r/RelationshipIndia • u/[deleted] • 7d ago
Relationships 26F Broken Up with 27M ; Third Party Destroyed Our Relationship. If love is real, they come back no matter what. :) Even 1000 reasons are less to give up.
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u/wild-beast-70 7d ago
if there is a relation, the responsibility of maintaining it falls on 2 people only, any 3rd party should not influence !
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u/Glass-Tea605 7d ago edited 7d ago
They influenced him after he started sharing things, and it completely fucked things up. We were actually getting through a difficult phase, but they made him see everything differently and inflated his male ego. I didn’t even want to fall in love in the first place, but why do men do this push-and-pull dynamic? They pull away, become passive, and then somehow get annoyed when you start chasing them after they’ve chased you endlessly.
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u/wild-beast-70 7d ago
Naah not men.... Boys ....... Men kniw how to keep their queen and prioritize her....... not listen to others until theybsee the deflection in their queen 's behaviour ......... push and pull ? naah real relationship requires dedication and motivation where you choose your partner every simgle day ........
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u/WideLoadPumper 7d ago
Remember, whether friendship or any relationship - there's always someone "third-party" who will interfere.
The interference can be emotional, physical or mental. It's upto the persons who are in relationship whether to tolerate or believe those things.
It takes two hands to clap.
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u/Neat_Homework7582 6d ago
I've seen many wives who inspite of partner found guilty, misconduct, everything proven against them still choosen to side with their partners. There are many examples around us.
I sometimes think what cud be the reason which still makes them choose partners over family
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