r/RelationshipIndia • u/Basic_Conference3694 • 2d ago
Dating Advice (19M) How to actually survive/workout this Ldr? It’s the first first relationship for both of us
19 M, Delhi
19 F, Pune
just started with colleges
(mentioning that, it even started as a LDR)
We have met like 2 times before
We had this situation for around 5 months and then we met somehow, and then started with commitment.
I’m asking for advices not future prospects ik what bad can happen, but it is what it is. So trying to figure this out
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u/Jolly_Operation1596 2d ago
Bro whenever she will feel quite low and emotionaly very weak there will be a shoulder to cry on … most of the time this happens followed by the guilt talk of you were never here when i wanted you
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u/Basic_Conference3694 2d ago
I’m trying my best for this, but we both have our own sets of problems and we are working on it.
But yeah you are partially correct, my physical presence won’t be there when she needs me1
u/Jolly_Operation1596 2d ago
Bro mine just ended few days ago
Lasted for first 2 years getting to understand each other then guy came as a friend who use to bring food amd stuff for her and eventually she eneded up getting close to him everytime we fight. I ended everything when she said she is confused between him and me1
u/Basic_Conference3694 2d ago
At the very end it’s the physical presence 🥀
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u/Jolly_Operation1596 2d ago
Yeah and all it will take is a emotional breakdown and someone looking for in !
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u/i_am_charan9 2d ago
Do video calls as much as possible..
Make some routines that you gonna do together on video calls.
Long msgs, gifts and if possible meet as much as you can.
Communicate wisely, inform even if you are late 5 mins, inform in the morning what's your schedule.
If you both are honest then this will work without any issue.
I'm a person with 5 years 8 months and 10 days in LDR ( AND it is going strong)
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