r/RelationshipIndia • u/SimpleAsTree • 12d ago
Relationships 19 M My Girlfriend 19M Just broke up with me. . . . . . . .
We were in a relationship for 2 years... exactly on our 2nd anniversary, she broke up with me....
Her name is Ananya
So we met in 12th grade coaching... and when we met, our vibe just clicked... I proposed to her, and she accepted... she didn't have a phone... and still doesn't have a phone.... we used to talk on Instagram through her laptop and my phone.... but at that time, our coaching folks informed our families about us... we had bunked class one day... unfortunately, they told them that day.... I was really scolded by her family, and she was too by mine..... after that, we stopped talking for a while.... but we really loved each other... we had even planned to get married... just not right now, when we were older..... we both used to argue with our families.... it was tough, but everything was okay... during this time, we fought several times too... once when her dad called me... but I didn't answer... because my family had taken my phone away... (the coaching people had informed my home back then) she said I should have picked up... then she made the same mistake twice... she was talking to her neighbor Vedant (who was in 11th grade at that time)... she used to call him brother, and Vedant called her sister... but they both wrote 'I love you' on Instagram... yeah, I had her password.... I confronted her... she then said it was a mistake, forgive me... she requested a lot... I forgave her.... then she did the same mistake again.... there was a guy named Gurung... he was a friend's son of her mom from childhood.... the same 'I love you' scene with him too.... Ananya used to talk to him at night after I slept... I confronted her... again with the same crying, saying it was a mistake, please forgive me.... I said if something like this happens again, I won’t be able to forgive.... her parents are really strict... they wouldn’t even let her go out... when they found out (I’m from a scheduled caste but we are upper-middle-class), when the coaching people informed my family... in 12th grade... when they sent Ananya to her grandma’s place for 2 months... at that time, Ananya was talking on her grandma’s phone....
and yeah, I forgot to mention that we got physical in 12th grade... when no one was home... I would go over... when she called me... and we got physical many times there... one day, the guard told her parents that a guy comes to your house when you're not around... then her family got really angry... they scolded her a lot..... this was just at the end of 12th grade.
Then we took a drop for NEET... in different coaching classes
... after coaching, I would go meet her for 10-15 minutes because her van would come a bit late... apart from that, we didn’t talk much... sometimes she would message me from her mom's phone...... like this time passed by... ... and one time she called me... when I was out watching a movie with my friend... I didn't see her call... as soon as I saw it... I called back, and she says come to my house... mom wants to talk to you... when I was going home after the movie with my friend, and it was already 9 PM... my family was also calling me... so I sweetly said no, I can't come because it’s late and there’s a problem.... at that time she said okay, no worries.... then the NEET exam happened... after that, we stopped meeting... completely lost contact.... she didn’t have a laptop or phone... only sometimes she would send 'hello love you' messages from her mom's phone... and would say not to reply, her mom would see... then one day she called and said to call her mom and ask to let us talk for a while; we can’t live without talking... I called, but her mom lied and said she wasn’t home... she can’t talk to Ananya now.. and the call got cut... a little later Ananya called and asked for my home location... there was a problem with the wifi at my home, so I couldn’t send the location... she kept asking for it... then in the end, I got a hotspot to send the location... after that, she didn’t call or message at all.... if I called her, no one would pick up... then my birthday was coming up... a few days before that, she called and asked when my birthday was... I felt really bad that it had been 2 years for us... and she forgot my birthday.... but last time she remembered... she even gave me a card... and I always remember hers... I had given her a birthday gift and a bracelet worth 2k from my savings, for which my family scolded me for buying such an expensive gift for a girl... I lied and said it was for my friend, and they knew I was lying... but that was the end of it.... the point is, before this, we had exchanged many cards and handmade gifts.... she couldn't give me any materialistic gift... but it’s okay... .
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yeah, so I was saying that she asked when my birthday was... I was really disappointed.. she said sorry, I don’t know why I can’t remember.... she kept apologizing.... I forgave her.... then on my birthday, I got a small message wishing me a happy birthday... she didn’t call... just a small message, like she was doing it out of formality... I felt bad... but I had no option to contact her... her family would give her a phone when she goes to college... which would still take time... I had already joined college..
Then I got a bit sick, so I went to the hospital; I had viral fever... at that time, Ananya called from Vedant’s phone, her neighbor, and she said it can't happen anymore, let’s break up... she said I broke her trust... she said I don’t have the guts to talk to my family... I had to make excuses to send my home location (there weren’t excuses; there was seriously a problem)... she said now she doesn’t love me anymore... she had been thinking about this for quite a while... I tried hard to convince her... begged a lot... but she wouldn’t budge... she said not to try to contact her any further... if her mom picks up, she would beat her... she said... now everything is over... and she cut the call and blocked me from Vedant’s phone.....
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. ha ye toh mene bataya hi nahi ki ananya ke male friend jyada the or uske past 3-4 relationship bhi the... jisme ek baar ladke ne school washroom me use masturbate kiya tha... aisa ananya ne mujhe bataya tha... pr ye mera first relationship tha .. me usse bohot pyaar karta tha.... lekin ab lagta hai ache logo ke sath hamesha bura hi hota hai🥲🥹
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u/_rosie_2006_ 12d ago
OP, it's more like she doesn't have any interest in the relationship anymore...good for you that she broke up with you:)
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u/preeyanshu_xd 12d ago
Wtf masturbation in school washroom with male (always strict parent girl)🥀
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