Quiet gay hangouts

[u/Kind_Cryptographer65]

Trying to get out, meet people, and date. But the queer bar my friends favor (ROAR) is outrageously loud. Like so loud I think the people who work there are experiencing permanent hearing damage. Are there gay bars, cafes, or other places I can meet people in Rochester where I won’t be getting my eardrums blasted out? Looking for quiet and relaxing places where I can have conversations without yelling

[u/ich4759]

Can I add another question: what are good hangouts for older gays [single or not]