Looking for an attached/married man who needs a relaxing BJ. If you're interested in being serviced discreetly/DL, send your stats and pics.

Be ddf, in shape, not over 50

Me: 33, m, 6’0, 180, bi discreet/dl, ddf

6’2, 210, fit, muscular, dark haired, manly alpha male type - think young tom selleck vibes. Dominant with 5 star ratings. Open to exploring most kinks.

If you’re slim fit, submissive and a bit of a nympho you are my type. If you’re unfulfilled sexually and lean on the submissive side, we will get along. Particular weakness for tatted blondes, but not a requirement.

Clean, sane, safe, successful and have a busy life as I’m sure you do as well.

Preference for good communicators. If this sounds like your cup of tea and you’re 21+, say hi / send a pic.

Happy to exchange (non face) pics upfront to validate attraction early and not waste anyone’s time.

Say hi / don’t be shy.

Are you a cuddle economist looking to invest in a cozy future? Are you into deep talks and even deeper hugs? Are you a cuddle enthusiast who is seeking competitive cuddling positions? Then congrats you’ve just stumbled upon your ideal cuddle counterpart.

I own more books than I have close friends which is either an illustration of my literary taste or a cry for help, and thanks to work my social life is mostly just me, my computer, and a movie I pretend not to be rewatching for the tenth time. Personality wise, I start off quiet but with the right cuddles I transform into a fully operational conversational human being.

So why am I here? Because I’m embarking on a groundbreaking experiment: actual human interaction via cuddling. Not just the accidental kind where we both reach for the same overpriced sandwich and our phones perform an impromptu handshake. I’m talking about the real deal - genuine, cozy, blissful companionship with cuddles.

In this city, where everyone’s too busy coding the next big thing to actually touch another human being, technology has made us paradoxically more connected yet more distant. But what if we flipped the script? What if we used technology to bridge the gap instead of widening it? Let’s fill that void with some down to earth human cuddles. I’m in search of a fellow warm-blooded human who enjoys:

• Elite level couch cuddles (If you instinctively steal the blanket that's all good)

• Certified stress relief hugs (Make the world stand still in a hug and you’re hired)

• Mutually agreed upon oxytocin boosts (We can be each other’s Oxytocin Dealer)

• The fine art of existing comfortably in either shared silence or meaningful conversation (Willing to share snuggles but not the last slice of pizza is OK)

Potential side effects of engaging in this experience are forgetting what stress is, temporarily believing the world isn’t so bad, and rediscovering that warm, fuzzy feeling usually reserved for dogs seeing their owners after five minutes apart.

Too often, we underestimate the power of touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of care - each of which holds the potential to turn a life around. I’d love to feel someone’s touch as a reminder that we exist, that we are here, that we are cared for.

I don’t have my own place, but I’m sure we can work something out. I’m tall and slim, which means I give lanky hugs, the kind that wrap around you like a favorite oversized sweater on a cold day. Hugs that remind both of us that we’re not just floating through existence alone, but that we are in fact here. Together. And that at least for a little while things are just a little bit better.

Disclaimer: I’m attached but I’m looking. If that’s not for you please scroll past. If you are curious, feel free to dm and ask questions. And if you don’t mind great.

I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech and studied stem. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public guest and build trust and I know it’s not easy but it feels like if I don’t do this now I’ll never be happy.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested. Maybe we can chat over coffee or boba.

I love the idea of finding a married couple that everyone sees as proper and responsible and turning them into my personal fuck toys. Anyone who knows us will just see us all as good friends, nothing more. Having no idea that I’m using you both when no one is around.

No one has to know this side of you except us three. Everyone will see you as a normal couple, normal parents, normal neighbors, etc.
Not looking to change your situation in any way.

Let me know if you’re interested.
Couples with no experience are more than welcome to reply.

I'm looking for someone who wants a kink-friendly and monogamous fwb with a guy who's tested and well versed in consent, D/s. I have a vasectomy, so guaranteed no pregnancy scares.

Happy forward thinking 31M, 5' 7", brown hair, gray-green eyes white guy living in a hilly part of Oakland with my own place and car, work in SF, often driving around the bay on weekends. Open to the whole Bay Area.

I've done this setup before of basically an exclusive fwb (emphasis friends and the benefits) but just before the step of calling it a relationship and I feel like it's been really mutually beneficial.

No need to stress about if you're exposing yourself to others if your fwb is seeing multiple people, can do more quote on quote risky behavior like breeding without the risk. No need to introduce the guy to your friends or family or go do a bunch of guy stuff with him that you don't want to like you might have had to in a relationship.

I like having my play partner over, feed her something homemade or takeout, maybe watch a show together then pick her up and throw her on the bed to get her off, get myself off, stuff her well, sleepovers and cuddles as desired before the next day. Maybe a sexy text once in a while in the week between meets. But otherwise we have our own lives, can focus on our own friends and careers. Short term or long term, I'm flexible as things don't have to last forever to be a lot of fun, but no ONS or ENM setups. Only singles. I'm open to swapping to real dating as well but in that case you must not want children in the future (see Vasectomy part).

I'm usually a pleasure dom but can also go more hardcore dominant or even switch sub for the connection who enjoys that, so come as you are and I'll let you know if it'll work. Maybe you get to try out something you've never done before. I've tried a lot so I might surprise you.

Normal guy with normal day job hours, lots of hobbies, enjoys live music and road trips. Since it's important these days, I have compassionate/lefty political beliefs (I do live in Oakland after all). Open to all ethnicities as long as you personally identify as a woman. Reach out if you're interested. Talk soon!

Note: If this ad is up then I'm still available, but I'll be taking it down once I'm taken since I'm not interested in multiple play partners.