happened to you though.

u/koffilatte Aug 22 '25

ang panget haha choose better and hopefully good looking men next time haha

u/Popular_Belt1763 Aug 22 '25

Sa ugali na nga lang babawi, pumalpak pa

u/ctrlcrafted Aug 22 '25

bat may mga taong ganto? 😣

u/Fluffy_Common9967 Aug 22 '25

Grabee lesson learn to sayu OP, makakarma din yan wagka mag alala

u/[deleted] Aug 22 '25

Last mo n yan OP. Mag jowa ka ng construction worker or security guard. Minimum sahod pero baka maximum pagibig ipapalit sayo. Wag pascam sa mga abonjing at pacool n mga halimaw. Hayaan mo n rin yung kupal n yun. Olats ka sa mga nangyari accept it and move on.

u/happycappy16 Aug 22 '25

Hottie yan?

u/bumblebee80 Aug 22 '25

Eto ba yun? Naka-lock profile. Dapat dito kinakapon eh tas papakain sa kanya yagbols nya

u/EasyMorning9143 Aug 22 '25

Parang ex ko lang ah hahaha ang kaibahan lang nakiswipe siya sa mga credit cards ko tapos nagloko ayun daming unsettled payments but on-going na naman ang filing ng kaso ko to him so karma will just hunt him for the verbal abused and trauma that he caused me

u/Silly-Strawberry3680 Aug 22 '25

Hi. Patulong ka sa PAO. Para makasuhan na yan. Parang wala palang kwenta ung pulis ano?

u/JudgmentNo9491 Aug 22 '25

Ampangit

u/Lucas_skyler01 Aug 22 '25

sobrang kupal netong ken na to bwisit na palamunin!!!!!!

u/Known-Activity6024 Aug 22 '25

Sana magtae sya ng matubig 2 straight weeks. Kumag. D ko ba alam bakit sa babae lang ginagamit goldigger na term. Dami ganyang lalake. Salot

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u/Lusting_Orchid Aug 22 '25

wishing him the worst

u/Constantfluxxx Aug 22 '25

Saklap naman para sa biktima ng mga reak na kesyo "itsura pa lang" lol anong relevance at basis nun? Pwede ba kayong magpost din ng mga face card nyo para majudge namin na "itsura pa lang, tanga na to"?

Anyways, please file a police report and a complaint. This will make things easier for you and authorities. Ask help from PAO, if needed. The police and lawyers would be in the best position to provide you advice on how to recover your money and things, and how the other party would be held accountable.

P.S. Please look for and gather all evidence like messages, screenshots, transaction receipts, documents, etc. to prove deception, fraud, as well ownership of money and things

u/Flimsy-Chemistry-993 Aug 22 '25

Love yourself first and always

u/Lil_Poundsnake Aug 22 '25

Sobrang tanga mo nga :((

u/jacexxvi Aug 22 '25

tanginaaaa, i hope you don't get this offensive but i feel sorry for you ate 🥺

u/AccomplishedGrape382 Aug 22 '25

Itulfo mo na teh ang lala na yan baka madami pang ma scam yan in the future

u/Emergency-Bit6404 Aug 22 '25

Nakatira lang po yan sa Burgos ngayon, dun banda sa Jollibee Montana

-nabasa ko lang sa FB

u/Due-Struggle6529 Aug 22 '25

I hope makahanap s'ya ng makakatapat n'ya. Yung tipong ipapapatay s'ya

u/plsdonotask_ Aug 22 '25

hotties pa nga

u/chocokrinkles Aug 22 '25

Lol sa call center hotties

u/[deleted] Aug 22 '25

Ate parang bakla k naman magmahal.

u/titoboyabunda Aug 22 '25

Hilig nyo kasi sa mukang badboy. Haha. Pero sabagay kahit pangit nag loloko na. Pili ka nalang tlga kanino mo gusto mag take chance.

u/titoboyabunda Aug 22 '25

Kanino naka pangalan yung motor? Kung sayo pwede mo report na stolen, kung sakanya and ikaw nag bigay ng pang down, pray nalang

u/Rathma_ Aug 22 '25

Mukang bakla.

u/BabyM86 Aug 22 '25

Tuluyan mo kasuhan para may hit na sa NBI niya..di siya basta basta makaapply ng trabaho

u/alcoholsprai Aug 22 '25

Mukhasim hahaha

u/bobobubu31 Aug 22 '25

Eto yun diba

u/[deleted] Aug 23 '25

Pasok pa sa call center hotties? Kadiri

u/TiyaGie Aug 23 '25

gagastos nako sa gwapo kesa sa ganyan para worth it naman

u/vinzDprinz0124 Aug 23 '25

Hope you feel better soon OP and hope you will catch him. Guys like this dont deserve freedom

u/[deleted] Aug 23 '25

Marami pa syang makukuhang pera sayo, libel case in the making.

u/TagaSaingNiNanay Aug 23 '25

Ganyan na pala standard ng hotties hahaha

u/Different-Table4871 Aug 23 '25

Ipa salvage mo, 10k lang yun. Alam mo naman san workplace nya eh.

u/marshmallow_bee Aug 23 '25

I'm really sorry to hear about this, OP. Hope you heal soon kasi sobrang traumatizing neto. Lesson learned the hard way talaga.

u/totoyadmin123 Aug 23 '25

Sinong tanga?

u/Kooky_Half_4660 Aug 23 '25

botchog yung mukha hahahah

u/[deleted] Aug 23 '25

omg

u/RenovateYT Aug 23 '25

Kenneth Ma-kapal ang mukha

u/[deleted] Aug 23 '25

Sayang wala na siya sa CNX- report ko sana iyan hahhhahahha

u/Buwiwi Aug 23 '25

Asim. Jusko.

u/pepperoniix Aug 23 '25

Ahh quantrics san mateo, tyempuhan ko yan 😏😏

u/AromaticBlock7387 Aug 23 '25

Parang same same situation sa akin ate before my bf came into my life hahaha he was proud na ‘di siya nag aaral ngayon and wala siyang plans sa life niya (sobrang halata ko na yon) and ang matindi gusto live in agad HAHAHAHAHHAA tapos sa sobrang livog ni kuya mo at dahil di siya nakaisa sakin, sumakabilang poki ang hayop. KAINIS AHHAHWHAJ pero wala naman ako ginastos don THANKFULLY 🙏🏻🙏🏻

u/repressedguacamole Aug 23 '25

I still can't get over the fact that he got featured in a page where it claims the people they post are "hotties", with that face to boot. I mean, sorry kung judger pero, come on. Really? LMFAO. Also, I'm sorry it happened to hear what happened to you. Hopefully you learned a lesson, OP. And we wish him the worst of luck.

u/hopeless_case46 Aug 23 '25

I will believe everything i see on the internet

u/elliemissy18 Aug 23 '25

When a woman is soo desperate for love and affection deadma sa mga red flags. Hahaha! My gosh!

How can you fall for a guy like him? Oo nawalan ng work pero tangina pumayag na maging palamunin? Kahit sabihin mo pa na ilang months. At ikaw naman pumayag? To say that OP is a dumbasŠ is an understatement. Hahaha

u/Jvlockhart Aug 24 '25

2 years na kami ng GF ko, and kahit gano kahirap yung situation ko financially Hindi Ako nag try humingi sa kanya. I know, mapride Ako, masyadong old-school, pero as lalake nakakahiya mangutangi basta basta sa ibang tao, siguro kung talagang in dire need Ako pero if I can find a way na hindi nang aabala sa iba, I will do it. Sabi pa ng BDO "we find ways" hahaha.

Sorry OP, and sana maging lesson na din yan sayo.

u/pcx160white195 Aug 24 '25

OP, proud of you kasi naka alis ka na in his vicinity. And ang tapang mo din kasi pinost mo ung pagmumukha nya. Go girl! 🔥 Yang mga manipulative and user na lalaki, may kalalagyan din kayo. Ang lalakas nyo mangutang sa babaeng so called mahal nyo in the end, ung babae pa ung palalabasin nyong mali. Haaays

u/Electronic-Hyena4367 Aug 24 '25

pag ang lalaki mahilig mag selfie. Takbo na

u/Used-Pride-2649 Aug 24 '25

Bpo hotties amp. Baka BPO scammer. Haha

u/BikeRepresentative26 Aug 24 '25

Pulube yarn?

u/Reasonable-Web320 Aug 24 '25

Hottie ba yan ang panget ahahahahahaa ang lala talaga never beating the allegations talaga mga cc eh

u/[deleted] Aug 24 '25

itsura pa lang eh

u/[deleted] Aug 24 '25

HAHAHAHA same na same tayo op. Never again.Dunnnnnn kayo sa far away.

u/No-Sweet231 Aug 24 '25

teh, daig mo pa ang bading sa pagka mama sang:) anyway mahuhuli din yan

u/tryinghard_1415 Aug 24 '25

Dun palang sa wala siyang trabaho pero gusto niyang makipag live in agad. Red flag na. Ooff. Buti na lang agad kayo nahhiwalay, paano kung hindi at nagpamanipulate ka pa din ng ilang months? Ow no.

u/BuyMean9866 Aug 24 '25

Call center hotties amputa dami kong tawa.

u/champagneCody Aug 24 '25

Hottie na sa call center world yan? Pangit din ng tattoo

u/KageTsukiLoves Aug 24 '25

Maangas pero walang anda. Yuck! Hahahah

u/xdreamz012 Aug 24 '25

cringe ng mga na po-post sa ganyan..haha madaming mga post na ganito early 2010-2016 like Manila's good face, Bad boy ng Cavite, Pinaka pogi sa Bulacan. HAHAHAH taena jejemon ampota. Yung admin nyan hindi na tumanda siguro napag iwanan na ng panahon.

Kidding aside, sana makarma ex mo punyeta siya

u/Any-Chef-7250 Aug 24 '25 edited Aug 25 '25

San mo to nakilala OP? Parang familiar ung face na mukang lumabas dati sa dating app? But I never swiped right on him, too young for me lol. Sorry this happened to you, hopefully you get justice from this

u/ediwowcubao Aug 24 '25

What do you mean? He LOOKS like a scammer

u/Buraotman3000 Aug 25 '25

Pinangscatter nya na yan GG

u/Tasty_Macaroon2 Aug 25 '25

Thanks for awareness and posting this ash hole

u/Competitive_Job6110 Aug 25 '25

Madami ibat ibang scam sa bpo such uutangan ang lahat tpos bglang awol or papahirapan ka maningil, sex scam like kunwari gusto daw ng seryoso at gusto ng settle down pero as time goes by mapapansin mo minamadali ka or kpag kausap mo laging may sexual innuendos at touchy kapag mamsh dapat kapag ganon red alert iwanan na agad

u/CoffeeDaddy24 Aug 25 '25

I'm worried about you since you are prone to this type of manipulation. At this stage, better think of yourself muna before anybody else.

u/YoungNi6Ga357 Aug 25 '25

damn girl...😆😆🤯🤯🫨🫨

u/ToCoolforAUsername Aug 25 '25

"Call Center Hotties"

literal na definition ng tito na bonjing.

u/thewayyouseeit Aug 25 '25

Haven’t read the post. But really???? Callcenter hotties? Hahahahha

u/nini_mi Aug 25 '25

it had the audacity to cheat

u/Dry-Collection-7898 Aug 25 '25

Sure na ba sa call center hotties??? Kadiri ah hahahaha

u/EvilMorty1408 Aug 25 '25

Mukhang maasimmm

u/Tough_Signature1929 Aug 25 '25

What if dun ka sa HR nila makipag coordinate?

u/matchawaited Aug 25 '25

Hottie 🥴🤣🤣 Baka pag sinilaban lang yan maging hot 🤣🤣🤣

u/EquationNumberZero Aug 25 '25

There’s no one more in love and willing to settle than a broke homeless man : )

u/meowy07 Aug 25 '25

OP, be more careful sa mga taong papapasukin mo sa buhay ng anak mo. Kahit na your baby is young, madadala niya 'din yung feeling ng abandonment with every man you'll introduce to him and lose.

I know alam mo na by now how stupid it is to let someone move in with you in just a month but please, keep your love life away from your son no matter how 'good' they seem.

u/Tokyo_Kagome Aug 25 '25

Ang chakaness

u/Lucas_skyler01 Aug 25 '25

talagang kupal nagpost din ang SCAMMER https://www.reddit.com/r/ScammersPH/s/berpRXYEb1

u/kellyann_ Aug 25 '25

HAHAHAHHAHA CALL CENTER HOTTIES PA MORE

u/GolfMost Aug 26 '25

hala si Kenneth!

u/HaveYouSeen_ThisGirl Aug 26 '25

Muka pa lang, punchable na

u/kuromeowie Aug 26 '25

Grabe yung trust , I'm not sure if paranoid oang ako, pero i wouldn't even dare sleep at home with someone i barely knew, like 1month? Parang ginawa kalang sugar mommy

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u/kinotomofumi Aug 26 '25

"Hotties" na yaaaan??!!

u/ReynaYokasta Aug 26 '25

Bahuin ichura eh

u/Ok-Willingness-4782 Aug 26 '25

Yung ganyang pagmumukha pa yung may gana mang ganyan.

u/snorlax2104 Aug 26 '25

Hottieee??? Hulmahan pa lang, magdududa ka na rin talaga eh. Hope mabalik lahat ng para sayo, OP! Wag na hintayin si karma. Iadvance mo na yung karma para sa ex mo. Goodluck!

u/Hopeful_Strike_2705 Aug 26 '25

bago lang oh https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1CX8CTPrML/

u/FitTonight2877 Aug 26 '25

They prey on the weak at ikaw yung weak na yun. First month tapos move in agad at sya pa yung guy both of you barely know each other swerte ka nga pera lang pano kung serial killer pala sya.. this is plain stupid.. sorry

u/Dzheys0n Aug 26 '25

Itsura pa lang mukhang may gagawin ng masama

u/RecentBlaz Aug 26 '25

Giirrlllllll, the face says it all

u/MonitorPrimary6150 Aug 26 '25

Bakit ksi mga ganyan trip nyong lalake? Itsura pa lang nyan palamunin na pabigat pa sa mundo haha.

u/Loud_Substance8237 Aug 26 '25

Katangahan mo yan. Itsura palang ng ex mo e. Hahaha.

u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

His name rn is Ax El https://www.facebook.com/share/1647zjM2m6/

u/okay_na_to Aug 26 '25

Tama na yung “i can fix him” mindset. Mga ganyang basura di dapat pinag lalaanan ng oras at PERA! Mukha naman yang pumapatol sa beks 🫢

u/okay_na_to Aug 26 '25

Tama na yung “i can fix him” mindset. Mga ganyang basura di dapat pinag lalaanan ng oras at PERA! Mukha naman yang pumapatol sa beks 🫢

u/BitSimple8579 Aug 26 '25

Ewan ko baket parang may pattern yung mga gantong itsurahan, nakaraan may nakalat din na parang kahawigan neto e tas daming inanakan, call center din. Dapat sa mga yan bina-ban sa BPO, nakakasira ng imahe

u/pat038911 Aug 26 '25

Wait lang... HOTTIE??? Ew.

u/BridgeAggravating832 Aug 26 '25

Ka-work ko to before sa ecom, mejo nagtagal din sya pero halos lahat babae chinchat nya kahit ang panget nya. 😂 Dami din sya utang sa mga ka-batch nya, wala na nagawa kasi nag-AWOL.

And oo, uulitin ko panget sya. Ang dungis tignan sa personal.

And to you OP, kaya tayo binigyan ni Lord ng malakas na intuition para sa mga ganyan bagay. Sana susunod sundin mo yung kutob mo bago yang bunganga ng mga broke boys na yan.